Fix Your Fear, Not Just Face

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Most guys here are stuck, rotting (🌊). The root isn't just looks, it's deeper: fundamental paralysis. High inhibition acts like a permanent handbrake, neutering every single effort you make, looksmaxxing included. It's the real bottleneck.

Your brain is fundamentally shit at risk assessment. You obsess over the tiny, vivid chance of a botched surgery, fin sides, or social rejection. These fears eclipse the dead certainty that doing nothing guarantees continued misery and failure. You latch onto horror stories, ignore the math, and choose the slow rot of inaction because it feels safer than the potential pain of trying.

This fuels the biggest cope: thinking good looks will magically cure your fear. "Once I get the surgery, then I'll be confident." Bullshit. Inhibition is a separate disease. Fix your face all you want; if the underlying paralysis remains, you'll just be a prettier statue, still too terrified to make a move. You'll just find new excuses.

Meanwhile, some loudmouth sub-5 with half your potential but zero filter just acts. He might crash and burn, but he stumbles into success simply because he tries. He creates fortune by taking chances, rolling the dice while you're paralyzed, analyzing infinitesimal risks.

Action creates opportunity, even with flaws. Inaction guarantees failure, regardless of how good you look.

In all my years here, the guys with real success shared one trait: they took action. Sure, looks helped, but women weren't just magically appearing at their door – that shit doesn't happen. They were out there, making moves, initiating. You gotta do it yourself.

So go ahead, polish the goddamn statue. Work on your looks. But understand this: if the driver remains too paralyzed to turn the key, that polished statue stays parked in the fucking basement.

Fixing your inhibition – your fundamentally broken response to risk and the inability to act – is what actually unlocks the value. It's the primary ascent. Without tackling the driver, all the looksmaxxing in the world is just polishing chains. Brutal, but it's the hard truth.
 
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Just know how to read basic signals from females. If she is truly attracted to you she will make it clear. Problem is if she is in her 20s that usually happens mostly with tall HTNs and Chadlites.
 
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Just know how to read basic signals from females. If she is truly attracted to you she will make it clear. Problem is if she is in her 20s that usually happens mostly with tall HTNs and Chadlites.
Unless she's damned near sexually assaulting you there's always place for doubt, especially if you are naturally predisposed toward it and fear taking the next step.
Most women, even if they like the guy, do not approach, unless very intoxicated. Simply doesn't happen.
 
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Looksmaxxing is cope for autism; always has been, always will be.
 
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High IQ post
 
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Most guys here are stuck, rotting (🌊). The root isn't just looks, it's deeper: fundamental paralysis. High inhibition acts like a permanent handbrake, neutering every single effort you make, looksmaxxing included. It's the real bottleneck.

Your brain is fundamentally shit at risk assessment. You obsess over the tiny, vivid chance of a botched surgery, fin sides, or social rejection. These fears eclipse the dead certainty that doing nothing guarantees continued misery and failure. You latch onto horror stories, ignore the math, and choose the slow rot of inaction because it feels safer than the potential pain of trying.

This fuels the biggest cope: thinking good looks will magically cure your fear. "Once I get the surgery, then I'll be confident." Bullshit. Inhibition is a separate disease. Fix your face all you want; if the underlying paralysis remains, you'll just be a prettier statue, still too terrified to make a move. You'll just find new excuses.

Meanwhile, some loudmouth sub-5 with half your potential but zero filter just acts. He might crash and burn, but he stumbles into success simply because he tries. He creates fortune by taking chances, rolling the dice while you're paralyzed, analyzing infinitesimal risks.

Action creates opportunity, even with flaws. Inaction guarantees failure, regardless of how good you look.

In all my years here, the guys with real success shared one trait: they took action. Sure, looks helped, but women weren't just magically appearing at their door – that shit doesn't happen. They were out there, making moves, initiating. You gotta do it yourself.

So go ahead, polish the goddamn statue. Work on your looks. But understand this: if the driver remains too paralyzed to turn the key, that polished statue stays parked in the fucking basement.

Fixing your inhibition – your fundamentally broken response to risk and the inability to act – is what actually unlocks the value. It's the primary ascent. Without tackling the driver, all the looksmaxxing in the world is just polishing chains. Brutal, but it's the hard truth.
Excellent post my friend.
 
