Friendzoned after first date

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Chainsaw-HTN-Man

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Hey, so I had a date yesterday with a m-hhtb (stacylite if not a bit chubby) and I am lhtn, im 5'11 and 6'0 with shoes and she was 5'3. We ment on hinge and throught text went sooo smooth. The date went so good, a lot of visual tension, smiles (she really smiled at me a lot), laughs, physical contact,etc. She was virgin (not bs), and she told me she didnt want to rush things, a thing that i also wanted because i want something longterm so i didnt make many sexual comments.

In the date I felt very smooth and it felt natural but I didnt escalate well (i didnt see the chance) + she told me not to rush. The next day I wrote her and she sees me as a friend but wants to hangout with me again just as friends.

My pics are not frauded and I sent her pictures of me in text too unfrauded and she still wanted to go to the date, so I don't think it was for my looks. In the date I didnt pay for anything because we went to a park so she wasnt looking for a free dinner.

I have a few questions, you guys think if I wouldnt have been bad at scalating it would have been better or it was just my looks?
Do you guys think, if I'm her friend and I ascend (im ascending rn but i can do plenty more of things) or if I act more assertive and flirtious while im her friend could we get together??
Is it impossible to get out of the friendzone just acting differente and maintaining myself in lhtn?
Should I forget her? i mean, she is virgin and she is mad pretty and she wasnt too boring as the other 95% of girls, and i think i have a chance if I ascend and act more flirty

thx guys, please dont bullshit advice. I dont want to post her but imagine ester exposito prime with bryce dallas howard young
 
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btw, through text i escalated pretty good so she didnt see me as a friend.
and i have body halo but the clothes covered me, so maybe in summer she can sees me if i dont block her (thing which i should do if being honest)
 
Ask for sex
 
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follow her home shes js playing hard to get
 
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i dont believe ur a htn if ur getting friendzoned, it could happen but i think ur lying
 
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i dont believe ur a htn if ur getting friendzoned, it could happen but i think ur lying
bro, she is stacylite if lean. ofc i can get friendzoned
 
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btw, through text i escalated pretty good so she didnt see me as a friend.
and i have body halo but the clothes covered me, so maybe in summer she can sees me if i dont block her (thing which i should do if being honest)
A bit a chubby and stacylite dont go together 😭😭😭😭
 
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If youre friendzoned already ask for sex

Denji would
she is looking for something long, she hated on hookup culture a lot and she is virgin. its not gonna happen bhai


yeah denji would, but denji has the chainsaw devil inside him so that is like a giga chad trait
 
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she is looking for something long, she hated on hookup culture a lot and she is virgin. its not gonna happen bhai


yeah denji would, but denji has the chainsaw devil inside him so that is like a giga chad trait
You miss 100% of de shots you dont take
 
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btw, vote please, it helps
 
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okay im gonna post her because im gonna forget her
 
Hey, so I had a date yesterday with a m-hhtb (stacylite if not a bit chubby) and I am lhtn, im 5'11 and 6'0 with shoes and she was 5'3. We ment on hinge and throught text went sooo smooth. The date went so good, a lot of visual tension, smiles (she really smiled at me a lot), laughs, physical contact,etc. She was virgin (not bs), and she told me she didnt want to rush things, a thing that i also wanted because i want something longterm so i didnt make many sexual comments.

In the date I felt very smooth and it felt natural but I didnt escalate well (i didnt see the chance) + she told me not to rush. The next day I wrote her and she sees me as a friend but wants to hangout with me again just as friends.

My pics are not frauded and I sent her pictures of me in text too unfrauded and she still wanted to go to the date, so I don't think it was for my looks. In the date I didnt pay for anything because we went to a park so she wasnt looking for a free dinner.

I have a few questions, you guys think if I wouldnt have been bad at scalating it would have been better or it was just my looks?
Do you guys think, if I'm her friend and I ascend (im ascending rn but i can do plenty more of things) or if I act more assertive and flirtious while im her friend could we get together??
Is it impossible to get out of the friendzone just acting differente and maintaining myself in lhtn?
Should I forget her? i mean, she is virgin and she is mad pretty and she wasnt too boring as the other 95% of girls, and i think i have a chance if I ascend and act more flirty

thx guys, please dont bullshit advice. I dont want to post her but imagine ester exposito prime with bryce dallas howard young
shes probably just deciding

give her some time and she'll fully reject you
 
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she fogged to fucking oblivion that 2 girls hahahahah
 
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she has weird spots on her face

looks like acne scars or acne shes trying to cover up with makeup

try again if you really want her, if it doesnt work out stop wasting your time
yeah, she is on accutane, in the date she had no more acne
 
