For those non NT

[RAITEIII]

I will be trying smth. I am Giga NT in reality but have trust issues.

What I read yesterday from some nigga is to be honest with yourself and don't give mixed signals. If youre nerveous in front of ur toilet and youre pretending cool... you're giving two signals that CAN be sensed... at this point you're not trustable and come across as a potential trainwreck.

So you will take a breath, and act humble. Within your state. Go from there. Use that real base and try to improve yourself naturally not just by trying to fake. Accept your feelings! Shit is gonna change naturally after a while because your brain is plastic and adaptable.

If anything, by being honest you already have covered the personality points, if they ever mattered!

 

[RAITEIII]

Your brain is working twice. One dealing with your first state. And second dealing with the fake one. This leads to mistakes...

Pick up the first one and work with that. I am gonna try from this week on

 

[Tabula Rasa]

what are these two states

 

[RAITEIII]

what are these two states

1. Non NT
This normally will involve anxiety, fear... of looking non NT

2. Fake state where you are trying to act a certain way.


However its unlikely 2 can override 1 and look natural. Smth looks off.

 

[Tabula Rasa]

1. Non NT
This normally will involve anxiety, fear... of looking non NT

2. Fake state where you are trying to act a certain way.


However its unlikely 2 can override 1 and look natural. Smth looks off.

so what ur saying is just be non-nt

 

[RAITEIII]

so what ur saying is just be non-nt

No. Accept the state and work from it.

 

[Tabula Rasa]

No. Accept the state and work from it.

what do you mean by 'picking up' non-nt and 'working' from it

 

[Deleted member 43828]

"im giga nt"
"20k posts"

 

[RAITEIII]

what do you mean by 'picking up' non-nt and 'working' from it

That you shouldnt have two mindset battling in ur head. Last dating prospect got ruined this way. I was nerveous and felt I looked shit. My mind was focused on pretendending to be Okay. So I committed a mistake.

 

[Tabula Rasa]

That you shouldnt have two mindset battling in ur head. Last dating prospect got ruined this way. I was nerveous and felt I looked shit. My mind was focused on pretendending to be Okay. So I committed a mistake.

what is the correct mindset

 

[Deleted member 25743]

what is the correct mindset

take cold showers and meditate