finding true love is impossible

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i've realized that finding true love is almost impossible in every sense

if you had a high smv whether it being due to your looks, height, status, or wealth. if you were to find a woman and get married to her she would likely only be with you because of the fact that you have high smv, even if she does develop feelings down the line it was all due to the fact that you have high smv.

and at the same time if you didnt have a high smv but you find a woman to get married to, she would likely just be settling for you because she couldnt find anybody with a higher smv than you.

so it's either you have to be with a woman who's only with you because your either good looking, tall, wealthy, or famous, or you have to be with a woman who settled for you because she couldnt find anybody better.

and even if you're chad and you find a woman and you guys get married and have kids and shit and you live happily ever after, she's only with you for your looks, if you were subhuman with the exact same personality she wouldnt even wanna be friends with you let alone marry you.

thats why i cant help but laugh at attractive couples who claim to be in love, theyre too oblivious to realize that if either one of them had even one subhuman trait that they wouldnt be together. i guess that's true love tho according to most people.
 
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Might as well just write a book with this amount of words, ghad dayum

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if you were subhuman with the exact same personality she wouldnt even wanna be friends with you let alone marry you.
How did you arrive to this conclusistion?
 
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How did you arrive to this conclusistion?
i mean its possible that she would still marry you but the odds are extremely low, it depends on the girl tho
 
i've realized that finding true love is almost impossible in every sense

if you had a high smv whether it being due to your looks, height, status, or wealth. if you were to find a woman and get married to her she would likely only be with you because of the fact that you have high smv, even if she does develop feelings down the line it was all due to the fact that you have high smv.

and at the same time if you didnt have a high smv but you find a woman to get married to, she would likely just be settling for you because she couldnt find anybody with a higher smv than you.

so it's either you have to be with a woman who's only with you because your either good looking, tall, wealthy, or famous, or you have to be with a woman who settled for you because she couldnt find anybody better.

and even if you're chad and you find a woman and you guys get married and have kids and shit and you live happily ever after, she's only with you for your looks, if you were subhuman with the exact same personality she wouldnt even wanna be friends with you let alone marry you.

thats why i cant help but laugh at attractive couples who claim to be in love, theyre too oblivious to realize that if either one of them had even one subhuman trait that they wouldnt be together. i guess that's true love tho according to most people.
Dnr,but "love" starts with sexual attraction,and if they actually like u for more than just ur looks they will start becoming like a best friend that u genuinly love
 
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Dnr,but "love" starts with sexual attraction,and if they actually like u for more than just ur looks they will start becoming like a best friend that u genuinly love
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Aint nobody reading all that
 
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Dnr,but "love" starts with sexual attraction,and if they actually like u for more than just ur looks they will start becoming like a best friend that u genuinly love
yea if you are both attractive and youre both attracted to each other's personality it will feel like true love but im saying you probably wont even get to find out each others personalities if one of you wasnt attractive.
 
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yea if you are both attractive and youre both attracted to each other's personality it will feel like true love but im saying you probably wont even get to find out each others personalities if one of you wasnt attractive.
Im not attractive
 
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No offense, but that's all mental masturbation. I think you wouldn't give much thought to that if you actually were in a relationship with someone.

Yes, if you weren't attractive enough to her, she wouldn't have liked you, but you wouldn't have liked her either if she wasn't attractive enough to you (even if she's kinda ugly), and that's not a problem at all.

It's not a problem that we prefer to date people that are attractive to us. It's a problem that we subconsciously think morals have aesthetic criteria and that good-looking people are somehow better than others.
 
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Been their mate. Its not that deep we are just animals at the end of the day. Maybe its just a non neurodivergent thing.

Make sure she is loyal and not a snake,we as much as possible. Looks good and won’t make short incel sons and forget about and enjoy your life mate.

Remember with knowledge use it to improve your situation or lead you to a better one.Dont waste your youth deeping shit too much.We arent supposed to even conceptualize this stuff.It should all be instinct and impulse,not dissected thought.
 