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yeah, she is on accutane, in the date she had no more acne
her kids are going to come out nd as fuck

go search up accutane babies

women who take accutane get a crazy amount of miscarriages for the rest of their lives and their kids come out underweight and with way lower iq - assuming it doesnt die in the stomach


your not dating her for kids, keep that in mind, shes already fucked that up
 
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her kids are going to come out nd as fuck

go search up accutane babies

women who take accutane get a crazy amount of miscarriages for the rest of their lives and their kids come out underweight and with way lower iq - assuming it doesnt die in the stomach


your not dating her for kids, keep that in mind, shes already fucked that up
i only see that the baby comes out bad if the mother takes accutane while pregnant. Btw she had ocd and takes pills for anxiety and antidepressant, but with them she seems so fcking chill and normal and funny, not coping i swear. i dont mind having my kids with nd, i like the way i am and she too
 
i only see that the baby comes out bad if the mother takes accutane while pregnant. Btw she had ocd and takes pills for anxiety and antidepressant, but with them she seems so fcking chill and normal and funny, not coping i swear. i dont mind having my kids with nd, i like the way i am and she too
accutane stays in your body forever

its whole goal is to cause permenant change in vitamin A signalling through mega dosing it

if she takes a 100mg tablet (or her bw in kg into mg, lets say shes 60kg so 60mg) during pregnancy the kids going to die that same night

the cases where the baby is underweight by 60%, born 2-3 months early, and has half of a brain developed, are often the cases of previous accutane users, or they accidentally absorbed some accutane transdermally by touching someone elses tablets


i would not risk it at all, specially cause you said shes trying to friendzone you too, think of it as a blessing

shes also fucked with her neurochemistry with ssris and benzos

i would stay away, but if you can tap and leave then you should, dont risk bringing a kid like that into the world
 
accutane stays in your body forever

its whole goal is to cause permenant change in vitamin A signalling through mega dosing it

if she takes a 100mg tablet (or her bw in kg into mg, lets say shes 60kg so 60mg) during pregnancy the kids going to die that same night

the cases where the baby is underweight by 60%, born 2-3 months early, and has half of a brain developed, are often the cases of previous accutane users, or they accidentally absorbed some accutane transdermally by touching someone elses tablets


i would not risk it at all, specially cause you said shes trying to friendzone you too, think of it as a blessing

shes also fucked with her neurochemistry with ssris and benzos

i would stay away, but if you can tap and leave then you should, dont risk bringing a kid like that into the world
i think you are right, like a fuckbuddy. but she is so pretty it gives me the urge to date her long term fuuuuuck my brain bro.
im remembering that she told me her granny and mother are crazy too. but tbh im nd aswell so i wouldnt mind, like fuck that kid man, we could adopt tho
 
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accutane stays in your body forever

its whole goal is to cause permenant change in vitamin A signalling through mega dosing it

if she takes a 100mg tablet (or her bw in kg into mg, lets say shes 60kg so 60mg) during pregnancy the kids going to die that same night

the cases where the baby is underweight by 60%, born 2-3 months early, and has half of a brain developed, are often the cases of previous accutane users, or they accidentally absorbed some accutane transdermally by touching someone elses tablets


i would not risk it at all, specially cause you said shes trying to friendzone you too, think of it as a blessing

shes also fucked with her neurochemistry with ssris and benzos

i would stay away, but if you can tap and leave then you should, dont risk bringing a kid like that into the world
ty anyways
 
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Hey, so I had a date yesterday with a m-hhtb (stacylite if not a bit chubby) and I am lhtn, im 5'11 and 6'0 with shoes and she was 5'3. We ment on hinge and throught text went sooo smooth. The date went so good, a lot of visual tension, smiles (she really smiled at me a lot), laughs, physical contact,etc. She was virgin (not bs), and she told me she didnt want to rush things, a thing that i also wanted because i want something longterm so i didnt make many sexual comments.

In the date I felt very smooth and it felt natural but I didnt escalate well (i didnt see the chance) + she told me not to rush. The next day I wrote her and she sees me as a friend but wants to hangout with me again just as friends.

My pics are not frauded and I sent her pictures of me in text too unfrauded and she still wanted to go to the date, so I don't think it was for my looks. In the date I didnt pay for anything because we went to a park so she wasnt looking for a free dinner.

