Friends treat me different depending of how I look at the time

[undereyerecession]

In one of my previous post I talked about how my life changed after going from very fat to lean back to kind of fat again. I talked about how my friends treated me not as good as to when I was lean compared to when im fat (before and after). So now im wondering if they´re actually my friends or not. Because if I have to look a certain way for them to treat me humanly, can that be considered a friend? Not all of them of course, some still treat me as good as they did before but most of them don´t. I mean I get why a stranger treats me different based on my appearance but should a friend do that? If anyone else has gone through this experience please lmk I would like to chat about it.

 

[highefforthreads]

In one of my previous post I talked about how my life changed after going from very fat to lean back to kind of fat again. I talked about how my friends treated me not as good as to when I was lean compared to when im fat (before and after). So now im wondering if they´re actually my friends or not. Because if I have to look a certain way for them to treat me humanly, can that be considered a friend? Not all of them of course, some still treat me as good as they did before but most of them don´t. I mean I get why a stranger treats me different based on my appearance but should a friend do that? If anyone else has gone through this experience please lmk I would like to chat about it.

low iq thing to do tbh

 

[undereyerecession]

low iq thing to do tbh

To stay friends with them? I know it is but its kind of hard cutting them off for a number of reasons. I like to go out at least once a week and they´re the only people I know for now that can get me into good places + I enjoy being with them the vast majority of time and I know they love me but idk it feels really shitty having to feel like this about having to meet a certain look to get treated in a better way. As I said with strangers I get it but with friends, idk.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Fat people aren’t real people

 

[undereyerecession]

To stay friends with them? I know it is but its kind of hard cutting them off for a number of reasons. I like to go out at least once a week and they´re the only people I know for now that can get me into good places + I enjoy being with them the vast majority of time and I know they love me but idk it feels really shitty having to feel like this about having to meet a certain look to get treated in a better way. As I said with strangers I get it but with friends, idk.

Also this might be an exaggeration im not completely sure. Maybe I got used to getting treated better than the average friend and now that is kind of gone I feel this way.

 

[undereyerecession]

Fat people aren’t real people

I have a friend who´s been fat his entire life. 6´3 and not bad looking for being fat. He still gets treated like absolute shit by most people. He drowns in social events due to everyone treating him like shit his entire life. I have some empathy left for him but it gets to a point that I get giga mad at him and give up on helping him understand that his life could be so much better. fag

 

[antrax]

i would say get new friends but most arent loyal anyways

 

[autistic_tendencies]

I have a friend who´s been fat his entire life. 6´3 and not bad looking for being fat. He still gets treated like absolute shit by most people. He drowns in social events due to everyone treating him like shit his entire life. I have some empathy left for him but it gets to a point that I get giga mad at him and give up on helping him understand that his life could be so much better. fag

Your body usually reflects your lifestyle and character… fat and low self control and lazy. It’s one of those things normies feel you have full control over to fix.
Every group needs a punching bag also

 

[undereyerecession]

i would say get new friends but most arent loyal anyways

I feel like I have 5 actual friends but I don´t get to see most of them not even on a weekly basis due to schedule and different activities. Im not a very social person towards strangers even though im a lot better now than before, not enought to make some friends by myself tho.