FIRST COLD APPROACH

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I go to planet fitness 5 times a week, it’s my regular gym i love it since i go late at night there’s barely anyone there hogging the machines, ive been going for quite some time now and every here and there i see this HTB, white blonde blue eyes fat ass nice body, every time she’s there at the gym, i sense something, as if me and here were meant to be, it’s weird because we’re always making eye contact for 2-5 seconds even across the gym, but anyways last week i seen her and after so long of seeing her again and again i told myself tonight’s the tonight i go and talk to her! to be honest i probably wasn’t until as im walking to get water, she gets off the stair master which happens to be right in front of the water fountain, she looks at me, i look at her, SHE SMILES, and my ND ass didn’t even smile back i was so nervous, she SMILED? that means im in right? well after that she goes to a machine and so do i this time i build up the confidence to talk to her, i finish with my set and stand up, and she’s done with hers, and walking towards me, it’s the perfect moment, no one around to see nor hear us, i tell her “excuse me” twice as she didn’t hear me the first with her headphones in, she looks at me finally, i tell her “hey, did you smile at me back there?” but the start i was talking so reatrded and nd i was mumbling and speaking so cucky i lock in though, and speak up, she hears me she laughingly says “yeah i did” i say “oh well sorry i didn’t even see you until last second, but i thought you were cute, can i get your number?” “i have a boyfriend” i just tell to take it as a complement then, and absolutely took off, i felt so embarrassed this was the first time ive cold approached a girl, i just thought of how retarded and disgusting looking i am, even thought it made no sense? how can you constantly stare at me and even smile at me and hit me with that bullshit, it is what it is though and i definitely would try it again just because of the fact that i felt like i can talk to anyone after that without getting nervous, hell the next day i seen a HTB no body tho but this time i didn’t hesitate, i just did it, i got rejected again but after the second time it just felt normal, also felt like cold approaching girls maybe wasn’t the worst idea to build confidence and learn how to talk to them.
 
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tldr?
 
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ramblings of an insane man
 
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It is what it is, you get better with reps. Keep doing it. The first time I asked for a girls number I'm surprised I got it out, I was so nervous. She was nice about and it and gave it to me, nothing came of it. Is what it is
 
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You're wasting your time!
 
Grey trying not to bring up autism *Level: IMPOSSIBLE*
i struggled with this for most of my life especially when it came with women but tbh i wouldn’t say im actually nd as much as some people on here i just hate talking to others so in a way i guess that makes me nd?
 
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I go to planet fitness 5 times a week, it’s my regular gym i love it since i go late at night there’s barely anyone there hogging the machines, ive been going for quite some time now and every here and there i see this HTB, white blonde blue eyes fat ass nice body, every time she’s there at the gym, i sense something, as if me and here were meant to be, it’s weird because we’re always making eye contact for 2-5 seconds even across the gym, but anyways last week i seen her and after so long of seeing her again and again i told myself tonight’s the tonight i go and talk to her! to be honest i probably wasn’t until as im walking to get water, she gets off the stair master which happens to be right in front of the water fountain, she looks at me, i look at her, SHE SMILES, and my ND ass didn’t even smile back i was so nervous, she SMILED? that means im in right? well after that she goes to a machine and so do i this time i build up the confidence to talk to her, i finish with my set and stand up, and she’s done with hers, and walking towards me, it’s the perfect moment, no one around to see nor hear us, i tell her “excuse me” twice as she didn’t hear me the first with her headphones in, she looks at me finally, i tell her “hey, did you smile at me back there?” but the start i was talking so reatrded and nd i was mumbling and speaking so cucky i lock in though, and speak up, she hears me she laughingly says “yeah i did” i say “oh well sorry i didn’t even see you until last second, but i thought you were cute, can i get your number?” “i have a boyfriend” i just tell to take it as a complement then, and absolutely took off, i felt so embarrassed this was the first time ive cold approached a girl, i just thought of how retarded and disgusting looking i am, even thought it made no sense? how can you constantly stare at me and even smile at me and hit me with that bullshit, it is what it is though and i definitely would try it again just because of the fact that i felt like i can talk to anyone after that without getting nervous, hell the next day i seen a HTB no body tho but this time i didn’t hesitate, i just did it, i got rejected again but after the second time it just felt normal, also felt like cold approaching girls maybe wasn’t the worst idea to build confidence and learn how to talk to them.
Large block of text, visual overload, cannot compute, dnr
 
Keep doing it bro, it's like XP grinding. You'll get better and be more successful
 
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it’s the perfect moment, no one around to see nor hear us, i tell her “excuse me” twice as she didn’t hear me the first with her headphones in, she looks at me finally, i tell her “hey, did you smile at me back there?” but the start i was talking so reatrded and nd i was mumbling and speaking so cucky i lock in though, and speak up, she hears me she laughingly says “yeah i did” i say “oh well sorry i didn’t even see you until last second, but i thought you were cute, can i get your number?”
She got the ick. She liked your lookz but you were a pussy so she moved on.
 
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I go to planet fitness 5 times a week, it’s my regular gym i love it since i go late at night there’s barely anyone there hogging the machines, ive been going for quite some time now and every here and there i see this HTB, white blonde blue eyes fat ass nice body, every time she’s there at the gym, i sense something, as if me and here were meant to be, it’s weird because we’re always making eye contact for 2-5 seconds even across the gym, but anyways last week i seen her and after so long of seeing her again and again i told myself tonight’s the tonight i go and talk to her! to be honest i probably wasn’t until as im walking to get water, she gets off the stair master which happens to be right in front of the water fountain, she looks at me, i look at her, SHE SMILES, and my ND ass didn’t even smile back i was so nervous, she SMILED? that means im in right? well after that she goes to a machine and so do i this time i build up the confidence to talk to her, i finish with my set and stand up, and she’s done with hers, and walking towards me, it’s the perfect moment, no one around to see nor hear us, i tell her “excuse me” twice as she didn’t hear me the first with her headphones in, she looks at me finally, i tell her “hey, did you smile at me back there?” but the start i was talking so reatrded and nd i was mumbling and speaking so cucky i lock in though, and speak up, she hears me she laughingly says “yeah i did” i say “oh well sorry i didn’t even see you until last second, but i thought you were cute, can i get your number?” “i have a boyfriend” i just tell to take it as a complement then, and absolutely took off, i felt so embarrassed this was the first time ive cold approached a girl, i just thought of how retarded and disgusting looking i am, even thought it made no sense? how can you constantly stare at me and even smile at me and hit me with that bullshit, it is what it is though and i definitely would try it again just because of the fact that i felt like i can talk to anyone after that without getting nervous, hell the next day i seen a HTB no body tho but this time i didn’t hesitate, i just did it, i got rejected again but after the second time it just felt normal, also felt like cold approaching girls maybe wasn’t the worst idea to build confidence and learn how to talk to them.
sad life h first time i waned a gir i got it i asked for a number i got it aswell but i coudnt keep the relationship which ended in 4 days so
 

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