Fuckboy vs Family man

[BNCcel]

What are you aiming for?
Also, i noticed a fair amount of couples around, consisting of average/ugly men and good looking girl. Do they lower their looks standards when it comes to settle?
Me, i had one long LTR but then she cheated so i quit. The thing is i'm sub 6 but i only want to have "fun", so i have to escortcel. I can't stand the idea of settling with a girl who had her CC years while i couldn't have my share, so i won't be in any other LTR until i succeed in having hookups.

 

[needsolution]

Neither

 

[SocietyIsSolipsistic]

Trying to having a family in these times is very risky. Living together and having a child without marrying is better tbh. (look at travis scott and kylie) also if anyone wants to end relationship there wont be any alimony or some shit.

 

[reptiles]

Neither

Just be dead theory is more legit

 

[Deleted member 6403]

get as many women pregnant theory

 

[St. BlackOps2Cel]

i had one long LTR but then she cheated so i quit

you're stupid. It's like stop taking free meals from McDonalds because another were given a meal.

 

[Deleted member 5973]

you're stupid. It's like stop taking free meals from McDonalds because another were given a meal.

nothing is more cucked than not breaking up with a foid that cheated on you

 

[St. BlackOps2Cel]

nothing is more cucked than not breaking up with a foid that cheated on you

stupid cope

 

[Deleted member 5973]

stupid cope

there are people out there that place their dignity above their desire for pussy, i know, crazy right?

 

[Gonthar]

Also, i noticed a fair amount of couples around, consisting of average/ugly men and good looking girl. Do they lower their looks standards when it comes to settle?

Yes, when I was in college, all the girls whored around and wanted the best looking guys. Then they married with short or ugly guys but who had good jobs, they wouldn't even have looked at those guys several years earlier...

 

[St. BlackOps2Cel]

there are people out there that place their dignity above their desire for pussy, i know, crazy right?

right
dignity is a cope

 

[Deleted member 275]

I am trying to become a family man, but to get over my past underachievements with women and the damage it has done to my self-esteem, I will have to become a fuckboy first to undo this damage.

Only then can I truly be a good family man.

 

[Merlix]

You can be a family man but understand that she is with you for your money and sense of security a reliable man brings her. She is not with you because she feels that passionate love she had when fucking previous Chads who she secretly hoped would finish inside her and impregnate her so she could bear his children. Instead she has uninteresting just-finish-already sex with you once every 2 weeks out of a sense of fairness to you since you're supporting her but if the opportunity ever came along for another Chad to give her that feeling she desperately craves, she will take it.

 

[nonserviam]

Fuckboy till 30, after that I aim to marry high-iq foid with good height genes by taking advantage of my mogger future job.

 

[Mouthbreath]

I'm too weird and low status to get a wife, and I'm too ugly to be a fuckboy. Still I am far from having lost hope. My iq is high enough to get pussy in other "less conventional" ways.

 

[Merlix]

I'm too weird and low status to get a wife, and I'm too ugly to be a fuckboy. Still I am far from having lost hope. My iq is high enough to get pussy in other "less conventional" ways.

Local homeless shelter and soup kitchen maxing?

 

[Mouthbreath]

Local homeless shelter and soup kitchen maxing?

forest and dark alleyway maxing rather

 

[nastynas]

have a main girl and on the side fuck other bitches to remember that you have options and not get overly attached, also you will take less shit from your girl

also if you get cheated on, it wont matter since you already did it plenty of times.

this may sound very harsh and ruthless to some people here, but this is the proper way it should be in society and dating world today, sorry.

 

[BNCcel]

I'm too weird and low status to get a wife, and I'm too ugly to be a fuckboy. Still I am far from having lost hope. My iq is high enough to get pussy in other "less conventional" ways.

Explain those ways?

 

[BNCcel]

right
dignity is a cope

IDK how to call it, it just pisses me off, feels too disrespectful.

 

[BNCcel]

Also pisses me off the fact that any girl has the power of having sex whenever she wants, while i can't get one in years

 

[Deleted member 275]

Also pisses me off the fact that any girl has the power of having sex whenever she wants, while i can't get one in years

Which is why you need to make up for this by giving a woman fake committment and cheating on her

 

[BNCcel]

Which is why you need to make up for this by giving a woman fake committment and cheating on her

I'd feel bad about lying. I'd like to have the looks that allow me to do it honestly... and i see chad can do it without faking anything

 

[TITUS]

Can't have both?
LTR and fucking on the side lol.

 

[Deleted member 6128]

Why not both

 

[Mr Norwood]

Most guys ideal is to be a fuckboy in their younger years and family man later.

The issue with this is the types of women available to you when you're ready to settle down at 30 are not the women you want to settle down with. If you're 30 then the women you'll realistically end up dating are mid to late 20s. What kind of women are single in their late 20s? Women who have been having casual sex with chads in their prime and are now looking for a steady betabux. You want to wife a woman who has very little sexual experience with the other men and the only way to realistically find these type of women is to partner up with them young (say up to age 20?) before they've had a chance to go on their girls holidays to magaluf and been spit roasted by the university rugby team during their college years.

 

[Chinacurry]

What are you aiming for?
Also, i noticed a fair amount of couples around, consisting of average/ugly men and good looking girl. Do they lower their looks standards when it comes to settle?
Me, i had one long LTR but then she cheated so i quit. The thing is i'm sub 6 but i only want to have "fun", so i have to escortcel. I can't stand the idea of settling with a girl who had her CC years while i couldn't have my share, so i won't be in any other LTR until i succeed in having hookups.

This is EXACTLY how I feel, and no one understands.
Sometimes when I match a foid on tinder I start taking her down Blackpill Avenue, and they end up saying oh yeah but that's only for hookups, no one will date a guy like that.

Its crazy how people don't understand that is really heartbreaking because foids are saying you're low value enough to be a LTR, but u don't pass the bar to be a hookup

 

[Deleted member 275]

Most 'family men' barely have 2 children, 3 AT MOST. How can you call yourself a family man without atleast 5 children. Jfl at this degeneracy

 

[Nisse]

Fuckboy cause im still in my teens

 

[zeroshame]

Fuckboy, but not the vulgar type.