FLAKING AND GHOSTING IN THE MODERN DATING MARKET HAS BECOME CRAZY

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Over the past few years the flake rate has become unbearable. I have girls telling me I'm hot to my face and then ghosting. All kinds of flakes, its hard to even get dates anymore. They take longer to reply, flake the day of the date, flake for the seocnd date, thrid date, etc. every step of the process is so hard. Can anyone else relate?

The best part of all is that all these girls are from OLD and they are below my looks level.



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Feels so bad despite being a HTN I feel invisible nowadays
 
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I literally have girls telling me I'm Chad, making out with me, complimenting me and then just randomly flaking. It makes me so angry because I dont understand what the fuck Im doing wrong. Yeah Im not a Chad but you shouldnt have to be Chad just to get a HTB
 
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I got ghosted on the first date by some fat subhuman a couple days ago lmfao, it's over :blackpill:
 
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I literally have girls telling me I'm Chad, making out with me, complimenting me and then just randomly flaking. It makes me so angry because I dont understand what the fuck Im doing wrong. Yeah Im not a Chad but you shouldnt have to be Chad just to get a HTB
I had a gf for two months that was literally let me face fuck her and then out of nowhere she broke up with me, I think it's because I'm only normie and I was asking for too much sex too quickly given my attractiveness level.
 
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I literally have girls telling me I'm Chad, making out with me, complimenting me and then just randomly flaking. It makes me so angry because I dont understand what the fuck Im doing wrong. Yeah Im not a Chad but you shouldnt have to be Chad just to get a HTB
so what? A girl texted me she was in love with me then disappeared. I've been getting countless compliments even fake allegations. Its doesn't mean jackshit

I'm always caging when Indians on this forum brag about half-ass IOIs.
Meanwhile, I get a lot of attention from women yet not having much sex.
A lot of matches on tinder, dms on insta. Attention to sex ratio is fucking awful, women don't wanna talk with subhumans and normies. They wanna talk with handsome men but that's all they want. I started to block those blue balling bitches
 
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life of subchad
 
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It's literally top 0.01 percentile or death now.

You are either chad looks or 1m+ followers insta status or $100m+ beta-buxx gold-plated deluxe.

To guarantee a HTB LTR, you ideally need 2/3 or all of the above.
 
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life of subchad
This is such a typical response and I wouldnt normally reply but do you seriously think you need top 1% looks just to get a HTB? Being a HTN with money and stuff should be enough - Its a reflection of the modern dating market that the standards are this high
 
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It's literally top 0.01 percentile or death now.

You are either chad looks or 1m+ followers insta status or $100m+ beta-buxx gold-plated deluxe.

To guarantee a HTB LTR, you ideally need 2/3 or all of the above.
Yeah youre actually right - Like just being a normal white HTN with a good body isnt enough now
 
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so what? A girl texted me she was in love with me then disappeared. I've been getting countless compliments even fake allegations. Its doesn't mean jackshit

I'm always caging when Indians on this forum brag about half-ass IOIs.
Meanwhile, I get a lot of attention from women yet not having much sex.
A lot of matches on tinder, dms on insta. Attention to sex ratio is fucking awful, women don't wanna talk with subhumans and normies. They wanna talk with handsome men but that's all they want. I started to block those blue balling bitches
This is decadouche btw bro
 
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This is such a typical response and I wouldnt normally reply but do you seriously think you need top 1% looks just to get a HTB? Being a HTN with money and stuff should be enough - Its a reflection of the modern dating market that the standards are this high
Why are you angry? i would have to be chad if i wanted htb
 
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I have a 100+ laycount, 300+ likes on Tinder, etc. none of this matters bc on Tinder if I match with 10 girls 8 wont even reply
 
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This is making me so sad and lonely like I cant even get a gf anymore
 
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I literally have girls telling me I'm Chad, making out with me, complimenting me and then just randomly flaking. It makes me so angry because I dont understand what the fuck Im doing wrong. Yeah Im not a Chad but you shouldnt have to be Chad just to get a HTB
You're probably not financially successful. You have to be attractive and desirable even when she's not horny. Even if you're super attractive she will only want you when she's horny. And when she's not she will just question "what she saw in you" and leave. If you are rich there's still that carrot on the stick for her when she's sober and not horny. "well he has a big house, a nice car, can take me to places I can't afford"

Women only desire men long term that enhance their life. Your looks don't enhance her life.