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:)
 
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just send it theory is my favorite theory however i get fucked pretty much everytime

example I took finasteride, then I got gyno and temporary ED

I think god hates me
 
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DNR
IMG 3610
 
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just send it theory is my favorite theory however i get fucked pretty much everytime

example I took finasteride, then I got gyno and temporary ED

I think god hates me
Just keep sending it
 
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Good advice, but I also need to fix my face
 
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No point doing anything until after surgery because even the best possible outcomes now are certainly worse than the average outcomes after surgery.

It also frees up an insane amount of time in my life to not bother with chasing girls, there’s an opportunity cost to “just put yourself out there” as well as the mental damage from rejections of course.
 
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You create luck if your locked in your basement nothing will happen girls wont come knock on your door .
 
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My face is what creates the fear of not acting
 
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Gotta disagree with the overall sentiment here

Taking action is a part of the equation for success, sure. But it ain’t the determining factor. Looks, height, NT, IQ, socioeconomic background, etc are what separates winners from losers

So when it comes to rotters, sure, some of them have never tried and have untapped potential waiting to be unlocked

But that number is dwarfed by the vast majority who simply don’t have what it takes to be anything more than a typical 9-5 wageslave beta bux

I think it’s better to set goals for yourself and try to live a life that’s more than LDAR, yes. But you gotta be realistic with those goals, and always be measuring the ROI of your actions against external reality, and adjust course accordingly

To put it simply, you can blame the tall, naturally athletic kid’s inaction when it comes to skipping the track team tryouts, but not the paraplegic’s.
 
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Most guys here are stuck, rotting (🌊). The root isn't just looks, it's deeper: fundamental paralysis. High inhibition acts like a permanent handbrake, neutering every single effort you make, looksmaxxing included. It's the real bottleneck.

Your brain is fundamentally shit at risk assessment. You obsess over the tiny, vivid chance of a botched surgery, fin sides, or social rejection. These fears eclipse the dead certainty that doing nothing guarantees continued misery and failure. You latch onto horror stories, ignore the math, and choose the slow rot of inaction because it feels safer than the potential pain of trying.

This fuels the biggest cope: thinking good looks will magically cure your fear. "Once I get the surgery, then I'll be confident." Bullshit. Inhibition is a separate disease. Fix your face all you want; if the underlying paralysis remains, you'll just be a prettier statue, still too terrified to make a move. You'll just find new excuses.

Meanwhile, some loudmouth sub-5 with half your potential but zero filter just acts. He might crash and burn, but he stumbles into success simply because he tries. He creates fortune by taking chances, rolling the dice while you're paralyzed, analyzing infinitesimal risks.

Action creates opportunity, even with flaws. Inaction guarantees failure, regardless of how good you look.

In all my years here, the guys with real success shared one trait: they took action. Sure, looks helped, but women weren't just magically appearing at their door – that shit doesn't happen. They were out there, making moves, initiating. You gotta do it yourself.

So go ahead, polish the goddamn statue. Work on your looks. But understand this: if the driver remains too paralyzed to turn the key, that polished statue stays parked in the fucking basement.

Fixing your inhibition – your fundamentally broken response to risk and the inability to act – is what actually unlocks the value. It's the primary ascent. Without tackling the driver, all the looksmaxxing in the world is just polishing chains. Brutal, but it's the hard truth.
xanax & these thoughts are vanished
 
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"The only thing to be afraid of is fear itself"
Franklin Delano Roosevelt
 
Most guys here are stuck, rotting (🌊). The root isn't just looks, it's deeper: fundamental paralysis. High inhibition acts like a permanent handbrake, neutering every single effort you make, looksmaxxing included. It's the real bottleneck.

Your brain is fundamentally shit at risk assessment. You obsess over the tiny, vivid chance of a botched surgery, fin sides, or social rejection. These fears eclipse the dead certainty that doing nothing guarantees continued misery and failure. You latch onto horror stories, ignore the math, and choose the slow rot of inaction because it feels safer than the potential pain of trying.

