Story how I talked to a virgin for 2 years and fumbled/ got rejected (need advice)

[LilJojo]

yes real. why mental health issues?

She replying to you after months of ghosting with extremely large texts and voice messages indicates a issue as she shows obsession after not caring for a while.

 

[Deleted member 63833]

She replying to you after months of ghosting with extremely large texts and voice messages indicates a issue as she shows obsession after not caring for a while.

shes just busy with caring for her family etc

 

[kingofkings]

shes just busy with caring for her family etc

Bro use your brain. No girl stops replying to someone they care about for months at a time because they're "busy". In this day and age if someone doesn't reply for even 24 hours that's a huge red flag. You was just a penpal to her, convenient at times but that's it. She likely has dozens of them and you're just one of many. Don't waste your time trying to analyze why she's like this.

Talking so much over text is also a huge waste of time. You should always progress conversation to verbal real-time communication as quick as possible for so many reasons. Just a few:

1. You'll build a deeper connection. It's extremely hard to do that over text. You think you're building a meaningful connection with hundreds of texts but that connection is nothing compared to the connection you'll build with real-time verbal talking.
2. It's better you find out sooner rather than later if you're compatible. Talking is very different to texting
3. You'll root out the timewasters. A lot of girls just want a penpal or their ego boosted or someone to talk to or whatever the fuck.
4. Any quality girl will have ton of people like you for her to talk to over text. You need to stand out.
5. It keeps things realer. With texts and voice-notes none of it is fucking real. I had girls I was sending hundreds of texts to back and forth a day with the most intense, deep conversations, some even telling me they were in love with me and blah blah blah, it all means fuck all.

Before I ascended I had many online relationships. Some crazy ones.

Every single one I ever got verbally speaking to regularly on the phone got completely hooked and addicted to me. As soon as I realized that I made it a protocol and cut off anyone who just wanted a text-only communication. That should be your lesson here.

 

[zulca]

jfl at you for chasing this nigga

 

[MoggerGaston]

> I talked
> for 2 years

jfl man look at this clown @the BULL
some people talk to a girl for years while we devour her pussy within a couple of hours.

are we even the same species?

 

[Darkeningstar]

So it is not true that you feel few emotions, you psychopaths are a bit like this

 

[Deleted member 63833]

> I talked
> for 2 years

jfl man look at this clown @the BULL
some people talk to a girl for years while we devour her pussy within a couple of hours.

are we even the same species?

I have 100+ slays while you rot as a broke loser in the netherlands lmao

and yes having 50k at age 30 means ur broke fyi

So it is not true that you feel few emotions, you psychopaths are a bit like this

wym?

 

[Darkeningstar]

wym?

Sometimes you undervalue your emotion

 

[chimpkill]

Dnrd but cool story

 

[TwinkLord]

I met a girl 2 years ago on a language learning app and right from the start I understood she's special, unlike other girls she always wrote me very beautiful texts, very polite, we had the most wonderful conversation from the start, and of course she also had angelic looks, but she has some sort of facial asymmetry related to her mouth (but I don't mind it). She looks like a nordic angel basically with big cheekbones and lips (no photos).

It was in March 2022, and after talking to her for a bit I basically fell in love with her, it's hard to explain as I'm actually not a simp, and actually I have >100 slays, but the way that she interacted with me, it was so pure and beautiful, she always wrote me long written texts extremely well written and like she's a wonderful person somehow, I don't know how to explain it.

After that, she stopped responding to me after I sent pics of my trip to Belgium, there was 1 pic where I look kinda manlet, could be the reason (was also fatter at the time), but she replied after about 2 weeks. Well basically for her it was always normal to take a while to reply, she claims that's what she always does. But after a few weeks she stopped replying at all, then I got mad and deleted the chat (on telegram).

Afterwards, I travelled and racked up quite a bit of slays, I briefly forgot about her but not really, after a few months I contacted her again, in July 2022. Then we started talking again, she never asked me why I deleted the chat etc. btw which is weird, like she always talks to me like she's very enthusiastic but she never asks about things like that or why I do certain things. I suspect that she is schizoid or something but I'm not sure. Then the same thing, she stopped replying again, but this time I decided to just leave the chat and forget about it.

