Fetish

[Lonely]

I have a messed up fetish that's damaging my mental health. How do I get rid of it?

 

[WOMENAREQUEENSNOT]

Stop watching incest porn

 

[Lonely]

Stop watching incest porn

I don't watch porn

 

[Deleted member 21393]

I have a messed up fetish that's damaging my mental health. How do I get rid of it?

I need to know what it is if I’m going to help

 

[Lonely]

I need to know what it is if I’m going to help

I can't share it, but it has to do with humiliation, self hate and low self esteem.

 

[Trustworthyfish]

I can't share it, but it has to do with humiliation, self hate and low self esteem.

Are you into cock and ball torture? If thats the case then its ok to tell us. We need to know what it is in order to save you

 

[Lonely]

Are you into cock and ball torture? If thats the case then its ok to tell us. We need to know what it is in order to save you

Nah, that's not it. I can't share it just please gimme some advice lol

 

[Trustworthyfish]

Nah, that's not it. I can't share it just please gimme some advice lol

We NEED to know the root of the problem in order to solve it. We can't just tell you to do something without knowing your situation.

 

[Deleted member 20927]

I don’t even need to hear you say it because I likely would be able to guess within 3 tries, and it doesn’t matter what it is specifically because I know how it eventually encompasses 90% of the topic. There is no escape, you will not be able to not think about it. All you can do is bottle it up and never ever tell a girl. You have to escortcel to let it out. You cannot let that shit get out it’s fucking brutal. Yeah you can find girls who will do it because they like it, but it’s always going to loom over your head more. Don’t ever let people have this dirt on you bro.

 

[Lonely]

I don’t even need to hear you say it because I likely would be able to guess within 3 tries, and it doesn’t matter what it is specifically because I know how it eventually encompasses 90% of the topic. There is no escape, you will not be able to not think about it. All you can do is bottle it up and never ever tell a girl. You have to escortcel to let it out. You cannot let that shit get out it’s fucking brutal. Yeah you can find girls who will do it because they like it, but it’s always going to loom over your head more. Don’t ever let people have this dirt on you bro.

No. I don't want to believe this. I'd rather rope than still have this fetish. I can't go to an escort either. I never want to live it out.

 

[Deleted member 14774]

I don’t even need to hear you say it because I likely would be able to guess within 3 tries, and it doesn’t matter what it is specifically because I know how it eventually encompasses 90% of the topic.

What is it?

 

[Deleted member 20927]

No. I don't want to believe this. I'd rather rope than still have this fetish. I can't go to an escort either. I never want to live it out.

the short time periods I’m able to go on no fap I get aggressive enough to just want normal sex, the more time you’re alone, the more time you fuck yourself over. Try doing rounds of not jerking off like for a week straight and then letting it out. Limiting yourself makes you want more primal sex, sometimes you still want the fetish, but the way you think about it isn’t nearly as degrading

 

[Lonely]

the short time periods I’m able to go on no fap I get aggressive enough to just want normal sex, the more time you’re alone, the more time you fuck yourself over. Try doing rounds of not jerking off like for a week straight and then letting it out. Limiting yourself makes you want more primal sex, sometimes you still want the fetish, but the way you think about it isn’t nearly as degrading

I don't know how to explain it but NoFap doesn't work for me. I try it, and I relapse on the same day because I get so incredibly horny I can't think straight.

I've started SSRIs, which will kill my libido and force me to be on NoFap. If I stay away from the fetish for long enough, will it go away?

 

[Deleted member 20927]

I don't know how to explain it but NoFap doesn't work for me. I try it, and I relapse on the same day because I get so incredibly horny I can't think straight.

I've started SSRIs, which will kill my libido and force me to be on NoFap. If I stay away from the fetish for long enough, will it go away?

No dude, you are fucking yourself entirely by doing that, there is an inherently masculine energy you can derive from struggling through this. I have been trying to rid myself of it for literally a decade. It comes and goes in waves of the 5 stages of grief. A majority of my life and personal issues stem from this. Sometimes you accept it and then realize why you don’t want to have it in this libtard run world. It isn’t normal, it is trauma. You have to do what you can to preserve your entity and live with yourself. Any form of chemical castration is not the answer. All we can do is be there for each other as men in these times, just talking like this helps

 

[Lonely]

No dude, you are fucking yourself entirely by doing that, there is an inherently masculine energy you can derive from struggling through this. I have been trying to rid myself of it for literally a decade. It comes and goes in waves of the 5 stages of grief. A majority of my life and personal issues stem from this. Sometimes you accept it and then realize why you don’t want to have it in this libtard run world. It isn’t normal, it is trauma. You have to do what you can to preserve your entity and live with yourself. Any form of chemical castration is not the answer. All we can do is be there for each other as men in these times, just talking like this helps

I don't know what to do man. I'm faced with 2 options: always having trash self esteem, mental issues, anxiety and low confidence because I gave into my fetish because it's just that powerful, or chemical castration because which has similar effects. It's like choosing my poison. What difference does it make?

