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She didn't lose interest. There was no interest to begin with. She smiled and laughed when talking to you because she's a normal human being. She gave you her phone number because she didn't want to make it awkward. She was responding to your texts because she liked the conversation.
At best, you're a fun person to talk to. She'll be willing to have a conversation but that's the very most she'll give you. She'll never initiate them though. As you text her more and more, she'll start responding less and eventually ghost you. She hates that you're starting to invest in her when she's not interested.
You just weren't attractive enough. You're a friend at best. There is no "lost interest" when it comes to getting to know a girl. If she found you hot, not only would she welcome your attention, she'd also make sure she's getting your attention by reaching out to you. Said something unfunny? She'll find it hilarious. Made something too sexual? She'll escalate it. Responding too soon? She'll love that you're getting invested. It's really hard to lose her, even if you tried.
Despite what they say, girls do not lose interest easily. They make everything super easy for you when they're interested. There's also no such thing as a girl who's unsure if she finds you attractive but wants to see where it goes. She either likes you or she doesn't. Attraction is binary. A girl who's friendly but isn't blatantly hinting attraction isn't interested. Plain and simple.
Uf you're unsure how she feels, then drop it and realize you're just not good looking enough to get girls easily.
Also, seduction is pure bullshit and communities are made entirely out of copers, people that want to sell something, and chads that haven't realized their privilege.
Inb4 water
At best, you're a fun person to talk to. She'll be willing to have a conversation but that's the very most she'll give you. She'll never initiate them though. As you text her more and more, she'll start responding less and eventually ghost you. She hates that you're starting to invest in her when she's not interested.
You just weren't attractive enough. You're a friend at best. There is no "lost interest" when it comes to getting to know a girl. If she found you hot, not only would she welcome your attention, she'd also make sure she's getting your attention by reaching out to you. Said something unfunny? She'll find it hilarious. Made something too sexual? She'll escalate it. Responding too soon? She'll love that you're getting invested. It's really hard to lose her, even if you tried.
Despite what they say, girls do not lose interest easily. They make everything super easy for you when they're interested. There's also no such thing as a girl who's unsure if she finds you attractive but wants to see where it goes. She either likes you or she doesn't. Attraction is binary. A girl who's friendly but isn't blatantly hinting attraction isn't interested. Plain and simple.
Uf you're unsure how she feels, then drop it and realize you're just not good looking enough to get girls easily.
Also, seduction is pure bullshit and communities are made entirely out of copers, people that want to sell something, and chads that haven't realized their privilege.
Inb4 water
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