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i've realized that finding true love is almost impossible in every sense

if you had a high smv whether it being due to your looks, height, status, or wealth. if you were to find a woman and get married to her she would likely only be with you because of the fact that you have high smv, even if she does develop feelings down the line it was all due to the fact that you have high smv.

and at the same time if you didnt have a high smv but you find a woman to get married to, she would likely just be settling for you because she couldnt find anybody with a higher smv than you.

so it's either you have to be with a woman who's only with you because your either good looking, tall, wealthy, or famous, or you have to be with a woman who settled for you because she couldnt find anybody better.

and even if you're chad and you find a woman and you guys get married and have kids and shit and you live happily ever after, she's only with you for your looks, if you were subhuman with the exact same personality she wouldnt even wanna be friends with you let alone marry you.

thats why i cant help but laugh at attractive couples who claim to be in love, theyre too oblivious to realize that if either one of them had even one subhuman trait that they wouldnt be together. i guess that's true love tho according to most people.
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Make big money
 
No offense, but that's all mental masturbation. I think you wouldn't give much thought to that if you actually were in a relationship with someone.

Yes, if you weren't attractive enough to her, she wouldn't have liked you, but you wouldn't have liked her either if she wasn't attractive enough to you (even if she's kinda ugly), and that's not a problem at all.

It's not a problem that we prefer to date people that are attractive to us. It's a problem that we subconsciously think morals have aesthetic criteria and that good-looking people are somehow better than others.
yea i dont think its a problem but it really makes me wonder if love is even real.
 
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yea i dont think its a problem but it really makes me wonder if love is even real.

If a girl had a big connection with you and wanted to kiss you, hug you, hold hands with you, have sex with you, date you, marry you, have kids with you, be with you until the day she dies, and be very intimate with you, would you call this love? Because it sounds like love to me.
 
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If a girl had a big connection with you and wanted to kiss you, hug you, hold hands with you, have sex with you, date you, marry you, have kids with you, be with you until the day she dies, and be very intimate with you, would you call this love? Because it sounds like love to me.
it would only really feel like love to me if i was average or below average in looks funny enough. cuz seeing her want to do all those things with me while im average or below average would be proof that shes not with me simply because she couldnt find somebody better than me. on the other hand if i was above average in looks and she wanted to do those things with me, i would still feel loved no doubt about it, but i would definitely wonder sometimes if that girl would still 'love' me if i wasnt above average in looks.
 
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it would only really feel like love to me if i was average or below average in looks funny enough. cuz seeing her want to do all those things with me while im average or below average would be proof that shes not with me simply because she couldnt find somebody better than me. on the other hand if i was above average in looks and she wanted to do those things with me, i would still feel loved no doubt about it, but i would definitely wonder sometimes if that girl would still 'love' me if i wasnt above average in looks.
I know what you mean.

For what it's worth, I'm a skinny 5/10 face-wise and 5'11" guy who has a girl that likes him a lot, so it's possible.
 
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just got to find it brah
 
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i've realized that finding true love is almost impossible in every sense

if you had a high smv whether it being due to your looks, height, status, or wealth. if you were to find a woman and get married to her she would likely only be with you because of the fact that you have high smv, even if she does develop feelings down the line it was all due to the fact that you have high smv.

and at the same time if you didnt have a high smv but you find a woman to get married to, she would likely just be settling for you because she couldnt find anybody with a higher smv than you.

so it's either you have to be with a woman who's only with you because your either good looking, tall, wealthy, or famous, or you have to be with a woman who settled for you because she couldnt find anybody better.

and even if you're chad and you find a woman and you guys get married and have kids and shit and you live happily ever after, she's only with you for your looks, if you were subhuman with the exact same personality she wouldnt even wanna be friends with you let alone marry you.

thats why i cant help but laugh at attractive couples who claim to be in love, theyre too oblivious to realize that if either one of them had even one subhuman trait that they wouldnt be together. i guess that's true love tho according to most people.
Marriage is not just about looks
 
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Water. This is the ultimate blackpill of all blackpills
 
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