fixing your face won’t fix the parts of you people instinctively recoil from

[Debetro]

You looked better before

 

[nofap]

it's not that easy when you're as anxious about traveling alone as I am.

Have you never traveled alone before?

Traveling alone to me is like the epitome of freedom

 

[Orc]

Have you never traveled alone before?

Traveling alone to me is like the epitome of freedom

nope it scares the shit out of me

 

[stck6]

nope it scares the shit out of me

Same bro it's really tough and ion feel to travel alone it's just boring too.

 

[flatcheck213]

y

youre litrally disproving blackpill saying personality matters. LMAo

Personality is a part of blackpill.

 

[e1488shciozl]

that sounds harsh but it's true, a lot of people in this place have the idea that if they just correct the slope of their nose, carve a jawline out of bone, or cut fat on their face they'll finally be someone worth liking, but that's not the reality, the thing nobody tells you is that a good face doesn't come with a good personality, and people can tell, almost instantly.

your personality, the way you talk, the way you connect, your presence, is mostly baked in by the time you're old enough to realize something's wrong, it's not a matter of 'working on it' or 'changing your mindset', when people recommend these things what they mean is that you should mask your actual character, you'll still feel the same way underneath, rehearsing social cues, faking warmth, polishing your trauma into something more palatable, all so that others don't have to put effort into understanding you.

but at the end of the day, that mask still isn't you.

if you grew up weird, isolated, neglected, or neurodivergent, or you're just naturally low on whatever invisible social currency your culture values, you'll carry that with you long after the filler settles, or the swelling goes down, you'll still default to silence, still overanalyze every interaction, still feel like you're acting, because you are.

people say 'just be yourself', but that only works if 'yourself' is someone people naturally like, most of us here learned early that being ourselves just means more distance, more silence, and more rooms that go cold, and yeah being prettier might get you invited, but it won't get you included, you'll still be the same person at the table, just with a sharper chin and a bit more definition around the cheekbones.

and that disconnect is brutal.

you keep waiting for the dopamine to show up, for your new face to unlock part of you that feels like you belong, but it does not and will not, you're still sitting inside yourself, watching life happen around you, you might get more compliments, maybe even some attention, but you're not loved, you're not understood, you're just easier to look at while being ignored.

the truth is, you can dissolve fat, fill hollows, widen jawlines, and raise brow positions, but none of that changes the parts of you that were shaped in silence, the parts you learned to hide, the parts that felt wrong before you even knew why.

you can rebuild your face, but not the way people respond to who you are underneath it.

the reality is that I am just as unlovable on the right as on the left.


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Wait what surgeries did u do

 

[sluttysuzy420]

Personality is a part of blackpill.

least black pilled statement

 

[flatcheck213]

least black pilled statement

Black pill is about determinism

 

[sub5outsider]

just that next thing and i will be normal bro just that next thing and i will ascend and my life will be different and that thing never happens

 

[fabi_magyr.incel]

only read like 2 molecules of this thread but i have to say,
looks are only for attraction but personality is a huge percentage of the things that make u lovable.

like clav said when he rated marlon, he has nothing to offer besides his looks

 

[nofap]

nope it scares the shit out of me

Same bro it's really tough and ion feel to travel alone it's just boring too.

Why is it scary?

Im genuinely curious and want to know.

im only really feeling anxious about the flying. But for the rest traveling alone excites me, because i can do what i want and truly be myself, and don’t have the burden of dealing with other people and doing what they want

 

[hunnidrounds]

Some are just naturally unlikable, I had to spend years acting like someone else, it is exhausting.