At this time I got a cute blonde girlfriend, actually this girl looked better than the virgin, (but not virgin), but she had sex with 2 guys. I had raw sex with her and she orgasmed on my dick etc, so I was happy about that for a while. But one day, she was at my place literally cooking me food, then out of nowhere the virgin sends me multiple long messages replying after 2+ months, she basically asked me first I think if I'm "okay with the fact that I did not reply to you in a while" and I said yes, and then she wrote me long beautiful texts again. Man, when I got those messages I got so excited, I totally stopped caring about my GF while she's cooking (even though she looks better facially) for me. I legit waited until my GF finally left the next morning to read the messages, I was so happy about it.. Then we talked again for multiple months, and I had something bad happen to me. She told me about how if we lived nearby (yes we live far away) she would go on walks with me to help me, and at that time she also agreed to meet up with me. This was after I showed her a very large amount of money I lost btw, maybe she was impressed by the number, don't know. But she said that she wants to meet me, and we agreed to meet in March 2023.

I got really excited, I thought this is it, I finally found my wife, I'm GMI. But to be honest meanwhile I was racking up slays, I think I fucked 10-15 girls while I was chatting to her, of course they meant nothing to me except sex but still. After she agreed to meet up with me, she also got a remote job (she's too shy or something to go to a in person job). After she started working at the job, she started replying less and less to me, until eventually around January she didn't answer me for weeks, while 3-5 days was normal for her, this was not.

Around new years she sent me pictures of herself celebrating new years and asked me to sent her pictures of me celebrating new years (she doesnt have a personal ig). I actually did celebrate new years with my cousin and some family, but we didn't really take any pics of me or together (probably since my cousin is fat and I mog him). So I just showed her some random pics I took of the table of food and an autistic pic of me when I was drunking flexing in the mirror, tbh this picture was very autistic and a bad idea, and I looked like a manlet (I'm 183 cm), but she said I look good or something like that.. not sure

Then after ignoring me for weeks basically came with an excuse that her grandpa got sick, and she had a mole on her face that "might be cancerous" that she has to get removed, it sounds like a stupid excuse but I'm not sure, because her father actually died some years ago and she has to take care of her family alone. So basically she said she couldn't meet and she felt very bad about it.. then I tried to talk to her but she didn't really respond after a while, and I deleted the chat and my TG account again.

But for some reason no matter how many girls I slay, how many relationships I can't get her out of my head, she just seems to be the highest quality, best girl, virgin, also the cutest (even though objectively I had better slays, since she also has some mouth asymmetry failo). There's just something about her that makes her live rent free in my head for years even though we never met. So in June 2023, I wrote her again.. She replied and was replying fast, seemed enthusiastic, but it was the same thing, she stopped replying after a while, she said that her work really exhausts her and that her boss bullies her, and that she's burnt out and has no energy to respond to anything.. So I deleted the chat again like a clown

But then I decided to write her again after a while, this time it seemed different, she was very responsive and sent me 1 hour long voice messages kind of implying we will be together, things like that, I listened to everything and replied, man it basically seemed like we were going to be together, then around October she sent me a picture of her passport, I guess she wanted to show me the "flaw" she has because she thought I didn't notice before (of course I did) but I don't really care about it lol.. The thing is that I can tell she's very insecure about her asymmetry, but actually it's funny because I have the same thing, I look good in general but I have some asymmetry that makes me look bad in some pictures, it's not as bad as hers but still. Then I basically misunderstood some part that she wrote because she used some slang words, she also said something like "my cheekbones are so asymmetrical.. horrible" and I didn't know what to say, so I basically used chatgpt to generate a NT reply to that something like "everyone has flaws etc."I guess it was cringe and I misunderstood a part of what she said, so I also sent her a video saying "you can look at my asymmetries" but the problem was that this video was extremely autistic and my high hairline was clearly visible on it + exaggerated by the video. I deleted it after some hours but she probably saw it.

