Friend-groups are Cope and you should instead have Induvidual Friends

[Lemur]

Its 3am rn in the UK so excuse my poor writing if it comes off as niggerbabble,

i just got back from a house party (80 - 100 showed up throughout the night) and all everyone in my extended friendgroup was acting nice and cuddly to each other (for reference its mixed)

but the very second they all leave and its just me and this one girl

she just starts yappin away

about how she dislikes them and how theyre "begs" blah blah blah

i then walk off after 30mins of this bullshit to talk to the other people in the fg and they start yapping about other people in the fg they dont like

its such bullshit man its always the fate with bigger friendgroups especially ones with girls bcs they never get over stuff

but with singular induvidual friends- ive maintained friendships with them for years if not decades for a few

induvidual friends share that feeling of confidentiality when it comes to being vunerable

they wont leak shit- but inna fg it always happens bcs people dont value each other enough

youre seen as expendable, just a convo starter or a scape goat

idk what the moral of this story is but i thought its some good food for thought

 

[76.1]

My friend group isn't that big. Like 4-5 poeple.

We spend plenty of time together, they're pretty chill tbh.

We don't go to parties or mingle with other groups a lot, just stick to our own thing

Also foidspeaker ramblings

 

[Lemur]

Spoiler: tagging users ik

@Swarthy Knight @RedDragonSlayer67 @callard @psltristan1

 

[RedDragonSlayer67]

I hate my friend since one week back

 

[Lemur]

My friend group isn't that big. Like 4-5 poeple.

thats good- if sure u guys value each other

We spend plenty of time together, they're pretty chill tbh.

We don't go to parties or mingle with other groups a lot, just stick to our own thing

i used to have a fg like that but i felt like i was missing out on too much of teenage life

glad i changed my mind and put myself out there more often

Also foidspeaker ramblings

dude im so akward when its a good looking girl and that sucks bcs my standards are dirt low

so as long as ur not obese, then im akward with you

its fine tho i got the summer break to work on it and find drugs to help with it before school starts

 

[Lemur]

I hate my friend since one week back

friend? like 1 singular friend?

 

[RedDragonSlayer67]

friend? like 1 singular friend?

Yes.

 

[Aypo129]

Obviously
Ideal strategy to make friends is to make a single friend in multiple different locality and occupation
Not multiple in one

Make people feel special and seen

 

[psltristan1]

 

[76.1]

thats good- if sure u guys value each other

There's one friend I used to talk to like 6 hours a day back durin the winter.

Now we just send each other reels, but we're still close.

i used to have a fg like that but i felt like i was missing out on too much of teenage life

glad i changed my mind and put myself out there more often

I respect that. I've always been someone who sticks to himself a lot, I don't like to step outta my comfort zone. Most of my friends approached me first, or we met thru like a group project at school.

dude im so akward when its a good looking girl and that sucks bcs my standards are dirt low

so as long as ur not obese, then im akward with you

its fine tho i got the summer break to work on it and find drugs to help with it before school starts

my bad brah

hope it gets better for you mane

 

[Lemur]

Yes.

if you hate them- well i guess they arent a friend anymore bhai

u can always mend relationships tho

half mine were in the gutter at 1 point

 

[Lemur]

I respect that. I've always been someone who sticks to himself a lot, I don't like to step outta my comfort zone. Most of my friends approached me first, or we met thru like a group project at school.

yeh i stick to myself alot too

deadass i rely on my friends in my current friendgroup to like pitch me to other people

they glaze the shit outta me apparently so thats really nice of them

wish i wasnt a fucking robot with girls to its like i just act really 'normal' and my personality dissapears

but for some reason they like that?

idk mane ill never understand girls

 

[76.1]

yeh i stick to myself alot too

deadass i rely on my friends in my current friendgroup to like pitch me to other people

they glaze the shit outta me apparently so thats really nice of them

That's sweet of them, they're good friends

wish i wasnt a fucking robot with girls to its like i just act really 'normal' and my personality dissapears

but for some reason they like that?

idk mane ill never understand girls

They don't care about your personality though

Maybe you're just good-looking

 

[Lemur]

They don't care about your personality though

Maybe you're just good-looking

no im only mtn

have i shown u how i look before?

 

[Sanguinius]

Are you guys brown or black or other such types?

 

[Lemur]

Are you guys brown or black or other such types?

4 browns, 2 mixed, 10 whites, 1 black, 1 asian

 

[76.1]

no im only mtn

You could be carried by height, voice, race, physique, etc.

MTN isn't too bad

have i shown u how i look before?

Nah, never

 

[Lemur]

You could be carried by height, voice, race, physique, etc.

im 6'2 but its avg height in North London

MTN isn't too bad

Nah, never

https://looksmax.org/threads/bi-annual-rate-me.2236665/#post-30600447

 

[Lemur]

Are you guys brown or black or other such types?

do u have any relation to @sanguine

 

[76.1]

im 6'2 but its avg height in North London

https://looksmax.org/threads/bi-annual-rate-me.2236665/#post-30600447

kill yourself

even if you're only MTN you'd still be good-looking to most women, you have the health indicators down + height and physique it seems like

even if you're average for where you live, you're still gonna make the women feel small and protected and turn on their reverse pedophilia fetishes

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

ideally you should have both

friend group but with best friend(s) within that group

 

[Lemur]

kill yourself

even if you're only MTN you'd still be good-looking to most women, you have the health indicators down + height and physique it seems like

frame is abbysmal but its fixable

even if you're average for where you live, you're still gonna make the women feel small and protected and turn on their reverse pedophilia fetishes

but i hat short girls

i only like girls above like 5'7 or 5'8

but they all want dudes who are 6'4 or 6'5 which isnt too rare in london

aahhhhhh bra iont know ibr its probally my personality