veryplump67
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bro i swear to fucking god every foid has the exact same dialogue installed in their brain. its like theyre all manufactured by the same fucking AI and programmed to repeat the same five sentences over and over again
"i see you as a friend"
translation: youre not tall enough, youre not MTN, youre not attractive enough, and i dont see you as somebody i want romantically. but instead of just admitting that, lets pretend this is some completely different issue
"youll find someone eventually"
oh really? and how the fuck would you know that? are you a fucking fortune teller? do you know my future? or are you just saying that because you want to get rid of me without feeling bad about rejecting me
"its about personality"
PERSONALITY. THATS ALL YOU FUCKING TALK ABOUT. every single time its personality this, personality that, find someone who appreciates your personality, looks arent everything, just be yourself. holy fucking shit, do you people have any other excuse
fuck every foid who acts like personality is the only thing that matters and then turns around and rejects somebody because they dont meet her physical standards. you spend years telling average dudes that being nice and having a good personality is what matters, but when they actually try to put that advice into practice, suddenly theyre just friends
and what happened to all that shit about personality being so important? where was that energy when i was getting judged for my looks? where was that personality lecture when people were making assumptions about me before they even knew me?
i know guys can be shallow too. im not fucking blind. guys reject girls over looks as well. but from my perspective, it feels like foids repeat the same excuses so consistently that its almost fucking comical. different girl, same conversation. different rejection, same recycled bullshit
and dont even get me started on height. apparently you can have the best personality in the fucking world, but if youre not six feet tall or dont meet whatever MTN standard she has in her head, youre already disqualified. then she turns around and tells you that you just havent found somebody who appreciates your personality
BRO THEN WHY THE FUCK IS HEIGHT ALWAYS PART OF THE CONVERSATION
and being nonwhite makes this shit feel even worse. it feels like being tall, white, blonde, and blue-eyed is the default ideal, while black, asian, hispanic and arab dudes have to wonder whether their race is already counting against them before they even get a chance. people can deny racial preferences exist all they want, but you cant pretend that nobody ever gets judged or excluded because of ethnicity
and then they have the audacity to keep repeating that looks arent everything. nobody said looks are literally the only thing that matters. the point is that looks can determine whether somebody even gives you the opportunity to show your personality in the first place
thats what makes the whole personality argument so fucking infuriating. you cant show somebody how funny you are, how caring you are, how interesting you are, or how well you treat people if theyve already decided they dont want you
so no, i dont want another recycled speech about how ill find someone eventually. i dont want another lecture about how the right person will appreciate my personality. and i definitely dont want to hear that looks dont matter from people who have no idea what its like to repeatedly feel overlooked because you dont meet somebody else's standards
from my perspective, its the same fucking cycle every time. they reject you, give you the same excuses, tell you its about personality, and then act like youre insane for questioning whether attraction is actually based on what they claim
different foid, same dialogue. different rejection, same fucking script.
"i see you as a friend"
translation: youre not tall enough, youre not MTN, youre not attractive enough, and i dont see you as somebody i want romantically. but instead of just admitting that, lets pretend this is some completely different issue
"youll find someone eventually"
oh really? and how the fuck would you know that? are you a fucking fortune teller? do you know my future? or are you just saying that because you want to get rid of me without feeling bad about rejecting me
"its about personality"
PERSONALITY. THATS ALL YOU FUCKING TALK ABOUT. every single time its personality this, personality that, find someone who appreciates your personality, looks arent everything, just be yourself. holy fucking shit, do you people have any other excuse
fuck every foid who acts like personality is the only thing that matters and then turns around and rejects somebody because they dont meet her physical standards. you spend years telling average dudes that being nice and having a good personality is what matters, but when they actually try to put that advice into practice, suddenly theyre just friends
and what happened to all that shit about personality being so important? where was that energy when i was getting judged for my looks? where was that personality lecture when people were making assumptions about me before they even knew me?
i know guys can be shallow too. im not fucking blind. guys reject girls over looks as well. but from my perspective, it feels like foids repeat the same excuses so consistently that its almost fucking comical. different girl, same conversation. different rejection, same recycled bullshit
and dont even get me started on height. apparently you can have the best personality in the fucking world, but if youre not six feet tall or dont meet whatever MTN standard she has in her head, youre already disqualified. then she turns around and tells you that you just havent found somebody who appreciates your personality
BRO THEN WHY THE FUCK IS HEIGHT ALWAYS PART OF THE CONVERSATION
and being nonwhite makes this shit feel even worse. it feels like being tall, white, blonde, and blue-eyed is the default ideal, while black, asian, hispanic and arab dudes have to wonder whether their race is already counting against them before they even get a chance. people can deny racial preferences exist all they want, but you cant pretend that nobody ever gets judged or excluded because of ethnicity
and then they have the audacity to keep repeating that looks arent everything. nobody said looks are literally the only thing that matters. the point is that looks can determine whether somebody even gives you the opportunity to show your personality in the first place
thats what makes the whole personality argument so fucking infuriating. you cant show somebody how funny you are, how caring you are, how interesting you are, or how well you treat people if theyve already decided they dont want you
so no, i dont want another recycled speech about how ill find someone eventually. i dont want another lecture about how the right person will appreciate my personality. and i definitely dont want to hear that looks dont matter from people who have no idea what its like to repeatedly feel overlooked because you dont meet somebody else's standards
from my perspective, its the same fucking cycle every time. they reject you, give you the same excuses, tell you its about personality, and then act like youre insane for questioning whether attraction is actually based on what they claim
different foid, same dialogue. different rejection, same fucking script.



