Yo whats up, I’m writing this guide because it was my problem as well, and I fixed it, and I think it’s worth sharing with y’all.
How to fix high inhib/low confidence after ascending?
People treat you differently, women look at you, but still in your brain you’re the same ugly sub5 anxious kid from years of being ignored/bullied, whatever.
First, reality check. If you’re not totally retarded, you should be able to see that people no longer see the old you. It is totally true that attractive people are treated better in any matter of life, but that’s not how confidence works.
The thing is, confidence is earned through repeated proof that the world now reacts better to the new you. So the easiest way to gain it is just to go around people. It might be hard, because most of you are rotting fucks no matter your attractiveness status, but still.
YOU NEED TO GO OUT TO OTHER PEOPLE. Your brain will see that they treat you better, but there is an important thing. Never, I mean never, go around any group of people you know you can get roasted by. Your brain craves validation of its claims, so basically whole compliments etc. can be totally fucked by one bad word.
Without useless words, I just want to tell you how to cope with it.
Go out to town and just smile at women. That’s it. The biggest validation a normal man can get is female validation. No fucking clubbing, no going to beaches. Just go wherever you want and smile at women, don’t make it too obvious. Next thing, if you feel like it, is doing cold approaches, although you need to be very solid-looking to make them work, so make sure you’re not overexaggerating your looks. So make sure to be aware if you’re really pretty or not, do math analysis, because most of these retards here can’t rate, LOL.
Basically, the biggest risk-free thing is to go out, although if you’re that scared of females or people, you can use Snap and just snap them, look how they’ll react after asking “wyll” and you reply. That’s basically it—if you’re getting no signals of interest (insanely verbal on Snap especially), then you’re just coping normie.
Thats very short, but dense ‘guide’ lol. Thats basically all i’ve did - texting random bitches from snap and getting thirsty texts sometimes nudes. From all the validation you’ll fill your ego and be confident IRL
How to fix high inhib/low confidence after ascending?
People treat you differently, women look at you, but still in your brain you’re the same ugly sub5 anxious kid from years of being ignored/bullied, whatever.
First, reality check. If you’re not totally retarded, you should be able to see that people no longer see the old you. It is totally true that attractive people are treated better in any matter of life, but that’s not how confidence works.
The thing is, confidence is earned through repeated proof that the world now reacts better to the new you. So the easiest way to gain it is just to go around people. It might be hard, because most of you are rotting fucks no matter your attractiveness status, but still.
YOU NEED TO GO OUT TO OTHER PEOPLE. Your brain will see that they treat you better, but there is an important thing. Never, I mean never, go around any group of people you know you can get roasted by. Your brain craves validation of its claims, so basically whole compliments etc. can be totally fucked by one bad word.
Without useless words, I just want to tell you how to cope with it.
Go out to town and just smile at women. That’s it. The biggest validation a normal man can get is female validation. No fucking clubbing, no going to beaches. Just go wherever you want and smile at women, don’t make it too obvious. Next thing, if you feel like it, is doing cold approaches, although you need to be very solid-looking to make them work, so make sure you’re not overexaggerating your looks. So make sure to be aware if you’re really pretty or not, do math analysis, because most of these retards here can’t rate, LOL.
Basically, the biggest risk-free thing is to go out, although if you’re that scared of females or people, you can use Snap and just snap them, look how they’ll react after asking “wyll” and you reply. That’s basically it—if you’re getting no signals of interest (insanely verbal on Snap especially), then you’re just coping normie.
Thats very short, but dense ‘guide’ lol. Thats basically all i’ve did - texting random bitches from snap and getting thirsty texts sometimes nudes. From all the validation you’ll fill your ego and be confident IRL
