hatehiplet
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Serious question here.
Why does every single girl start ignoring me the exact second I begin to think she actually likes me?
Every time I get high IOIs (Indicators of Interest), good response times, and positive vibes, my mindset changes. I start feeling confident that she’s into me. But right after that mental shift, the brutal ghosting starts. They freeze up, pull away, and go completely cold.Is it a subconscious vibe shift in my text game? Do they smell the validation from miles away and lose interest because the chase is over?
Or is it just standard hypergamy and I’m hitting a looks-threshold wall?
Need some brutal honesty on this. What triggers this exact drop-off?
Why does every single girl start ignoring me the exact second I begin to think she actually likes me?
Every time I get high IOIs (Indicators of Interest), good response times, and positive vibes, my mindset changes. I start feeling confident that she’s into me. But right after that mental shift, the brutal ghosting starts. They freeze up, pull away, and go completely cold.Is it a subconscious vibe shift in my text game? Do they smell the validation from miles away and lose interest because the chase is over?
Or is it just standard hypergamy and I’m hitting a looks-threshold wall?
Need some brutal honesty on this. What triggers this exact drop-off?