I think this is my case too

 

[Alias!]

that sounds harsh but it's true, a lot of people in this place have the idea that if they just correct the slope of their nose, carve a jawline out of bone, or cut fat on their face they'll finally be someone worth liking, but that's not the reality, the thing nobody tells you is that a good face doesn't come with a good personality, and people can tell, almost instantly.

your personality, the way you talk, the way you connect, your presence, is mostly baked in by the time you're old enough to realize something's wrong, it's not a matter of 'working on it' or 'changing your mindset', when people recommend these things what they mean is that you should mask your actual character, you'll still feel the same way underneath, rehearsing social cues, faking warmth, polishing your trauma into something more palatable, all so that others don't have to put effort into understanding you.

but at the end of the day, that mask still isn't you.

if you grew up weird, isolated, neglected, or neurodivergent, or you're just naturally low on whatever invisible social currency your culture values, you'll carry that with you long after the filler settles, or the swelling goes down, you'll still default to silence, still overanalyze every interaction, still feel like you're acting, because you are.

people say 'just be yourself', but that only works if 'yourself' is someone people naturally like, most of us here learned early that being ourselves just means more distance, more silence, and more rooms that go cold, and yeah being prettier might get you invited, but it won't get you included, you'll still be the same person at the table, just with a sharper chin and a bit more definition around the cheekbones.

and that disconnect is brutal.

you keep waiting for the dopamine to show up, for your new face to unlock part of you that feels like you belong, but it does not and will not, you're still sitting inside yourself, watching life happen around you, you might get more compliments, maybe even some attention, but you're not loved, you're not understood, you're just easier to look at while being ignored.

the truth is, you can dissolve fat, fill hollows, widen jawlines, and raise brow positions, but none of that changes the parts of you that were shaped in silence, the parts you learned to hide, the parts that felt wrong before you even knew why.

you can rebuild your face, but not the way people respond to who you are underneath it.

the reality is that I am just as unlovable on the right as on the left.


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This is true but it will allow you to have more fuck ups .

 

[CorinthianLOX]

that sounds harsh but it's true, a lot of people in this place have the idea that if they just correct the slope of their nose, carve a jawline out of bone, or cut fat on their face they'll finally be someone worth liking, but that's not the reality, the thing nobody tells you is that a good face doesn't come with a good personality, and people can tell, almost instantly.

your personality, the way you talk, the way you connect, your presence, is mostly baked in by the time you're old enough to realize something's wrong, it's not a matter of 'working on it' or 'changing your mindset', when people recommend these things what they mean is that you should mask your actual character, you'll still feel the same way underneath, rehearsing social cues, faking warmth, polishing your trauma into something more palatable, all so that others don't have to put effort into understanding you.

but at the end of the day, that mask still isn't you.

if you grew up weird, isolated, neglected, or neurodivergent, or you're just naturally low on whatever invisible social currency your culture values, you'll carry that with you long after the filler settles, or the swelling goes down, you'll still default to silence, still overanalyze every interaction, still feel like you're acting, because you are.

people say 'just be yourself', but that only works if 'yourself' is someone people naturally like, most of us here learned early that being ourselves just means more distance, more silence, and more rooms that go cold, and yeah being prettier might get you invited, but it won't get you included, you'll still be the same person at the table, just with a sharper chin and a bit more definition around the cheekbones.

and that disconnect is brutal.

you keep waiting for the dopamine to show up, for your new face to unlock part of you that feels like you belong, but it does not and will not, you're still sitting inside yourself, watching life happen around you, you might get more compliments, maybe even some attention, but you're not loved, you're not understood, you're just easier to look at while being ignored.

the truth is, you can dissolve fat, fill hollows, widen jawlines, and raise brow positions, but none of that changes the parts of you that were shaped in silence, the parts you learned to hide, the parts that felt wrong before you even knew why.

you can rebuild your face, but not the way people respond to who you are underneath it.

the reality is that I am just as unlovable on the right as on the left.


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Fixing my face won't fix my schizoid traits

 

[stck6]

W

Why is it scary?

Im genuinely curious and want to know.

im only really feeling anxious about the flying. But for the rest traveling alone excites me, because i can do what i want and truly be myself, and don’t have the burden of dealing with other people and doing what they want

Wont it be so boring traveling alone and do things? I mean ye you may find it fun but then its also scary at the same time if you're experiencing something like this for first time

 

[nofap]

W

Wont it be so boring traveling alone and do things? I mean ye you may find it fun but then its also scary at the same time if you're experiencing something like this for first time

How is it scary

Im going alone but im not planning on being alone in my hotel room 24/7. I will go out and talk to randoms

 

[SEPRAY]

the reality is that I am just as unlovable on the right as on the left.