After this she TOTALLY stopped replying to me, I don't know if it was the video or the autistic message or both, but it was totally over, I even sent her a happy birthday mesage with a heart but she didn't even open it, just nothing. Then I started RAGING and sent her multiple messages, after a while she responded that her grandfather is in the hospital and she's with him, and that it breaks her heart, so she'll reply later. And she always says shes tired, burnt out, has to take care of her family alone, etc. she had to sell her apartment so her brother can go to uni, so yeah idk how much of it is true. but yeah after that I deleted the chat again, then tried writing her but every time she started replying less and less, she kept saying that she really wanted to talk to me but she's too stressed and burnt out, and she has too many problems, I don't know if it's excuses or not I even tried asking her if it's the video or what I did wrong but she kept repeating it's really just the fact that she's exhausted and she doesn't have the strength for our communication.

Then what I did in the end was send her a video where I look good saying goodbye and I won't contact her again, then I deleted my account (but she still saw the video) this was 2 months ago, now I check her TG and she suddenly has put 2 pics of herself, when she NEVER had them before, I don't know who she wants to attract or impress but basically I got extremely triggered by this, I even thought about writing her again but I know I have to try to keep my word, and she will just stop replying again anyways, idk I have hopes that the video where I look good fixed things but can't help but think who she's putting these pics for after I left. yeah probably nobody will read and nobody will cares but had to get it out there, after 2 years and countless slays sstill cant stop thinking about her every day, idk wtf is wrong with me or what she has done to me, it's over, idk what to do tbh. I might break down soon and contact her again, but it's probably pointless. idk i I doubt anyone read but if you do, can you tell me what I can do? thanks.

JFL, I know it was interpals by reading this. Language app and Telegram, she was obviously Russian

 

[Mike141]

>100

tales

 

[RVLclassy]

Don't worry I'm sure the 16th time you try to get things going she will keep responding and the same shit won't happen again! It's just a girl, she clearly doesn't want you or shes severely fried in the head.

 

[bourgeoizyzz]

I met a girl 2 years ago on a language learning app and right from the start I understood she's special,

wow what a start to your shitpost

A+

That said, too long did not endeavor to read

 

[Deleted member 43829]

I met a girl 2 years ago on a language learning app and right from the start I understood she's special, unlike other girls she always wrote me very beautiful texts, very polite, we had the most wonderful conversation from the start, and of course she also had angelic looks, but she has some sort of facial asymmetry related to her mouth (but I don't mind it). She looks like a nordic angel basically with big cheekbones and lips (no photos).

It was in March 2022, and after talking to her for a bit I basically fell in love with her, it's hard to explain as I'm actually not a simp, and actually I have >100 slays, but the way that she interacted with me, it was so pure and beautiful, she always wrote me long written texts extremely well written and like she's a wonderful person somehow, I don't know how to explain it.

After that, she stopped responding to me after I sent pics of my trip to Belgium, there was 1 pic where I look kinda manlet, could be the reason (was also fatter at the time), but she replied after about 2 weeks. Well basically for her it was always normal to take a while to reply, she claims that's what she always does. But after a few weeks she stopped replying at all, then I got mad and deleted the chat (on telegram).

Afterwards, I travelled and racked up quite a bit of slays, I briefly forgot about her but not really, after a few months I contacted her again, in July 2022. Then we started talking again, she never asked me why I deleted the chat etc. btw which is weird, like she always talks to me like she's very enthusiastic but she never asks about things like that or why I do certain things. I suspect that she is schizoid or something but I'm not sure. Then the same thing, she stopped replying again, but this time I decided to just leave the chat and forget about it.

At this time I got a cute blonde girlfriend, actually this girl looked better than the virgin, (but not virgin), but she had sex with 2 guys. I had raw sex with her and she orgasmed on my dick etc, so I was happy about that for a while. But one day, she was at my place literally cooking me food, then out of nowhere the virgin sends me multiple long messages replying after 2+ months, she basically asked me first I think if I'm "okay with the fact that I did not reply to you in a while" and I said yes, and then she wrote me long beautiful texts again. Man, when I got those messages I got so excited, I totally stopped caring about my GF while she's cooking (even though she looks better facially) for me. I legit waited until my GF finally left the next morning to read the messages, I was so happy about it.. Then we talked again for multiple months, and I had something bad happen to me. She told me about how if we lived nearby (yes we live far away) she would go on walks with me to help me, and at that time she also agreed to meet up with me. This was after I showed her a very large amount of money I lost btw, maybe she was impressed by the number, don't know. But she said that she wants to meet me, and we agreed to meet in March 2023.