 

[Deleted member 20927]

I don't know what to do man. I'm faced with 2 options: always having trash self esteem, mental issues, anxiety and low confidence because I gave into my fetish because it's just that powerful, or chemical castration because which has similar effects. It's like choosing my poison. What difference does it make?

Being human comes with struggles. I don’t know what you do in your life. I’ve always been a gymmaxxer since early high school, I’ve been known as an extrovert and all around masculine person. It goes against my identity entirely. Building yourself up in other areas helps as it becomes like a break to the thoughts

 

[Lonely]

Being human comes with struggles. I don’t know what you do in your life. I’ve always been a gymmaxxer since early high school, I’ve been known as an extrovert and all around masculine person. It goes against my identity entirely. Building yourself up in other areas helps as it becomes like a break to the thoughts

Exactly. I try to be masculine too. I gymmaxx, I've taken massive risks, fought people, provided and protected, but my fetish goes against my principles and identity in every way. I genuinely want to shoot myself man.

 

[The Grinch]

Exactly. I try to be masculine too. I gymmaxx, I've taken massive risks, fought people, provided and protected, but my fetish goes against my principles and identity in every way. I genuinely want to shoot myself man.

It can’t be that bad, you are probably making it worse than it is

 

[Lonely]

It can’t be that bad, you are probably making it worse than it is

It's very bad. The worst fetish a man can possibly have.

 

[The Grinch]

It's very bad. The worst fetish a man can possibly have.

You shouldn’t make a fetish your entire identity. If you have weird fetishes, it’s totally ok, everyone has secret fetishes he doesen’t tell others about

 

[Baldingman1998]

Is it femdom?

 

[Lonely]

You shouldn’t make a fetish your entire identity. If you have weird fetishes, it’s totally ok, everyone has secret fetishes he doesen’t tell others about

It affects me despite that, and I really don't want it.

 

[Lonely]

Is it femdom?

It is linked to femdom, but not in the realm of femdom.

 

[Baldingman1998]

It is linked to femdom, but not in the realm of femdom.

Cuck? shit eating? Dick sucking? Being a slave to Stacy? Drinking piss? Ball busting? Pegging? Getting castrated? Dildo sucking? Feet? Ass eating?

 

[Lonely]

Cuck? shit eating? Dick sucking? Being a slave to Stacy? Drinking piss? Ball busting? Pegging? Getting castrated? Dildo sucking? Feet? Ass eating?

I won't say, but it's one of them.

 

[Baldingman1998]

I won't say, but it's one of them.

Gottem

 

[Baldingman1998]

I won't say, but it's one of them.

Stop watching porn

 

[Lonely]

Stop watching porn

I no longer watch porn

 

[Baldingman1998]

I no longer watch porn

Then how is your fetish affecting you if you aren't indulging in it

 

[Lonely]

Then how is your fetish affecting you if you aren't indulging in it

I still fap to thoughts of it in my head, pics with captions related to it etc

Also, if I fap to normal pics of girls, I imagine the girls doing the fetish to me

 

[Baldingman1998]

I still fap to thoughts of it in my head, pics with captions related to it etc

Also, if I fap to normal pics of girls, I imagine the girls doing the fetish to me

Are you one of the simps that donates money to gilrs on twitter? Please stop

 

[Lonely]

Are you one of the simps that donates money to gilrs on twitter? Please stop

Nah lol

 

[Baldingman1998]

@TsarTsar444 we need your expertise

 

[Baldingman1998]

Sounds to me like you read some fucked up hentai story that deeply traumatized you and now you're trying to forget it but can't and it has become an obsession.

 

[Lonely]

Sounds to me like you read some fucked up hentai story that deeply traumatized you and now you're trying to forget it but can't and it has become an obsession.

Eh, not exactly but close enough I guess.

 

[Deleted member 21166]

I have a messed up fetish that's damaging my mental health. How do I get rid of it?

