Friend fucks your ex gf wwyd

[Deleted member 8016]

He's not one of my best friends but we all hangout in the same group, my ex gf included.
I'm not into her anymore and I'm not that mad, but I don't want to appear weak.
Everyone in the group is gonna gossip about the fact that he's fucking my ex gf.
Wwyd if you were me ?

I could fuck her just to mess with their "couple", honestly it would be so cringe if they were officially together.
Also I could try to bang her bff.

 

[Deleted member 6723]

bang bff

 

[zikzog]

Literally give absolutely zero fucks about what other people like that think. The best way to assert dominance is to show you have other friends and you fuck other people. Get a group of friends that are just guys too, women friends in groups honestly just always 100% of the time cause shit, they aren't worth it.

 

[Deleted member 11758]

 

[Deleted member 12002]

He's not one of my best friends but we all hangout in the same group, my ex gf included.
I'm not into her anymore and I'm not that mad, but I don't want to appear weak.
Everyone in the group is gonna gossip about the fact that he's fucking my ex gf.
Wwyd if you were me ?

I could fuck her just to mess with their "couple", honestly it would be so cringe if they were officially together.
Also I could try to bang her bff.

I don't understand you people and these stupid misguided principles you have concerning these types of relationships. Ex girlfriends and whatnot. If she's your ex and your best friend bangs her then so what? If he forms a relationship with her wouldn't that make him the "weak" one? Seeing as he's loving a girl who you f*cked first? That makes him your b*tch, doesn't it? It's not like he took her from you.

 

[Deleted member 6305]

I have no friends

 

[Deleted member 8016]

Literally give absolutely zero fucks about what other people like that think. The best way to assert dominance is to show you have other friends and you fuck other people. Get a group of friends that are just guys too, women friends in groups honestly just always 100% of the time cause shit, they aren't worth it.

Yeah I know it's the good way to handle this, but I'm too rancorous and if someone makes fun of me because he fucked my ex I'm gonna take it the wrong way even if I usually give 0 fuck about people mocking me.

Literally give absolutely zero fucks about what other people like that think. The best way to assert dominance is to show you have other friends and you fuck other people. Get a group of friends that are just guys too, women friends in groups honestly just always 100% of the time cause shit, they aren't worth it.

I think like a retard, once I've fucked a girl over a long period of time if feel like she belongs to me and I'm the only one allowed to fuck her.
Tbh I wouldn't have cared if the guy was a stranger but the fact that a friend would fuck my ex makes me think maybe he hid intentions from me when I was in a relationship with her.

 

[Deleted member 8016]

Imagine if he fucks her better than I did, everyone's gonna know and I won't even be able to bone her bff

 

[Eezz]

Dont give a fuck, for he is only having your sloppy seconds.

 

[Deleted member 8016]

My dick is only 16cm and he tol me his was 17, so if it's true he dick mogs me i'm mad now

 

[zikzog]

Yeah I know it's the good way to handle this, but I'm too rancorous and if someone makes fun of me because he fucked my ex I'm gonna take it the wrong way even if I usually give 0 fuck about people mocking me.

I think like a retard, once I've fucked a girl over a long period of time if feel like she belongs to me and I'm the only one allowed to fuck her.
Tbh I wouldn't have cared if the guy was a stranger but the fact that a friend would fuck my ex makes me think maybe he hid intentions from me when I was in a relationship with her.

He might say stuff like that but deep down he knows he's just got a nice serving of sloppy seconds. If it bothers you just think of all the problems she caused you and now she's giving them all to him.

That is retarded thinking, there are probably multiple reasons you think that way.

1. You probably still believe love exists, it fades harsh over time, you see the other person for what they are, the rose tint fades and the red flags show. To solve this fuck more women and find more Blackpill examples.
2. She's the best you ever had. This is harder to solve cause there will always be a best, you have to improve and try get girls that are better, even if you only date a 8/9 for like a month and she sees this you know she'll feel like she missed out. Basically just the mindset of knowing you can do better is enough. Women don't look at you as a person they think of all the women they'll make jealous cause they have you.
3. You are possessive, this is harder, you'll probably need some counseling, it's like oneitis to an extreme.

