Friend zoned after the first date. Why does that happen?

[koalendo]

It's not my screenshot, it's from r/tinder, why do you think that happened?

 

[AlexBrown84]

If he knew her for a while before trying to date, that’s why.

Bitches would rather random guy that approach them first contact than truecel ricecel that waits 2 weeks to confess their love

 

[koalendo]

If he knew her for a while before trying to date, that’s why.

Bitches would rather random guy that approach them first contact than truecel ricecel that waits 2 weeks to confess their love

my bad i didnt make it clear that its tinder, just edited my post

 

[Alt Number 3]

he talks like a cuck

 

[Amnesia]

Brutal. Cause he probably didn’t look as good in person as pics and he acted too polite and cuckish and probably had noticeable anxiety or nervousness on the date. All of which turn women off completely

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Needs to escalate from the beginning of meeting the woman or it gets weird.

 

[Deleted member 15260]

Brutal. Cause he probably didn’t look as good in person as pics and he acted too polite and cuckish and probably had noticeable anxiety or nervousness on the date. All of which turn women off completely

It all comes down to his looks and him being way too interested

If he was a casual giga talking about ink master and not giving a fuck he’d be pushin P

 

[cvzvvc]

Translation: I do not find you physically attractive

 

[koalendo]

he talks like a cuck

Brutal. Cause he probably didn’t look as good in person as pics and he acted too polite and cuckish and probably had noticeable anxiety or nervousness on the date. All of which turn women off completely

Needs to escalate from the beginning of meeting the woman or it gets weird.

It all comes down to his looks and him being way too interested

If he was a casual giga talking about ink master and not giving a fuck he’d be pushin P

Translation: I do not find you physically attractive

good points, its probably one of these things

I had to post it here to bleach my eyes from all the cucks and women replaying to him on Reddit, these people are either dumb or want you to be dumb

 

[Scammer]

When I read the thread I automatically thought about u and then I see u in the reacts @Ken

 

[Deleted member 17763]

Look how beta he is even just over messages. Thanking her for letting him know she got home and immediately asking for a second date jfl. If that's how he texts imagine how he behaved on the actual date. No wonder she's not attracted to him, you simply can't afford to act like that unless you're a chad dating well below your level or the girl is bpd and specifically looking for a guy to manipulate

 

[Ken]

When I read the thread I automatically thought about u and then I see u in the reacts @Ken
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I wasnt this cuckish but I was close. A friendzone text is the most brutal text you can receive.

 

[Cigarette]

i wouldnt even be typing essays like that id just say alright or good night

 

[Scammer]

I wasnt this cuckish but I was close. A friendzone text is the most brutal text you can receive.

I remember getting friendzoned at 14 and it turned me to the redpill

 

[Ken]

I remember getting friendzoned at 14 and it turned me to the redpill

You're lucky that it happened to you early. I waited until my 20's to get rejected. It changed my life. I thought I was redpilled and blackpilled before, being brutally rejected by a girl you really care about was more brutal than anything you can read about on these forums. It has motivated me to gymcel, skinmax, and NTmax. I am more depressed than ever but at least I am better off in the long run.

 

[Scammer]

You're lucky that it happened to you early. I waited until my 20's to get rejected. It changed my life. I thought I was redpilled and blackpilled before, being brutally rejected by a girl you really care about was more brutal than anything you can read about on these forums. It has motivated me to gymcel, skinmax, and NTmax. I am more depressed than ever but at least I am better off in the long run.

Bettering yourself for a girl is so brutal, u think about her everytime u hit the gym cause she’s ur inspiration

 

[Deleted member 4016]

"You're not the best I can do"

Think of women as well-off people searching for a house. Dates are like viewings.

In this case it's either he looks worse IRL, she is juggling a few options and has one she likes better, or as Amnesia added above, he was polite and maybe anxious on the date (because, you know, basic respect and natural human emotions when talking to a complete stranger in a potentially high-pressure context are just so ewww... )

 

[onnysk]

he's too nice and it turned her off

 

[Gonthar]

Needs to escalate from the beginning of meeting the woman or it gets weird.

I 'escalated' very smoothly with around a dozen of girls I've met online - I would start to flirt, get close to them, touch, hug, kiss them, etc. and I would still get friendzoned or ghosted after that...
In online dating you're competing with all the other guys in your area, she will compare you with everyone else and if you aren't the best, it's over, even though the date seemed amazing and you did all the right moves.

 

[Deleted member 11336]

you didnt make her pussy tingle

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

My pics are frauded and that never happens to me. He probably didnt even kiss her or anything

 

[koalendo]

My pics are frauded and that never happens to me. He probably didnt even kiss her or anything

How do you usually escalate? What you think of what Gonthar said above?

 

[RazerGlazer]

Brutal. Cause he probably didn’t look as good in person as pics and he acted too polite and cuckish and probably had noticeable anxiety or nervousness on the date. All of which turn women off completely

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

How do you usually escalate? What you think of what Gonthar said above?

I escalate smoothly and have about a 60-70% slay rate once I get a date

 

[Deleted member 16970]

U acted simpy. Get seductive

 

[Deleted member 3573]

Bettering yourself for a girl is so brutal, u think about her everytime u hit the gym cause she’s ur inspiration

Not really. The only thing I think about is looksmaxxing and slaying other chicks and moneymaxzing because when you really lose a oneitis you stop thinking about her in that way, but you also change too. She's basically dead to you and you no longer care. She's used trash.

It's funny, that dopamine I used to get from thinking about my oneitis obsessively has transferred to the fantasy of coming to her boyfriends house and killing him and his whole family with a machete, axe, and chainsaw (in Minecraft). This is actually the best cope there is.

 

[Scammer]

Not really. The only thing I think about is looksmaxxing and slaying other chicks and moneymaxzing because when you really lose a oneitis you stop thinking about her in that way, but you also change too. She's basically dead to you and you no longer care. She's used trash.

It's funny, that dopamine I used to get from thinking about my oneitis obsessively has transferred to the fantasy of coming to her boyfriends house and killing him and his whole family with a machete, axe, and chainsaw (in Minecraft). This is actually the best cope there is.

She and he live rent free in ur head tho, u need to forget about them completely to fix ur oneitis

 

[Deleted member 3573]

"You're not the best I can do"

Think of women as well-off people searching for a house. Dates are like viewings.

In this case it's either he looks worse IRL, she is juggling a few options and has one she likes better, or as Amnesia added above, he was polite and maybe anxious on the date (because, you know, basic respect and natural human emotions when talking to a complete stranger in a potentially high-pressure context are just so ewww... )

That's why I prefer meeting girls in clubs or festivals. Just grab their ass and boobs and you're good. Especially good if you have a low trust face. Having a low trust face and being polite is the biggest turnoff ever.

 

[Deleted member 3573]

She and he live rent free in ur head tho, u need to forget about them completely to fix ur oneitis

True, but I was obsessed for years. Hard to get rid of it now (even though I don't like her anymore)