Spend 30 days off the computer and have a daily routine. Wake up early and life a better lifestyle.

 

[ChristianChad]

I can't share it, but it has to do with humiliation, self hate and low self esteem.

I have something similar aswell, with the same underlying problems as you mention in this reply. Self-hate, low self esteem. It is not humiliating outright but I think that is a part of it aswell. I bet most fetishes are fairly similar, and I think they are considered unorthodox for a good reason

I think the solution is regaining the confidence you lost in yourself over your life, and advancing in life and not stagnating. I think it is likely that if you stay in the same position or stagnate then you will likely not outgrow this fetish. You need to take risks and let go and not dwell on your past or whatever story you have of yourself

I've started SSRIs

Please don't take poison for castrating yourself brother, that is not the right way.
Please taper off asap (let's say you take 30mg of whatever, taper off by taking 25mg for 4 days, 20mg for another 4 days, 15mg 10mg etc. until you go down to 5mg then split the pill into what would be 4, 3 etc. then take that every second day and then completely stop)
They are pure pharma bullshit and it's a crime that they are prescribed to people in hopes of making them less sad because of their miserable life

No. I don't want to believe this. I'd rather rope than still have this fetish.

Same shit here man

 

[Lonely]

I have something similar aswell, with the same underlying problems as you mention in this reply. Self-hate, low self esteem. It is not humiliating outright but I think that is a part of it aswell. I bet most fetishes are fairly similar, and I think they are considered unorthodox for a good reason

I think the solution is regaining the confidence you lost in yourself over your life, and advancing in life and not stagnating. I think it is likely that if you stay in the same position or stagnate then you will likely not outgrow this fetish. You need to take risks and let go and not dwell on your past or whatever story you have of yourself

Please don't take poison for castrating yourself brother, that is not the right way.
Please taper off asap (let's say you take 30mg of whatever, taper off by taking 25mg for 4 days, 20mg for another 4 days, 15mg 10mg etc. until you go down to 5mg then split the pill into what would be 4, 3 etc. then take that every second day and then completely stop)
They are pure pharma bullshit and it's a crime that they are prescribed to people in hopes of making them less sad because of their miserable life

Same shit here man

Thanks man. I agree, the more I boosted my self esteem through taking action, the less extreme my fetish got. At this point, my fetish is still really bad, but not anywhere close to as bad as it once was. I think you make an excellent point, which is that we must move forwards and challenge ourselves. In a way, the fetish is a blessing because it motivates us to do something with our lives to beat it.

Best of luck to you on your journey man.

 

[ChristianChad]

Thanks man. I agree, the more I boosted my self esteem through taking action, the less extreme my fetish got. At this point, my fetish is still really bad, but not anywhere close to as bad as it once was. I think you make an excellent point, which is that we must move forwards and challenge ourselves. In a way, the fetish is a blessing because it motivates us to do something with our lives to beat it.

Best of luck to you on your journey man.

Thank you bro.
In a few animal studies, homosexuality and sexual abnormalities are due to excess estrogen, if even over several generations or in utero. In general, elevated estrogen makes one prone to novelty seeking in sexuality, inability to be satisfied by hetero Normal romance, and desire for unorthodox sexual stimulation.
Many things like stress, trauma, systematically raise Estrogen and it can be difficult to break the cycle.
Don't starve yourself, eat well, have a strict sleeping schedule, wake early every day, get bright light throughout the day and have a stimulating life with other people. All these would help for Estrogen

i suggest you to look into Ray Peat if you haven't already. You can read on it on Raypeat.com raypeatforum.com
It is a good dietary philosophy and would probably help your health in general

We will make it brother. Change is coming

 

[Deleted member 18776]

Bro, i know u have a cuck fetish. This is caused by your small dick and the toughts that you never be able to please a woman.
The solution: get a bigger dick! and learn how to give EXTREME pleasure to girls with your fingers and tongue. i know it cause i can make a girl cry in pleasure by fingering and make her squirt. u dont need a big dick to be the best man in bed.
Also u need to stop pursuing non virgin girls or even entertaining the tought of having a non virgin wife, all your efforts should go towards having a virgin girl whom you can make orgasm really hard and them having the biggest dick you can get in this life and fucking her G spot really hard. U can get +2 inches length and +1 inch girth with PE in 3 years. Chemical PE even more.
Dont give up, stop believing ur less of a man, dont entertain these toughts.

this is the best Penis Enlargement forum, thundersplace.com
if u want more help send a DM