What you guys fail to understand is no matter how GL'ing you are, they're all whores at the core at the end of the day. And whores don't sleep with you for love, they don't sleep with you for attraction (though it helps lower prices), they sleep with you...

For money.

If you're as GL'ing as you make yourself out to be, it's time to start moneymaxxing.
 
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You're probably not financially successful. You have to be attractive and desirable even when she's not horny. Even if you're super attractive she will only want you when she's horny. And when she's not she will just question "what she saw in you" and leave. If you are rich there's still that carrot on the stick for her when she's sober and not horny. "well he has a big house, a nice car, can take me to places I can't afford"

Women only desire men long term that enhance their life. Your looks don't enhance her life.

What you guys fail to understand is no matter how GL'ing you are, they're all whores at the core at the end of the day. And whores don't sleep with you for love, they don't sleep with you for attraction (though it helps lower prices), they sleep with you...

For money.

If you're as GL'ing as you make yourself out to be, it's time to start moneymaxxing.
I make 300k a year bro
 
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I make 300k a year bro
And bitches still don't want you? If you're GL'ing and make that amount, I think your only option is actual paid escorts or raping them.
 
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And bitches still don't want you? If you're GL'ing and make that amount, I think your only option is actual paid escorts or raping them.
I have a 197 laycount. Its not that they dont want me its just that I get flaked and ghosted despite all this
 
And bitches still don't want you? If you're GL'ing and make that amount, I think your only option is actual paid escorts or raping them.
Like I can get 3 dates a week but the amount of jestermaxxing I have to do is crazy and I can still get flaked
 
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I have a 197 laycount. Its not that they dont want me its just that I get flaked and ghosted despite all this
Lol sounds like a humble brag. Either way you can't score 100%
 
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Sounds like your posts could literally be written by me. I have the same experience. That’s why I don’t believe anyone who says their success rate on tinder is 100 percent match to lay or they never get flaked on. Women get off more to validation and leaving chads on read more than actually having sex with them.

With OLD u have to match and as soon as u match try to hangout or else u will be lost and they will forget about u. Even as little as 5 days since u match. U might as well not even message them if u don’t message within the day u match and within ur first three messages setup an irl hangout
 
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Sounds like your posts could literally be written by me. I have the same experience. That’s why I don’t believe anyone who says their success rate on tinder is 100 percent match to lay or they never get flaked on. Women get off more to validation and leaving chads on read more than actually having sex with them.

With OLD u have to match and as soon as u match try to hangout or else u will be lost and they will forget about u. Even as little as 5 days since u match. U might as well not even message them if u don’t message within the day u match and within ur first three messages setup an irl hangout
Its crazy to me that you're a Chad and I'm a HTN and we have such a similar experience
 
Sounds like your posts could literally be written by me. I have the same experience. That’s why I don’t believe anyone who says their success rate on tinder is 100 percent match to lay or they never get flaked on. Women get off more to validation and leaving chads on read more than actually having sex with them.

With OLD u have to match and as soon as u match try to hangout or else u will be lost and they will forget about u. Even as little as 5 days since u match. U might as well not even message them if u don’t message within the day u match and within ur first three messages setup an irl hangout
I had girls where they went on a trip for a few days and totally forgot about me. You have to set the date asap otherwise they will lose interest
 
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this is just women now, variety are retarded and don’t know how to convey emotion correctly so they’ll block you, or lead you on.

simple
 
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this is just women now, variety are retarded and don’t know how to convey emotion correctly so they’ll block you, or lead you on.

simple
What is the solution for this? Geomax?
 