Maybe he did hide intentions. If he's not a close friend you see yourself sharing a pint and talking with your goals, opinions etc then he's not a concern. He's just a social cog.

 

[عبد الرحمن]

My dick is only 16cm and he tol me his was 17, so if it's true he dick mogs me i'm mad now

Kys

 

[Deleted member 8016]

He might say stuff like that but deep down he knows he's just got a nice serving of sloppy seconds. If it bothers you just think of all the problems she caused you and now she's giving them all to him.

That is retarded thinking, there are probably multiple reasons you think that way.

1. You probably still believe love exists, it fades harsh over time, you see the other person for what they are, the rose tint fades and the red flags show. To solve this fuck more women and find more Blackpill examples.
2. She's the best you ever had. This is harder to solve cause there will always be a best, you have to improve and try get girls that are better, even if you only date a 8/9 for like a month and she sees this you know she'll feel like she missed out. Basically just the mindset of knowing you can do better is enough. Women don't look at you as a person they think of all the women they'll make jealous cause they have you.
3. You are possessive, this is harder, you'll probably need some counseling, it's like oneitis to an extreme.

Maybe he did hide intentions. If he's not a close friend you see yourself sharing a pint and talking with your goals, opinions etc then he's not a concern. He's just a social cog.

You're right but i'll still try to fuck her and her bff just to show that guy who I am.
And I'll try to fuck as many other girls on the side but I'm livng at my dads so I can't bring girls it fcking sucks

 

[zikzog]

You're right but i'll still try to fuck her and her bff just to show that guy who I am.
And I'll try to fuck as many other girls on the side but I'm livng at my dads so I can't bring girls it fcking sucks

If you're Chad enough do what I did a couple times and fuck em in the woods somewhere. If not then just gotta find the right time at a party.
I like your attitude but fucking the girl again gives her validation that she can just waltz back into your life, that's a real beta move. Her BFF I guess is fine if you can, make sure you can fuck her though.

 

[Deleted member 8016]

If you're Chad enough do what I did a couple times and fuck em in the woods somewhere. If not then just gotta find the right time at a party.
I like your attitude but fucking the girl again gives her validation that she can just waltz back into your life, that's a real beta move. Her BFF I guess is fine if you can, make sure you can fuck her though.

Yeah fucking in the wood is a true chad move.
I already "invalidated" her last time I saw her at a party, she was clearly hoping to get some but I rejected her.
I thought that she was trying to get my attention by fucking one of our friend but she seems to be into him.
Also the bff is legit a 8/10 at least, everybody in the group wants to fuck her (but she has a bf).
If I fuck both I'll either appear as a chad or make everyone angry at me be cause i'll fuck my ex's bff, mes with my ex's "couple" and fuck the girl everyone wants to fuck

 

[zikzog]

Yeah fucking in the wood is a true chad move.
I already "invalidated" her last time I saw her at a party, she was clearly hoping to get some but I rejected her.
I thought that she was trying to get my attention by fucking one of our friend but she seems to be into him.
Also the bff is legit a 8/10 at least, everybody in the group wants to fuck her (but she has a bf).
If I fuck both I'll either appear as a chad or make everyone angry at me be cause i'll fuck my ex's bff, mes with my ex's "couple" and fuck the girl everyone wants to fuck

Well think about it, he fucked your ex gf and how many people are against it in the group? If you fuck her bff and people get offended by that then get new friends, they obviously don't respect you enough.

Most men have the mindset of being jealous of men who fuck hotter women but coming off that mindset is the biggest boost to your mental health. Jealousy does fuck with you in many ways and I'm not saying I don't fall for the green eyed monster but I don't look at people and hate them cause they have a better life than me.

 

[turkproducer]

what the fuck, he isn't really your friend lmao. some people might say "muh but its cucked to care about your ex gf"

its also cucked because theres a line that he clearly crossed, i would drop that friendship group

 

[Deleted member 8016]

what the fuck, he isn't really your friend lmao. some people might say "muh but its cucked to care about your ex gf"

its also cucked because theres a line that he clearly crossed, i would drop that friendship group

He's not a close friend, but is part of my group which contains all my close friends so I can't just quit the group.
But I'll stick to my plan so maybe he'll be the one to leave the group