vanillaicecream
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So i live with my parents and sister. My sister has a boyfriend. A while ago they had a fight where her bf snapped and smashed our parents car's (which she was using) window and left a crack on it because he thought she was cheating on him after looking at some texts from a guy. Long story short there was no cheating and it was just a misunderstanding.
That really scared her and they broke up. It stayed that way for a couple of weeks until he was able to talk her into getting back together. At first my parents didn't allow him in our house and she was just going to his place. Now fast forward a few more weeks and this is where it gets messed up, not only are they okay with him coming over again but they are just sitting back and watching my sister go into her room with him and literally shamelessly lock the door and stay there for hours. Like, what? This guy acts like a control freak maniac and damages your property, and you allow him to come over here again and literally fuck your daughter in the room next to yours? Who even does this? Shouldn't they be getting an appropriate private place for this regardless of anything? This has been going on for a week now, they literally lock themselves in her room and they don't do a thing. My father especially, what kind of soft pushover is he?? Who allows such a thing to happen under their roof involving their own daughter, after what happened to cap it off? Not to mention she's been driving over to his place which is all the way across town to pick him up and bring him over, which spends a shit ton of gas and he sure as hell ain't paying for it. And they're also allowing him to again be exposed to their car which he damaged. I want to speak up about it and I did mention this to my mom, but I don't know what they're going to do, they don't seem to be as bothered by this as I am. I can't really step up and settle this with my sister directly since it's not my house and my parents are the ones who should deal with this. Am I overreacting or is this actually really messed up? I'm actually fuming with this whole situation. Also try not to give advice such as "just move out". Thanks.
That really scared her and they broke up. It stayed that way for a couple of weeks until he was able to talk her into getting back together. At first my parents didn't allow him in our house and she was just going to his place. Now fast forward a few more weeks and this is where it gets messed up, not only are they okay with him coming over again but they are just sitting back and watching my sister go into her room with him and literally shamelessly lock the door and stay there for hours. Like, what? This guy acts like a control freak maniac and damages your property, and you allow him to come over here again and literally fuck your daughter in the room next to yours? Who even does this? Shouldn't they be getting an appropriate private place for this regardless of anything? This has been going on for a week now, they literally lock themselves in her room and they don't do a thing. My father especially, what kind of soft pushover is he?? Who allows such a thing to happen under their roof involving their own daughter, after what happened to cap it off? Not to mention she's been driving over to his place which is all the way across town to pick him up and bring him over, which spends a shit ton of gas and he sure as hell ain't paying for it. And they're also allowing him to again be exposed to their car which he damaged. I want to speak up about it and I did mention this to my mom, but I don't know what they're going to do, they don't seem to be as bothered by this as I am. I can't really step up and settle this with my sister directly since it's not my house and my parents are the ones who should deal with this. Am I overreacting or is this actually really messed up? I'm actually fuming with this whole situation. Also try not to give advice such as "just move out". Thanks.