Friend of acquaintance (Chadlite) prefers to use Telegram/Discord to talk for dating, but gets ghosted/blocked almost immediately. What's his problem?

[Xangsane]

Was talking to an acquaintance (MTN manlet) for a bit tonight and he says that his friend prefers to talk to girls using Telegram or Discord as opposed to IG DMs, Facebook Messenger, Snapchat, and even WhatsApp.

Said friend of the acquaintance is a solid maesthetic/masc Chadlite with body halo, but has a relatively low body count (below 5) for his age and looks, and is looking for a girlfriend since he's on the upper end of his 20s (26). He has also had long single spells because he's afraid of falling in love for a woman that may not care about him.

But every woman either blocks the Chadlite (if they meet online) or wants to talk on IG instead, said the acquaintance. The chadlite also doesn't use dating apps because of "overwhelm".

The acquaintance said that the Chadlite said "seeing the profile photo of the woman gives him performance anxiety because he has to watch what he's saying so he doesn't get screenshotted and cancelled" and prefers "a low stress platform to talk where he can be unfiltered and free, and not to talk about mundane things like travel, their parties and music".

What's wrong here?

 

[Xangsane]

0

 

[Xangsane]

@druiglooksmaxer

 

[Xangsane]

@emeraldglass

 

[Xangsane]

@Whatever @swt @HeavyMetalcel

 

[swt]

possibly autistic AND awkward

 

[Xangsane]

possibly autistic AND awkward

Why so?

And this is a good appeal maesthetic-masc Chadlite as well, girls should be all over him.

 

[sprout]

well telegram just makes you look weird, if you tell a girl, lets talk on telegram.. Sounds strange, + using discord is not gonna get you anyone good, they're all there for attention and such. And he's probably awkward or socially not that good at talking because its really easy to get girls to send / love you if you look good.

 

[not__cel]

Use Snapchat instead foids will cringe at asking them for telegram or discord

 

[swt]

Why so?

And this is a good appeal maesthetic-masc Chadlite as well, girls should be all over him.

honestly people will never agree with me when i say this on here but i said it before and will say it again

even if he’s chadlite, if he lacks certain other things that don’t include his looks then he’s likely to fail

 

[not__cel]

Use Snapchat instead foids will cringe at asking them for telegram or discord

Or phone number

 

[sprout]

honestly people will never agree with me when i say this on here but i said it before and will say it again

even if he’s chadlite, if he lacks certain other things that don’t include his looks then he’s likely to fail

actually high iq

 

[Xangsane]

well telegram just makes you look weird, if you tell a girl, lets talk on telegram.. Sounds strange, + using discord is not gonna get you anyone good, they're all there for attention and such. And he's probably awkward or socially not that good at talking because its really easy to get girls to send / love you if you look good.

And even in IRL settings the acquaintance said the Chadlite asks for their Discord (or asks them to make one) and gives his out. Says that IG DMs/SC DMs are "chaotic" or "one dimensional"

Use Snapchat instead foids will cringe at asking them for telegram or discord

He said about 90% of the girls the Chadlite talked to rejected or blocked him. The 10% were often unattractive women (LTBs).

honestly people will never agree with me when i say this on here but i said it before and will say it again

even if he’s chadlite, if he lacks certain other things that don’t include his looks then he’s likely to fail

He's got a decent job, is tall, good appeal and Chadlite face. Upper middle class. Meanwhile the acquaintance is a 5'9 MTN and has a body count of 38.

Or phone number

Said phone number is used as well but even that he's scared of because of "the woman screenshotting messages and them being linked to his number"

actually high iq

Thoughts?

"He's got a decent job, is tall, good appeal and Chadlite face. Upper middle class. Meanwhile the acquaintance is a 5'9 MTN and has a body count of 38."

 

[Xangsane]

@HeavyMetalcel why autistic

 

[emeraldglass]

@emeraldglass

Could be due to several factors. maybe because he uses Telegram, which isn't the most popular app among women. Could be that he's socially awkward, especially considering he’s only had five partners despite you calling him very goodlooking. There could be a mix of reasons at play.

 

[Xangsane]

Could be due to several factors. maybe because he uses Telegram, which isn't the most popular app among women. Could be that he's socially awkward, especially considering he’s only had five partners despite you calling him very goodlooking. There could be a mix of reasons at play.

What factors are you personally thinking?

 

[klip11]

Was talking to an acquaintance (MTN manlet) for a bit tonight and he says that his friend prefers to talk to girls using Telegram or Discord as opposed to IG DMs, Facebook Messenger, Snapchat, and even WhatsApp.

Said friend of the acquaintance is a solid maesthetic/masc Chadlite with body halo, but has a relatively low body count (below 5) for his age and looks, and is looking for a girlfriend since he's on the upper end of his 20s (26). He has also had long single spells because he's afraid of falling in love for a woman that may not care about him.

But every woman either blocks the Chadlite (if they meet online) or wants to talk on IG instead, said the acquaintance. The chadlite also doesn't use dating apps because of "overwhelm".

The acquaintance said that the Chadlite said "seeing the profile photo of the woman gives him performance anxiety because he has to watch what he's saying so he doesn't get screenshotted and cancelled" and prefers "a low stress platform to talk where he can be unfiltered and free, and not to talk about mundane things like travel, their parties and music".

What's wrong here?

Larry Lowe says hi

 

[Sprinkles]

Telegram is non nt

 

[Xangsane]

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Larry Lowe says hi

Hi Larry

 

[Xangsane]

Telegram is non nt

Either that or Discord he prefers. Acquaintance (MTN) says his IG is decent and looks great, but it's private

 

[klip11]

Hi Larry

"Sup white boy"

 

[Xangsane]

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"Sup white boy"

Sup nigga

 

[Xangsane]

@ranierean

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

@HeavyMetalcel why autistic

I can't imagine any other reason as to why a chadlite couldn't get bitches online unless he's an aspie

might be some other cause idfk

 

[Xangsane]

I can't imagine any other reason as to why a chadlite couldn't get bitches online unless he's an aspie

might be some other cause idfk

You'd think he's aspie?

