for some reason people dislike me

[Algernon]

even if i never met them, it is just the first time meeting, they don't like me

idk why, i am reserved and don't talk in real life and yet people avoid me (i don't have any bad status or notoriety either)

(no i don't smell bad)

i don't think i am that ugly either, i am around mltn

does anyone else have this too?

 

[Algernon]

bump

 

[Mogger2000]

even if i never met them, it is just the first time meeting, they don't like me

idk why, i am reserved and don't talk in real life and yet people avoid me (i don't have any bad status or notoriety either)

(no i don't smell bad)

i don't think i am that ugly either, i am around mltn

does anyone else have this too?

how tall are you? ethnicity? Country?

 

[Algernon]

how tall are you?

6'1
white
in the US

 

[Mogger2000]

6'1

ethnicity? Country?

 

[Algernon]

ethnicity? Country?

i edited it

 

[khazarianmafia73]

normies can detect ND within a second even if you mask

 

[Mogger2000]

6'1
white
in the US

hmmmmm, could be social anxiety or autism then, and/or ur face/expressions look unapproachable (for example, angry looking eyebrows)

 

[Algernon]

normies can detect ND within a second even if you mask

i'm not really that ND

i don't talk to people first but if they talk to me first i am able to talk for a long time

 

[Mogger2000]

normies can detect ND within a second even if you mask

there's been a study on this that nt people dont dislike autistic people, they're more neutral in their stance on them, as in they can recognize autistic people as being friendly/good in character, but they just dont want to interact with autistic people, whereas with nt people they either really like them or really hate them

 

[Algernon]

hmmmmm, could be social anxiety or autism then,

in public i look around a lot, maybe that is part of why

 

[Mogger2000]

in public i look around a lot, maybe that is part of why

A principle I like to follow in life is the "me me me" principle, everyone wants their own source of stimulation and happiness, and as long as you can provide that for people they wont really care about your behaviour like looking around a lot. Try to think this one through though, assuming your assessment that others dont like you is correct, are you not asking questions about the other person? Or talking in a way that's fun and intellectually stimulating for them? A lot of people stay on the surface and dont really go any deeper. Idk though, maybe try to look for extremes in your traits, cus there are thousands of variables that affect the other person's assessment of you