I got really excited, I thought this is it, I finally found my wife, I'm GMI. But to be honest meanwhile I was racking up slays, I think I fucked 10-15 girls while I was chatting to her, of course they meant nothing to me except sex but still. After she agreed to meet up with me, she also got a remote job (she's too shy or something to go to a in person job). After she started working at the job, she started replying less and less to me, until eventually around January she didn't answer me for weeks, while 3-5 days was normal for her, this was not.

Around new years she sent me pictures of herself celebrating new years and asked me to sent her pictures of me celebrating new years (she doesnt have a personal ig). I actually did celebrate new years with my cousin and some family, but we didn't really take any pics of me or together (probably since my cousin is fat and I mog him). So I just showed her some random pics I took of the table of food and an autistic pic of me when I was drunking flexing in the mirror, tbh this picture was very autistic and a bad idea, and I looked like a manlet (I'm 183 cm), but she said I look good or something like that.. not sure

Then after ignoring me for weeks basically came with an excuse that her grandpa got sick, and she had a mole on her face that "might be cancerous" that she has to get removed, it sounds like a stupid excuse but I'm not sure, because her father actually died some years ago and she has to take care of her family alone. So basically she said she couldn't meet and she felt very bad about it.. then I tried to talk to her but she didn't really respond after a while, and I deleted the chat and my TG account again.

But for some reason no matter how many girls I slay, how many relationships I can't get her out of my head, she just seems to be the highest quality, best girl, virgin, also the cutest (even though objectively I had better slays, since she also has some mouth asymmetry failo). There's just something about her that makes her live rent free in my head for years even though we never met. So in June 2023, I wrote her again.. She replied and was replying fast, seemed enthusiastic, but it was the same thing, she stopped replying after a while, she said that her work really exhausts her and that her boss bullies her, and that she's burnt out and has no energy to respond to anything.. So I deleted the chat again like a clown

But then I decided to write her again after a while, this time it seemed different, she was very responsive and sent me 1 hour long voice messages kind of implying we will be together, things like that, I listened to everything and replied, man it basically seemed like we were going to be together, then around October she sent me a picture of her passport, I guess she wanted to show me the "flaw" she has because she thought I didn't notice before (of course I did) but I don't really care about it lol.. The thing is that I can tell she's very insecure about her asymmetry, but actually it's funny because I have the same thing, I look good in general but I have some asymmetry that makes me look bad in some pictures, it's not as bad as hers but still. Then I basically misunderstood some part that she wrote because she used some slang words, she also said something like "my cheekbones are so asymmetrical.. horrible" and I didn't know what to say, so I basically used chatgpt to generate a NT reply to that something like "everyone has flaws etc."I guess it was cringe and I misunderstood a part of what she said, so I also sent her a video saying "you can look at my asymmetries" but the problem was that this video was extremely autistic and my high hairline was clearly visible on it + exaggerated by the video. I deleted it after some hours but she probably saw it.

After this she TOTALLY stopped replying to me, I don't know if it was the video or the autistic message or both, but it was totally over, I even sent her a happy birthday mesage with a heart but she didn't even open it, just nothing. Then I started RAGING and sent her multiple messages, after a while she responded that her grandfather is in the hospital and she's with him, and that it breaks her heart, so she'll reply later. And she always says shes tired, burnt out, has to take care of her family alone, etc. she had to sell her apartment so her brother can go to uni, so yeah idk how much of it is true. but yeah after that I deleted the chat again, then tried writing her but every time she started replying less and less, she kept saying that she really wanted to talk to me but she's too stressed and burnt out, and she has too many problems, I don't know if it's excuses or not I even tried asking her if it's the video or what I did wrong but she kept repeating it's really just the fact that she's exhausted and she doesn't have the strength for our communication.