 

[hopecel]

that sounds harsh but it's true, a lot of people in this place have the idea that if they just correct the slope of their nose, carve a jawline out of bone, or cut fat on their face they'll finally be someone worth liking, but that's not the reality, the thing nobody tells you is that a good face doesn't come with a good personality, and people can tell, almost instantly.

your personality, the way you talk, the way you connect, your presence, is mostly baked in by the time you're old enough to realize something's wrong, it's not a matter of 'working on it' or 'changing your mindset', when people recommend these things what they mean is that you should mask your actual character, you'll still feel the same way underneath, rehearsing social cues, faking warmth, polishing your trauma into something more palatable, all so that others don't have to put effort into understanding you.

but at the end of the day, that mask still isn't you.

if you grew up weird, isolated, neglected, or neurodivergent, or you're just naturally low on whatever invisible social currency your culture values, you'll carry that with you long after the filler settles, or the swelling goes down, you'll still default to silence, still overanalyze every interaction, still feel like you're acting, because you are.

people say 'just be yourself', but that only works if 'yourself' is someone people naturally like, most of us here learned early that being ourselves just means more distance, more silence, and more rooms that go cold, and yeah being prettier might get you invited, but it won't get you included, you'll still be the same person at the table, just with a sharper chin and a bit more definition around the cheekbones.

and that disconnect is brutal.

you keep waiting for the dopamine to show up, for your new face to unlock part of you that feels like you belong, but it does not and will not, you're still sitting inside yourself, watching life happen around you, you might get more compliments, maybe even some attention, but you're not loved, you're not understood, you're just easier to look at while being ignored.

the truth is, you can dissolve fat, fill hollows, widen jawlines, and raise brow positions, but none of that changes the parts of you that were shaped in silence, the parts you learned to hide, the parts that felt wrong before you even knew why.

you can rebuild your face, but not the way people respond to who you are underneath it.

the reality is that I am just as unlovable on the right as on the left.


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@trench @Lonenely sigma @albanianblackguy ^^^^^^ read and learn

 

[Zzure]

that sounds harsh but it's true, a lot of people in this place have the idea that if they just correct the slope of their nose, carve a jawline out of bone, or cut fat on their face they'll finally be someone worth liking, but that's not the reality, the thing nobody tells you is that a good face doesn't come with a good personality, and people can tell, almost instantly.

your personality, the way you talk, the way you connect, your presence, is mostly baked in by the time you're old enough to realize something's wrong, it's not a matter of 'working on it' or 'changing your mindset', when people recommend these things what they mean is that you should mask your actual character, you'll still feel the same way underneath, rehearsing social cues, faking warmth, polishing your trauma into something more palatable, all so that others don't have to put effort into understanding you.

but at the end of the day, that mask still isn't you.

if you grew up weird, isolated, neglected, or neurodivergent, or you're just naturally low on whatever invisible social currency your culture values, you'll carry that with you long after the filler settles, or the swelling goes down, you'll still default to silence, still overanalyze every interaction, still feel like you're acting, because you are.

people say 'just be yourself', but that only works if 'yourself' is someone people naturally like, most of us here learned early that being ourselves just means more distance, more silence, and more rooms that go cold, and yeah being prettier might get you invited, but it won't get you included, you'll still be the same person at the table, just with a sharper chin and a bit more definition around the cheekbones.

and that disconnect is brutal.

you keep waiting for the dopamine to show up, for your new face to unlock part of you that feels like you belong, but it does not and will not, you're still sitting inside yourself, watching life happen around you, you might get more compliments, maybe even some attention, but you're not loved, you're not understood, you're just easier to look at while being ignored.

the truth is, you can dissolve fat, fill hollows, widen jawlines, and raise brow positions, but none of that changes the parts of you that were shaped in silence, the parts you learned to hide, the parts that felt wrong before you even knew why.

you can rebuild your face, but not the way people respond to who you are underneath it.

the reality is that I am just as unlovable on the right as on the left.


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Not a molecule fakecel also this is red pill shit

 

[Lonenely sigma]

@trench @Lonenely sigma @albanianblackguy ^^^^^^ read and learn

No learning new shit for my face idgaf + I know I am right about everything already