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yes, geomax is the move
 
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I had a gf for two months that was literally let me face fuck her and then out of nowhere she broke up with me, I think it's because I'm only normie and I was asking for too much sex too quickly given my attractiveness level.
Multiple guys here have said girls have dissapeared randomly this is common bro
 
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I have thought about this for years and this is the only solution I've come up with
Yeah dude go for it, too many fucking foids in the states, go to turkey, Sweden, Germany, Taiwan, Vietnam, places like that, you’ll be worshipped
 
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mid bitches need to be humbled
 
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It's literally top 0.01 percentile or death now.

You are either chad looks or 1m+ followers insta status or $100m+ beta-buxx gold-plated deluxe.

To guarantee a HTB LTR, you ideally need 2/3 or all of the above.
You are so wrong.
 
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It's same game as always, only problem is that dating apps are rigged from the start (their algorithm) and probably getting less and less women with time. It's a sausage fest. As you already know you should screen harder.
 
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Over the past few years the flake rate has become unbearable. I have girls telling me I'm hot to my face and then ghosting. All kinds of flakes, its hard to even get dates anymore. They take longer to reply, flake the day of the date, flake for the seocnd date, thrid date, etc. every step of the process is so hard. Can anyone else relate?

The best part of all is that all these girls are from OLD and they are below my looks level.



@Amnesia @chadison @JOJOcelReturns @Chadethnic101
Yeah the state of dating is that it’s got so much fucjing harder the women are only there for the validation and ego boost of knowing their ghosting guys that want them
 
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Yeah the state of dating is that it’s got so much fucjing harder the women are only there for the validation and ego boost of knowing their ghosting guys that want them
Do you experience the same?
 
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Yeah the state of dating is that it’s got so much fucjing harder the women are only there for the validation and ego boost of knowing their ghosting guys that want them
Ill dm you
 
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Yes jfl, a bitch will say the most vile shit about how she will fuck your brains out and LDAR you hours later. Welcome to the modern dating scene brother
 
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Over the past few years the flake rate has become unbearable. I have girls telling me I'm hot to my face and then ghosting. All kinds of flakes, its hard to even get dates anymore. They take longer to reply, flake the day of the date, flake for the seocnd date, thrid date, etc. every step of the process is so hard. Can anyone else relate?

The best part of all is that all these girls are from OLD and they are below my looks level.



@Amnesia @chadison @JOJOcelReturns @Chadethnic101
Going thru the same exact thing brother. Im a LTN (MTN in pics with editing and good photographer) and I put 6'0 and I get ghosted 98% of the time even if they are 2-3 points below my SMV and the date went well and we made out. It's insane. These chicks should be thankful men above their level are matching with them and asking them out on dates but i think the market is so bad that HTN/Chadlites are matching with these girls and the girls would rather go straight over to a Chadlite/HTNs crib to get pump and dump than go on a real date with a LTN/MTN (thats still above their level) infuckingsane.

It almost seems like you have to be HTN just to be able to breathe and tread water. And even HTN you will be able to pump and dump LTBs occasionally, unless ur super NT. But Anything below HTN will drown honestly
 
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Going thru the same exact thing brother. Im a LTN (MTN in pics with editing and good photographer) and I put 6'0 and I get ghosted 98% of the time even if they are 2-3 points below my SMV and the date went well and we made out. It's insane. These chicks should be thankful men above their level are matching with them and asking them out on dates but i think the market is so bad that HTN/Chadlites are matching with these girls and the girls would rather go straight over to a Chadlite/HTNs crib to get pump and dump than go on a real date with a LTN/MTN (thats still above their level) infuckingsane.

It almost seems like you have to be HTN just to be able to breathe and tread water. And even HTN you will be able to pump and dump LTBs occasionally, unless ur super NT. But Anything below HTN will drown honestly
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It's same game as always, only problem is that dating apps are rigged from the start (their algorithm)
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