Then what I did in the end was send her a video where I look good saying goodbye and I won't contact her again, then I deleted my account (but she still saw the video) this was 2 months ago, now I check her TG and she suddenly has put 2 pics of herself, when she NEVER had them before, I don't know who she wants to attract or impress but basically I got extremely triggered by this, I even thought about writing her again but I know I have to try to keep my word, and she will just stop replying again anyways, idk I have hopes that the video where I look good fixed things but can't help but think who she's putting these pics for after I left. yeah probably nobody will read and nobody will cares but had to get it out there, after 2 years and countless slays sstill cant stop thinking about her every day, idk wtf is wrong with me or what she has done to me, it's over, idk what to do tbh. I might break down soon and contact her again, but it's probably pointless. idk i I doubt anyone read but if you do, can you tell me what I can do? thanks.

i relate to this. i read every single molecule, i have the same feel as you, so many random hoes but none of them are her, mine is also a sweet angelic virgin who i’ve known for years but she’s never wanted me , it’s like every girl i want doesn’t want me back and girls i don’t want to ltr want me. it’s truly brutal for us sub chads.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I met a girl 2 years ago on a language learning app and right from the start I understood she's special, unlike other girls she always wrote me very beautiful texts, very polite, we had the most wonderful conversation from the start, and of course she also had angelic looks, but she has some sort of facial asymmetry related to her mouth (but I don't mind it). She looks like a nordic angel basically with big cheekbones and lips (no photos).

It was in March 2022, and after talking to her for a bit I basically fell in love with her, it's hard to explain as I'm actually not a simp, and actually I have >100 slays, but the way that she interacted with me, it was so pure and beautiful, she always wrote me long written texts extremely well written and like she's a wonderful person somehow, I don't know how to explain it.

After that, she stopped responding to me after I sent pics of my trip to Belgium, there was 1 pic where I look kinda manlet, could be the reason (was also fatter at the time), but she replied after about 2 weeks. Well basically for her it was always normal to take a while to reply, she claims that's what she always does. But after a few weeks she stopped replying at all, then I got mad and deleted the chat (on telegram).

Afterwards, I travelled and racked up quite a bit of slays, I briefly forgot about her but not really, after a few months I contacted her again, in July 2022. Then we started talking again, she never asked me why I deleted the chat etc. btw which is weird, like she always talks to me like she's very enthusiastic but she never asks about things like that or why I do certain things. I suspect that she is schizoid or something but I'm not sure. Then the same thing, she stopped replying again, but this time I decided to just leave the chat and forget about it.

At this time I got a cute blonde girlfriend, actually this girl looked better than the virgin, (but not virgin), but she had sex with 2 guys. I had raw sex with her and she orgasmed on my dick etc, so I was happy about that for a while. But one day, she was at my place literally cooking me food, then out of nowhere the virgin sends me multiple long messages replying after 2+ months, she basically asked me first I think if I'm "okay with the fact that I did not reply to you in a while" and I said yes, and then she wrote me long beautiful texts again. Man, when I got those messages I got so excited, I totally stopped caring about my GF while she's cooking (even though she looks better facially) for me. I legit waited until my GF finally left the next morning to read the messages, I was so happy about it.. Then we talked again for multiple months, and I had something bad happen to me. She told me about how if we lived nearby (yes we live far away) she would go on walks with me to help me, and at that time she also agreed to meet up with me. This was after I showed her a very large amount of money I lost btw, maybe she was impressed by the number, don't know. But she said that she wants to meet me, and we agreed to meet in March 2023.

I got really excited, I thought this is it, I finally found my wife, I'm GMI. But to be honest meanwhile I was racking up slays, I think I fucked 10-15 girls while I was chatting to her, of course they meant nothing to me except sex but still. After she agreed to meet up with me, she also got a remote job (she's too shy or something to go to a in person job). After she started working at the job, she started replying less and less to me, until eventually around January she didn't answer me for weeks, while 3-5 days was normal for her, this was not.