This fuels the biggest cope: thinking good looks will magically cure your fear. "Once I get the surgery, then I'll be confident." Bullshit. Inhibition is a separate disease. Fix your face all you want; if the underlying paralysis remains, you'll just be a prettier statue, still too terrified to make a move. You'll just find new excuses.

Meanwhile, some loudmouth sub-5 with half your potential but zero filter just acts. He might crash and burn, but he stumbles into success simply because he tries. He creates fortune by taking chances, rolling the dice while you're paralyzed, analyzing infinitesimal risks.

Action creates opportunity, even with flaws. Inaction guarantees failure, regardless of how good you look.

In all my years here, the guys with real success shared one trait: they took action. Sure, looks helped, but women weren't just magically appearing at their door – that shit doesn't happen. They were out there, making moves, initiating. You gotta do it yourself.

So go ahead, polish the goddamn statue. Work on your looks. But understand this: if the driver remains too paralyzed to turn the key, that polished statue stays parked in the fucking basement.

Fixing your inhibition – your fundamentally broken response to risk and the inability to act – is what actually unlocks the value. It's the primary ascent. Without tackling the driver, all the looksmaxxing in the world is just polishing chains. Brutal, but it's the hard truth.
High iq thread. Most incels here that are claiming no girls want them just didn’t try beacuse they are low confident losers.
Before finding out about bp and looksmaxxing and this shi I actually pulled more than now, why? BEACUSE I FUCKING TRIED
 
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Most guys here are stuck, rotting (🌊). The root isn't just looks, it's deeper: fundamental paralysis. High inhibition acts like a permanent handbrake, neutering every single effort you make, looksmaxxing included. It's the real bottleneck.

Your brain is fundamentally shit at risk assessment. You obsess over the tiny, vivid chance of a botched surgery, fin sides, or social rejection. These fears eclipse the dead certainty that doing nothing guarantees continued misery and failure. You latch onto horror stories, ignore the math, and choose the slow rot of inaction because it feels safer than the potential pain of trying.

This fuels the biggest cope: thinking good looks will magically cure your fear. "Once I get the surgery, then I'll be confident." Bullshit. Inhibition is a separate disease. Fix your face all you want; if the underlying paralysis remains, you'll just be a prettier statue, still too terrified to make a move. You'll just find new excuses.

Meanwhile, some loudmouth sub-5 with half your potential but zero filter just acts. He might crash and burn, but he stumbles into success simply because he tries. He creates fortune by taking chances, rolling the dice while you're paralyzed, analyzing infinitesimal risks.

Action creates opportunity, even with flaws. Inaction guarantees failure, regardless of how good you look.

In all my years here, the guys with real success shared one trait: they took action. Sure, looks helped, but women weren't just magically appearing at their door – that shit doesn't happen. They were out there, making moves, initiating. You gotta do it yourself.

So go ahead, polish the goddamn statue. Work on your looks. But understand this: if the driver remains too paralyzed to turn the key, that polished statue stays parked in the fucking basement.

Fixing your inhibition – your fundamentally broken response to risk and the inability to act – is what actually unlocks the value. It's the primary ascent. Without tackling the driver, all the looksmaxxing in the world is just polishing chains. Brutal, but it's the hard truth.
Banger!
 
Unless she's damned near sexually assaulting you there's always place for doubt, especially if you are naturally predisposed toward it and fear taking the next step.
Most women, even if they like the guy, do not approach, unless very intoxicated. Simply doesn't happen.

what is true is, that many women may find you attractive enough to sleep with you if you put in the effort, but if she is truly interested and highly attracted to you, she will definetely show it enough for you to notice (if you are at least average IQ).

but it's also true nobody should wait for it, even if you'd look like delon or chico, some woman prefer a very specific type of guy and it doesn't mean just because she isn't insanely attracted to you, she is not willing or opposed.

that's why being a htn is easily enough to slay
 
Dnr cope, after ascension all my problems will be magically fixed
 
High iq thread. Most incels here that are claiming no girls want them just didn’t try beacuse they are low confident losers.
Before finding out about bp and looksmaxxing and this shi I actually pulled more than now, why? BEACUSE I FUCKING TRIED
 

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