 

[Lonely]

Bro, i know u have a cuck fetish. This is caused by your small dick and the toughts that you never be able to please a woman.
The solution: get a bigger dick! and learn how to give EXTREME pleasure to girls with your fingers and tongue. i know it cause i can make a girl cry in pleasure by fingering and make her squirt. u dont need a big dick to be the best man in bed.
Also u need to stop pursuing non virgin girls or even entertaining the tought of having a non virgin wife, all your efforts should go towards having a virgin girl whom you can make orgasm really hard and them having the biggest dick you can get in this life and fucking her G spot really hard. U can get +2 inches length and +1 inch girth with PE in 3 years. Chemical PE even more.
Dont give up, stop believing ur less of a man, dont entertain these toughts.

this is the best Penis Enlargement forum, thundersplace.com
if u want more help send a DM

Lol wtf

 

[Deleted member 18776]

Lol wtf

am i not right? it was the most probable given it being the worst fetish (in my opnion)

 

[Deleted member 20927]

Bro, i know u have a cuck fetish. This is caused by your small dick and the toughts that you never be able to please a woman.
The solution: get a bigger dick! and learn how to give EXTREME pleasure to girls with your fingers and tongue. i know it cause i can make a girl cry in pleasure by fingering and make her squirt. u dont need a big dick to be the best man in bed.
Also u need to stop pursuing non virgin girls or even entertaining the tought of having a non virgin wife, all your efforts should go towards having a virgin girl whom you can make orgasm really hard and them having the biggest dick you can get in this life and fucking her G spot really hard. U can get +2 inches length and +1 inch girth with PE in 3 years. Chemical PE even more.
Dont give up, stop believing ur less of a man, dont entertain these toughts.

this is the best Penis Enlargement forum, thundersplace.com
if u want more help send a DM

tho I agree PE is amazing and helps with a lot of shit regardless how big your dick is, it doesn’t matter if it’s being a cuck, being pissed on, or being trampled, it’s still in the realm of femdom. This is a mental thing that isn’t caused by insecurity, but some experience. All of fetishes are caused by trauma or younger experience. There are countless examples of it being pushed in media in cartoons and others are just straight up raped by women at a young age but were taught women don’t do shit like that but they do. Doesn’t fucking matter what gender you are there are just as fucked up women as men, but they get away with it.

 

[Lonely]

tho I agree PE is amazing and helps with a lot of shit regardless how big your dick is, it doesn’t matter if it’s being a cuck, being pissed on, or being trampled, it’s still in the realm of femdom. This is a mental thing that isn’t caused by insecurity, but some experience. All of fetishes are caused by trauma or younger experience. There are countless examples of it being pushed in media in cartoons and others are just straight up raped by women at a young age but were taught women don’t do shit like that but they do. Doesn’t fucking matter what gender you are there are just as fucked up women as men, but they get away with it.

I think I know exactly what event caused it. How do I address it?

 

[Deleted member 18776]

tho I agree PE is amazing and helps with a lot of shit regardless how big your dick is, it doesn’t matter if it’s being a cuck, being pissed on, or being trampled, it’s still in the realm of femdom. This is a mental thing that isn’t caused by insecurity, but some experience. All of fetishes are caused by trauma or younger experience. There are countless examples of it being pushed in media in cartoons and others are just straight up raped by women at a young age but were taught women don’t do shit like that but they do. Doesn’t fucking matter what gender you are there are just as fucked up women as men, but they get away with it.

yeah, i dont know everything about this cause i dont even have fetishes but i tried giving help in case of being that

 

[Deleted member 18776]

I think I know exactly what event caused it. How do I address it?

why dont u say what is the fetish man??? ur on an anonymous forum and nobody cares + there are a lot of degenerates in here

 

[casadebanho]

Is it femdom?

Femdom is based

 

[casadebanho]

Cuck? shit eating? Dick sucking? Being a slave to Stacy? Drinking piss? Ball busting? Pegging? Getting castrated? Dildo sucking? Feet? Ass eating?

Bro pulled out the entire list

 

[Lonely]

why dont u say what is the fetish man??? ur on an anonymous forum and nobody cares + there are a lot of degenerates in here

Hell nah

 

[casadebanho]

am i not right? it was the most probable given it being the worst fetish (in my opnion)

I also asummed it was the first one

And also considering he said it "goes against his principles", plus most of the other stuff in the list is just nasty stuff but not exactly "humiliating"