frens?

[IWILLMAKEIT]

Ye, but like I'm not going to go up to a random person on the street?

Thats the point of hobbies and sports
Or school

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Thats the point of hobbies and sports
Or school

Am too old for schools... And I don't know what I can do, as everything is closed and these retarded masks everywhere.

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

Am too old for schools... And I don't know what I can do, as everything is closed and these retarded masks everywhere.

Ah
You need to wait it out nothing else you can do
As you get older friends become harder to make so get on it quick
I recommend becoming friends with people who have nepotistic cultures i.e arabs so you can reap benefits i.e free food
Good luck bro

 

[Bewusst]

It's because I'm desperate and I don't know what to do anymore.

We've all been there some time. You unironically need to grow some balls and accept your situation first. Trust me, you'll achieve nothing out of desperation

 

[Deleted member 10536]

We've all been there some time. You unironically need to grow some balls and accept your situation first. Trust me, you'll achieve nothing out of desperation

I don't understand what you mean by accept? How can I not accept it?

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Ah
You need to wait it out nothing else you can do
As you get older friends become harder to make so get on it quick
I recommend becoming friends with people who have nepotistic cultures i.e arabs so you can reap benefits i.e free food
Good luck bro

Damn. I'm so picky with food, because I want most basic stuff ever

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

Damn. I'm so picky with food, because I want most basic stuff ever

Whats your favourite?

 

[Bewusst]

I don't understand what you mean by accept? How can I not accept it?

What about it don't you get?

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Whats your favourite?

I just eat meat, eggs, fruits and dairy. Can't get any more primitive than that.

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

I just eat meat, eggs, fruits and dairy. Can't get any more primitive than that.

Same minus fruits cause I hate sweet things since birth
Ooga booga diet is best diet tbh
Nothing beats meat cooked on a stick over a fire

 

[Deleted member 10536]

What about it don't you get?

Well I feel like I accept everything and things that are out of my control are not something that I can worry about. So it seems like I accept the reality. I don't even know how I could reject it. I'm lonely and a failure and I'd like to change things, but idk how to.

 

[Bewusst]

Well I feel like I accept everything and things that are out of my control are not something that I can worry about. So it seems like I accept the reality. I don't even know how I could reject it. I'm lonely and a failure and I'd like to change things, but idk how to.

You don't give the impression of being accepting at all tbh. Accepting means actually being content/okay with the way things are and you don't seem content at all. Some things take time to swallow/digest but you gotta let go of ideals and redirect your focus to other more positive things in your life.

That's just my way of dealing with life and I know people who disagree but I'm doing fine with it. You may need to figure your own way out

 

[Deleted member 10536]

You don't give the impression of being accepting at all tbh. Accepting means actually being content/okay with the way things are and you don't seem content at all. Some things take time to swallow/digest but you gotta let go of ideals and redirect your focus to other more positive things in your life.

That's just my way of dealing with life and I know people who disagree but I'm doing fine with it. You may need to figure your own way out

okay. Yes, in this case I'm not accepting, because the way things are, are really bad and if this continues, well, there's nothing to continue. So I can't be for the betterment of myself. I just don't know what to do anymore. I can't be alone. I'd rather just die.

 

[Bewusst]

okay. Yes, in this case I'm not accepting, because the way things are, are really bad and if this continues, well, there's nothing to continue. So I can't be for the betterment of myself. I just don't know what to do anymore. I can't be alone. I'd rather just die.

Swallow. That's what you have to do right now. Even if you can't see it right now, your perspective can change eventually

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Swallow. That's what you have to do right now. Even if you can't see it right now, your perspective can change eventually

I seriously don't understand

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Swallow. That's what you have to do right now. Even if you can't see it right now, your perspective can change eventually

I spent last 4 hours staring into ceiling thinking about my life and now you're trying to talk to me. This is so bizarre.
life makes no sense.
No way this is normal, right?
My entire life is this forum

 

[Bewusst]

I seriously don't understand

You may think your life is as shitty as it gets right now but it isn't and you will stop suffering (as much) once you've grown used to and accept your situation, which may or may not change anyway eventually

 

[copeittothelimit]

I need hand holding. It's like I'm so disconnected, I don't even know how.

dont know how to learn a sport and get involved? pick a sport, get decent at it, join a club/ mens league. profit?

 

[Deleted member 10536]

You may think your life is as shitty as it gets right now but it isn't and you will stop suffering (as much) once you've grown used to and accept your situation, which may or may not change anyway eventually

Technically it is at the worst it has ever been so far, so that's not helpful.
I suppose it could get worse.
But I need to do something about it.
Economic uncertainty of the world is also paralysing me, just wish that if it crashes, it crashes asap and then get over it.
I just want to be happy, but it seems like that's not possible to achieve while being alone and I just don't know how to make any friends.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

dont know how to learn a sport and get involved? pick a sport, get decent at it, join a club/ mens league. profit?

I actually don't.
Current situation is not good, then there's me being tired and wanting to get to bed after work. Work takes too much energy and time, I really need to find another job.
What comes to mind for me is swimming pool and gym. I'd like to learn how to dance, but everything is closed and I'm not even sure it'd work. Also I think you need to have a pair or something.
Idk about any clubs. All my hobbies are that of being alone. So it's like I'm stuck.

 

[lutte]

Honestly idk. Don’t know how to put it but you give off rly wierd vibes

 

[copeittothelimit]

Honestly idk. Don’t know how to put it but you give off rly wierd vibes

this is what happens when you have a complex, are an outsider and have much pain in your heart, it can be felt and disturbs people.
thats why OP has no option to be lazy and must realize hes working against his choices x his entire life.

 

[copeittothelimit]

I actually don't.
Current situation is not good, then there's me being tired and wanting to get to bed after work. Work takes too much energy and time, I really need to find another job.
What comes to mind for me is swimming pool and gym. I'd like to learn how to dance, but everything is closed and I'm not even sure it'd work. Also I think you need to have a pair or something.
Idk about any clubs. All my hobbies are that of being alone. So it's like I'm stuck.

I feel the same way.