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If you're the one who always has to start the conversation, asking the other party how they're doing, or what they've been up to, then chances are they don't give a fuck about you. I've started to notice that in the past few years, that the people that I call my friends aren't really my friends lol. 99% of the time I'm the one carrying the conversation/ messaging them first. Very few, if any of my friends ask me how I'm doing or etc.

TLDR ; Most of your "friends" don't give a fuck about you. Pick your friends wisely.
 
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brianxx said:
You must be really autistic if you just realized that recently.
Nope. Realised it awhile back but I'm tipsy enough to post it on here
 
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It’s over :feelswah:
 
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ye, it's rlly hard to find a truly good friend
 
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Rush said:
ye, it's rlly hard to find a truly good friend
It was easy when we were kids, since the concept of status and looks etc didn't matter as much, but now if you're low status/ugly GL trying to find a good friend who will stick with you thru thick and thin.
 
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Honoric said:
It was easy when we were kids, since the concept of status and looks etc didn't matter as much, but now if you're low status/ugly GL trying to find a good friend who will stick with you thru thick and thin.
I doubt looks or status matter much in friendships. It's more about common interests. Maybe you just don't have as much in common as an average person you meet daily?
 
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Honoric said:
If you're the one who always has to start the conversation, asking the other party how they're doing, or what they've been up to, then chances are they don't give a fuck about you. I've started to notice that in the past few years, that the people that I call my friends aren't really my friends lol. 99% of the time I'm the one carrying the conversation/ messaging them first. Very few, if any of my friends ask me how I'm doing or etc.

TLDR ; Most of your "friends" don't give a fuck about you. Pick your friends wisely.
Kidnap them all and force them to live with you in your basement. You can have them compete for your favor.
 
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Rush said:
I doubt looks or status matter much in friendships. It's more about common interests. Maybe you just don't have as much in common as an average person you meet daily?
If you're ugly/low status it's likely that some people wouldn't want to hang out with you due to being stigmatised with hanging out with a loser. In my case, my status has dropped over the past few years and people that used to talk to me alot have distanced themselves with me
 
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Honoric said:
If you're ugly/low status it's likely that some people wouldn't want to hang out with you due to being stigmatised with hanging out with a loser. In my case, my status has dropped over the past few years and people that used to talk to me alot have distanced themselves with me
why did u let ur status drop then? life is all about forming connections with people. We know around 1k people in our lifetimes. Those people also have 1k people they know. If you play your cards right, you can catch great opportunities in life. You can be 1-2 circles away from knowing Elon Musk or smth lol. It's exponential and it makes sense statistically
 
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Rush said:
why did u let ur status drop then? life is all about forming connections with people. We know around 1k people in our lifetimes. Those people also have 1k people they know. If you play your cards right, you can catch great opportunities in life. You can be 1-2 circles away from knowing Elon Musk or smth lol. It's exponential and it makes sense statistically
Dropping out from uni and a lack of socialising did that for me. I just re enrolled into uni recently but my social circle is basically empty rn.
 
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Honoric said:
Dropping out from uni and a lack of socialising did that for me. I just re enrolled into uni recently but my social circle is basically empty rn.
I don't really like socializing with anyone from my uni. All my friend circle was formed in middle/high school. Idk what's wrong with uni kids tho
 
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Rush said:
I don't really like socializing with anyone from my uni. All my friend circle was formed in middle/high school. Idk what's wrong with uni kids tho
All my middle school/high school friends aren't friends with me anymore. Some due to conflicts that we've had in the past few years, some just died out due to us not talking at all
 
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Honoric said:
All my middle school/high school friends aren't friends with me anymore. Some due to conflicts that we've had in the past few years, some just died out due to us not talking at all
it's okay, just become rich af then. u dont need them
 

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