I have a few questions, you guys think if I wouldnt have been bad at scalating it would have been better or it was just my looks?
Do you guys think, if I'm her friend and I ascend (im ascending rn but i can do plenty more of things) or if I act more assertive and flirtious while im her friend could we get together??
Is it impossible to get out of the friendzone just acting differente and maintaining myself in lhtn?
Should I forget her? i mean, she is virgin and she is mad pretty and she wasnt too boring as the other 95% of girls, and i think i have a chance if I ascend and act more flirty

thx guys, please dont bullshit advice. I dont want to post her but imagine ester exposito prime with bryce dallas howard young
hang out again and try harder.
I can tell you a couple stories about how I got out of friendzone mostly by insisting
 
hang out again and try harder.
I can tell you a couple stories about how I got out of friendzone mostly by insisting
idk man, if i keep trying is gonna hurt me more i think. I know i should be deattached from women but it's not easy.
if I try again, when do u think it would be good, a couple of months, 6 months, 1 year, when i have already ascended...?
also i dont want to look so needy, i think the best idea would be wait a long time like 6 months, ascend a little more and try to meet her by an accident or some shit like that

thx for advice tho
lifefuel
 
Block if she won't fuck
 
now she doesnt want, but maybe if i ascend...more dimo + better colouring + better hair + more lean
Maybe but she will see you as her dog if you're doing all that just to impress her
 
Maybe but she will see you as her dog if you're doing all that just to impress her
i literally said two comments ago i dont want to look needy so im planning to meet her in a few months, like 5 or 6, not the next week
 
idk man, if i keep trying is gonna hurt me more i think. I know i should be deattached from women but it's not easy.
if I try again, when do u think it would be good, a couple of months, 6 months, 1 year, when i have already ascended...?
also i dont want to look so needy, i think the best idea would be wait a long time like 6 months, ascend a little more and try to meet her by an accident or some shit like that

thx for advice tho
lifefuel
You'll need to make her feel in another way.

PUA's have this concept of "emotional spiking" that may mean several things, from approaching her like you're about to kiss her (and don't) to drive her too fast on the highway or letting her watch you making out with another girl.

That's how you'll get out of the friendzone. Takes time. Needs patience.
 
Hey, so I had a date yesterday with a m-hhtb (stacylite if not a bit chubby) and I am lhtn, im 5'11 and 6'0 with shoes and she was 5'3. We ment on hinge and throught text went sooo smooth. The date went so good, a lot of visual tension, smiles (she really smiled at me a lot), laughs, physical contact,etc. She was virgin (not bs), and she told me she didnt want to rush things, a thing that i also wanted because i want something longterm so i didnt make many sexual comments.

In the date I felt very smooth and it felt natural but I didnt escalate well (i didnt see the chance) + she told me not to rush. The next day I wrote her and she sees me as a friend but wants to hangout with me again just as friends.

My pics are not frauded and I sent her pictures of me in text too unfrauded and she still wanted to go to the date, so I don't think it was for my looks. In the date I didnt pay for anything because we went to a park so she wasnt looking for a free dinner.

I have a few questions, you guys think if I wouldnt have been bad at scalating it would have been better or it was just my looks?
Do you guys think, if I'm her friend and I ascend (im ascending rn but i can do plenty more of things) or if I act more assertive and flirtious while im her friend could we get together??
Is it impossible to get out of the friendzone just acting differente and maintaining myself in lhtn?
Should I forget her? i mean, she is virgin and she is mad pretty and she wasnt too boring as the other 95% of girls, and i think i have a chance if I ascend and act more flirty

thx guys, please dont bullshit advice. I dont want to post her but imagine ester exposito prime with bryce dallas howard young
Ascend and get a better one
 
You'll need to make her feel in another way.

PUA's have this concept of "emotional spiking" that may mean several things, from approaching her like you're about to kiss her (and don't) to drive her too fast on the highway or letting her watch you making out with another girl.

That's how you'll get out of the friendzone. Takes time. Needs patience.
bro, i dont see her everyday, she lives at 30 minutes from me. i know a park she goes but im not gonna stalk her
 
bro, did you see the pictures of her? + i like her crazy personality, she is just as degenerated as me
Holy shit I just saw her, I would genuinely just lay on fetal position and cry then
 
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Holy shit I just saw her, I would genuinely just lay on fetal position and cry then
i told you hahaha. tbh she was a bit chubbier in person (chubby but still a mid-high htb)
 
bro, i dont see her everyday, she lives at 30 minutes from me. i know a park she goes but im not gonna stalk her
Keep in touch, date her better next time. Take my points in consideration for the next times you'll meet
 
Keep in touch, date her better next time. Take my points in consideration for the next times you'll meet
i have her ig and number but keeping in touch sounds a bit simpy, right?
sending her a text in a month or two would be good?
 
Shes not a fucking virgin come on:ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

If 17+ year old pretty girl or a really pretty girl (like her) tells you she is a virgin, she is 99.999999% capping.

You think she has the mental strength for staying a virgin when she could get fucked by any chad she likes at anytime? Yeah I'm not buying that even remotely :LOL:
she has/had mental problems

she had sexual problems with other men so she is a bit scared

she had a chadlite friend and didnt want anything with him just because he was arrogant

she is still 19
 

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