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

You'd think he's aspie?

maybe, some users here mentioned that foids don't really use telegram for dating as to why he doesn't get bitches

idk if that matters tho, he's still a chadlite after all, he must be fucking up something by himself

 

[Xangsane]

maybe, some users here mentioned that foids don't really use telegram for dating as to why he doesn't get bitches

idk if that matters tho, he's still a chadlite after all, he must be fucking up something by himself

his IG is great according to the MTN acquaintance, but it's private.

 

[got.daim]

what is this bruh

 

[Xangsane]

what is this bruh
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Satire

 

[Xangsane]

@love_enforcer @moredatesmorerapes @TheBiggestIncelEver

 

[moredatesmorerapes]

Only pedophiles and drug dealers use telegram

 

[Xangsane]

Only pedophiles and drug dealers use telegram

He's neither of these.

 

[moredatesmorerapes]

Only fat retards use discord

 

[Xangsane]

Only fat retards use discord

only a couple of autistic LTBs were happy to talk to him

 

[moredatesmorerapes]

only a couple of autistic LTBs were happy to talk to him

NTpill is real

There was this guy in one of my classes who was HTN but manlet He was gl But we were part of a group and he was talking, the retard was so fucking autistic (not even the quiet socially awkward high inhib kind of autist but the loud cringe Reddit unaware type autist) It honestly felt...

looksmax.org

 

[love_enforcer]

Wasnt popular in hs. Not necessarily an outcast, just 0 relevance in that, most brutal environment while you are still forming your identity

 

[Xangsane]

Wasnt popular in hs. Not necessarily an outcast, just 0 relevance in that, most brutal environment while you are still forming your identity

The acquaintance (MTN, body count 38) said the chadlite (body count 5) left school with no friends and all his university friends but one (the MTN) dispersed to different places.
And he’s got a good stable job too

NTpill is real

There was this guy in one of my classes who was HTN but manlet He was gl But we were part of a group and he was talking, the retard was so fucking autistic (not even the quiet socially awkward high inhib kind of autist but the loud cringe Reddit unaware type autist) It honestly felt...

looksmax.org

Thoughts?

 

[Xangsane]

@TheMaxxer333

 

[tonka T]

Using discord to talk to 20+ y.o foids as a grown ass man in the big 2025 is crazy

 

[Xangsane]

Using discord to talk to 20+ y.o foids as a grown ass man in the big 2025 is crazy

Why so?

 

[tonka T]

Why so?

Nigga its fucking discord

 

[Xangsane]

Nigga its fucking discord

Y

 

[sprout]

And even in IRL settings the acquaintance said the Chadlite asks for their Discord (or asks them to make one) and gives his out. Says that IG DMs/SC DMs are "chaotic" or "one dimensional"

He's got a decent job, is tall, good appeal and Chadlite face. Upper middle class..

Thoughts?

That's just really strange asking for their discord IRL is HORRIBLE HAHAHAHA asking them to make one is even more cringe worthy wtf Either you meet them online thru discord and talk to them there, or irl you use a different platform, not discord..

+ If he is really that successful and has good genes, its literally just his awkwardness and horrible talking skills then, i remember when I first started talking to females online even tho i looked good and they complimented me, i could never keep them talking to me, it was because i wasnt that interesting / didnt get them excited / not that fun

Basically he needs to learn how to talk to women essentially... even like a day of learning will help him so much since hes alr chadlite

 

[love_enforcer]

Using discord to talk to 20+ y.o foids as a grown ass man in the big 2025 is crazy

was also gonna comment on that.

when i see someone referring to talking to women here, in 90% of cases it's about texting on some shitty app, usually with women they've never met or even seen irl.

i actually agree with women when they say men have become pussies. they want to hide behind the screen in their mom's basement, do some mouse clicking and end up with women choking on their cocks. ridiculous. their ways of coping ("i don't want to get reported to the police" and similar nonsense that stems from them consuming internet bs 24/7) are just as ridiculous.

if you can't start a rl convo with a woman unless ("until", considering many here genuinely believe they will "ascend" like we are pokemon, not humans) you look like a walking god, you are a pussy.

 

[tonka T]

Y

It's just weird bro idk. Where I live most foids don't use discord, they don't even know that discord exists.

 

[tonka T]

was also gonna comment on that.

when i see someone referring to talking to women here, in 90% of cases it's about texting on some shitty app, usually with women they've never met or even seen irl.

i actually agree with women when they say men have become pussies. they want to hide behind the screen in their mom's basement, do some mouse clicking and end up with women choking on their cocks. ridiculous. their ways of coping ("i don't want to get reported to the police" and similar nonsense that stems from them consuming internet bs 24/7) are just as ridiculous.

if you can't start a rl convo with a woman unless ("until", considering many here genuinely believe they will "ascend" like we are pokemon, not humans) you look like a walking god, you are a pussy.

 

[TheMaxxer333]

It’s because telegram and discord are giga non NT apps that will scare any foid off. In the US only pedos use those apps but I’m not sure what country he resides in.

 

[Xangsane]

It’s because telegram and discord are giga non NT apps that will scare any foid off. In the US only pedos use those apps but I’m not sure what country he resides in.

From the uk. Why non nt?

 

[TheMaxxer333]

From the uk. Why non nt?

Avaerage person doesn’t use them or have heard of them.

 

[Xangsane]

Avaerage person doesn’t use them or have heard of them.

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