female friend actively encouraging me to leave my coworker alone.

[Areuready]

So ive been traveling from LA to NYC for work and i work with this latina college girl from Florida sometimes, Shes really cute and warmed up to me. I haven't hung out with her alone but we have been a group of 3. 3 of us would hang out, we were in nyc, and on our off time she hung out with me and went around the city, She wanted to take selfies with me. The 3rd person with us was a female friend as well. I worked with the latina girl a handful of times but this was a rare time we are getting to hang out and stuff, shes adorable and sweet and friendly and She also apparently thinks I'm 6'1ft and thinks im funny. I got to meet her dad in NYC. we would do group meals sometimes.

Well i asked my other female friend if the girl said anything about me and she asks me why? I say JW. and then she goes off on this rant that i shouldn't pursue anything with her because shes a coworker and "shes young dude lol" Because yeah I guess even if you're legally an adult you're a "minor" and thats grooming now. I'm rarely into anyone because of how blackpilled i am, but when i have a glimmer of hope to even make a new friend its "OH SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOU!!" "SHE'S NOT INTERESTED!". We (The college aged girl and I) followed each other on instagram and such, i dont see what the big deal is or why I have to be shot down immediately

 

[Areuready]

The main thing that's destroying me is I didnt get my weightloss goal yet so im overweight and it makes me sick to my stomach because I didnt expect to meet someone id be interested in. and i'm still fat. ugh.

 

[maxeverything]

She’s jealous, not necessarily because she’s into you but because a younger woman is getting attention. Women have the same primal insecurity about younger females that men do about being dickmogged. When I was 22 and dating an 18 year old female friends I had at the time would always make comments about it.

 

[Deleted member 4362]

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