For a guy like me who's never been on a date (im 27 btw), i have a question..

[NotoriousLoser]

What are you even talking about? who initiates the conversation? what do you do when there is an uncomfortable and cringe silence? I imagine this all brutally CRINGE as fck man. Thank god, ill never be on a date..

 

[VladimirtheGreat]

Just be honest,bro....tell her how you spent your 27y as a virgin and never hold hands with any girl...i am sure she will appreciate you being honest...
Just look at jeremy meeks....being in jail and crimimal and still got to be rich and marry stacy
Its all mindset

 

[khvirgin]

This was my main fear before going on dates, seriously, not sex or anything but this
It doesn't matter who initiates the conversation, if she doesn't start you can start and try to make her talk, but if she's an airhead you will have to do most of the talking

You usually talk about
- dating in general (past relationships, something about how you met: ie you met on tinder: what are your past experiences on tinder etc)
- job or school
- hobbies
- interests

then you can find some shit to add, traveling is something I always talk about and it works because you can talk about a single trip for much time you want

Always notice if she's interested in what you're saying and try to never monopolize the conversation

If you are one of these NEETs with no hobbies or interests that posts here... yeah you're fucked, just hope she talks about her all the time and find you attractive

 

[eduardkoopman]

Brutals title.

What are you even talking about?

Personal thing. hings that interest you.
And asking stuff about here, and trying to under her by asking or commenting further on the stuffs she says.

who initiates the conversation?

Ideally both. Usually in the beginning, the dude may have to do 80% of da talking. But Usually after some time, women talk more. Initially from experience, they can be passive quit alot. So be able to ask questions, babble a bit oneself. And try to have some fun, or some humor, to lighten the mood if she stiff.

what do you do when there is an uncomfortable and cringe silence?

Juat do stuff. Ask stuff. Tell stuff.

I imagine this all brutally CRINGE as fck man.

can be cringe. Can be smooth as hell.
i remember both kinds of dates

Thank god, ill never be on a date..

wtf. Been typing all this shit for no reason.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Just be honest,bro....tell her how you spent your 27y as a virgin and never hold hands with any girl..

in this case, NEVER de honest about that brah

Just look at jeremy meeks..

 

[Deleted member 21628]

youre an idiot

 

[NotoriousLoser]

Just be honest,bro....tell her how you spent your 27y as a virgin and never hold hands with any girl...i am sure she will appreciate you being honest...
Just look at jeremy meeks....being in jail and crimimal and still got to be rich and marry stacy
Its all mindset

what do u think her reaction will be when i tell her im a 27 yo kissless virgin? (but i held hands and got hugged by girls few times).

 

[VladimirtheGreat]

what do u think her reaction will be when i tell her im a 27 yo kissless virgin? (but i held hands and got hugged by girls few times).

Just hold your frame and be confident when speaking with her....women like honest men...there is no shame in being 27y old virgin...if she is mature enough she will be flattered for opportunity to be the first to give you kiss or sex....if not,well her loss....there are plenty fish in sea,for you king

 

[Deleted member 25059]

If you are one of these NEETs with no hobbies or interests that posts here... yeah you're fucked, just hope she talks about her all the time and find you attractive

the irony

 

[STAMPEDE]

Just say you're a religious man and you don't want to lose your virginity before marriage

 

[wollet2]

its over for you
online dating for a quick fuck at home is ur only option

 

[TechnoBoss]

You've gotta master the art of talking but not really saying anything at all. Of course talking about regular stuff like hobbies and lifestyle etc etc will be needed, but you're not gonna be doing that all the time. On a first date, you probably won't always be going that deep into stuff anyway because who wants to know all this stuff about you when no one knows if there's even going to be a second date? It's something that comes with experience and exposure (of which you have minimal amounts of) so it will most likely be a little awkward your first few dates.

 

[wollet2]

You've gotta master the art of talking but not really saying anything at all. Of course talking about regular stuff like hobbies and lifestyle etc etc will be needed, but you're not gonna be doing that all the time. On a first date, you probably won't always be going that deep into stuff anyway because who wants to know all this stuff about you when no one knows if there's even going to be a second date? It's something that comes with experience and exposure (of which you have minimal amounts of) so it will most likely be a little awkward your first few dates.

its all about saying actual clever things that lead to sex
most ppl cant do this, its brain diff

 

[TechnoBoss]

its all about saying actual clever things that lead to sex
most ppl cant do this, its brain diff

Yes, that is true. It is actually a brain thing. Most normies have no idea about this, let alone flirting.

 

[wollet2]

Yes, that is true. It is actually a brain thing. Most normies have no idea about this, let alone flirting.

its about creativity (a certain kind of it) and creativity is genetics and not something you can force. experience helps unfold your innate ability i guess

i used to be more creative when i was horny nowadays i have literally nothing to say to girls. ive also gotten brain damaged so its troubling for me to communicate

if i have to become sexual its an uncalibrated rugged thing, like i will just say ive been thinking that i like your tits lol with no build up. so fucking over

makes me feel so bad but i know most of my suffering comes from my dick not working so i cant do anything about it.

 

[cutie_pie]

This was my main fear before going on dates, seriously, not sex or anything but this
It doesn't matter who initiates the conversation, if she doesn't start you can start and try to make her talk, but if she's an airhead you will have to do most of the talking

You usually talk about
- dating in general (past relationships, something about how you met: ie you met on tinder: what are your past experiences on tinder etc)
- job or school
- hobbies
- interests

then you can find some shit to add, traveling is something I always talk about and it works because you can talk about a single trip for much time you want

Always notice if she's interested in what you're saying and try to never monopolize the conversation

If you are one of these NEETs with no hobbies or interests that posts here... yeah you're fucked, just hope she talks about her all the time and find you attractive

Slayer fakecel

 

[Deleted member 22058]

What are you even talking about? who initiates the conversation? what do you do when there is an uncomfortable and cringe silence? I imagine this all brutally CRINGE as fck man. Thank god, ill never be on a date..

damn this is sad as fuck