Around new years she sent me pictures of herself celebrating new years and asked me to sent her pictures of me celebrating new years (she doesnt have a personal ig). I actually did celebrate new years with my cousin and some family, but we didn't really take any pics of me or together (probably since my cousin is fat and I mog him). So I just showed her some random pics I took of the table of food and an autistic pic of me when I was drunking flexing in the mirror, tbh this picture was very autistic and a bad idea, and I looked like a manlet (I'm 183 cm), but she said I look good or something like that.. not sure

Then after ignoring me for weeks basically came with an excuse that her grandpa got sick, and she had a mole on her face that "might be cancerous" that she has to get removed, it sounds like a stupid excuse but I'm not sure, because her father actually died some years ago and she has to take care of her family alone. So basically she said she couldn't meet and she felt very bad about it.. then I tried to talk to her but she didn't really respond after a while, and I deleted the chat and my TG account again.

But for some reason no matter how many girls I slay, how many relationships I can't get her out of my head, she just seems to be the highest quality, best girl, virgin, also the cutest (even though objectively I had better slays, since she also has some mouth asymmetry failo). There's just something about her that makes her live rent free in my head for years even though we never met. So in June 2023, I wrote her again.. She replied and was replying fast, seemed enthusiastic, but it was the same thing, she stopped replying after a while, she said that her work really exhausts her and that her boss bullies her, and that she's burnt out and has no energy to respond to anything.. So I deleted the chat again like a clown

But then I decided to write her again after a while, this time it seemed different, she was very responsive and sent me 1 hour long voice messages kind of implying we will be together, things like that, I listened to everything and replied, man it basically seemed like we were going to be together, then around October she sent me a picture of her passport, I guess she wanted to show me the "flaw" she has because she thought I didn't notice before (of course I did) but I don't really care about it lol.. The thing is that I can tell she's very insecure about her asymmetry, but actually it's funny because I have the same thing, I look good in general but I have some asymmetry that makes me look bad in some pictures, it's not as bad as hers but still. Then I basically misunderstood some part that she wrote because she used some slang words, she also said something like "my cheekbones are so asymmetrical.. horrible" and I didn't know what to say, so I basically used chatgpt to generate a NT reply to that something like "everyone has flaws etc."I guess it was cringe and I misunderstood a part of what she said, so I also sent her a video saying "you can look at my asymmetries" but the problem was that this video was extremely autistic and my high hairline was clearly visible on it + exaggerated by the video. I deleted it after some hours but she probably saw it.

After this she TOTALLY stopped replying to me, I don't know if it was the video or the autistic message or both, but it was totally over, I even sent her a happy birthday mesage with a heart but she didn't even open it, just nothing. Then I started RAGING and sent her multiple messages, after a while she responded that her grandfather is in the hospital and she's with him, and that it breaks her heart, so she'll reply later. And she always says shes tired, burnt out, has to take care of her family alone, etc. she had to sell her apartment so her brother can go to uni, so yeah idk how much of it is true. but yeah after that I deleted the chat again, then tried writing her but every time she started replying less and less, she kept saying that she really wanted to talk to me but she's too stressed and burnt out, and she has too many problems, I don't know if it's excuses or not I even tried asking her if it's the video or what I did wrong but she kept repeating it's really just the fact that she's exhausted and she doesn't have the strength for our communication.

Then what I did in the end was send her a video where I look good saying goodbye and I won't contact her again, then I deleted my account (but she still saw the video) this was 2 months ago, now I check her TG and she suddenly has put 2 pics of herself, when she NEVER had them before, I don't know who she wants to attract or impress but basically I got extremely triggered by this, I even thought about writing her again but I know I have to try to keep my word, and she will just stop replying again anyways, idk I have hopes that the video where I look good fixed things but can't help but think who she's putting these pics for after I left. yeah probably nobody will read and nobody will cares but had to get it out there, after 2 years and countless slays sstill cant stop thinking about her every day, idk wtf is wrong with me or what she has done to me, it's over, idk what to do tbh. I might break down soon and contact her again, but it's probably pointless. idk i I doubt anyone read but if you do, can you tell me what I can do? thanks.

I hate slayers

 

[Deleted member 75035]

(probably since my cousin is fat and I mog him).

 

[14yearoldpslmogger]

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