FwB broke up with me.

[Deleted member 275]

She didn't feel the 'spark' anymore that she once had while sleeping/fucking with me.
Can't argue with that. Spark was long gone, but it was nice once upon a time. I felt like it was still 'ok' now, but not ideal.

Case now:
Another failed relationship/fwb, where I was apparantly not good enough (?).

How to cope with inceldom now that I don't have a fwb.
JFL if you think I can arrange anything else as sub5PSL. Will take months/years and 30+ dates. I don't even want to start with this shit again.

Plan right now is to looksmax and give up on dating and relationship because I am too mentally damaged to have a decent one anyways. This one failed, because of my traumas from the past, of being sub4PSL in the past. Not being able to trust and give her my true self tbh.

This past? It won't change. So my relationships will keep failing anyways till the day I hang myself or go ER.

Only way to cope is to go ER. Everything else is useless.

Syo out.

 

[Hades]

She found a chad with a bigger cock. That’s why there was no spark anymore.

 

[oatmeal]

mirin u

 

[khvirgin]

so you are going ER?

 

[Deleted member 13332]

drugzzzzzz

 

[Vermilioncore]

Dn rd Chad

 

[Pendejo]

sub5PSL

Cope.

Only way to cope is to go ER. Everything else is useless.

 

[Deleted member 275]

She found a chad with a bigger cock. That’s why there was no spark anymore.

Wouldnt be suprised if this was the case, despite all the talk that we had about how we weren't able to share our feelings ,etc. whatever.

In the end it's usually looks that dictate how your interaction goes, how much you are willing to share.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Cope.

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[turkproducer]

Women can wake up one day and decide to never talk to the love of their live again without batting an eyelid, it is what it is

This is why I never commit

 

[Deleted member 6305]

What about Her looks???

 

[Deleted member 275]

Women can wake up one day and decide to never talk to the love of their live again without batting an eyelid, it is what it is

This is why I never commit

kinda why I never comitted to her either.

Women feel a lot, but their feelings can also change very easily.

One day she feels the spark when she's with you, the next she's over you and wants to get out. How can you have a relationship with this?

 

[turkproducer]

kinda why I never comitted to her either.

Women feel a lot, but their feelings can also change very easily.

One day she feels the spark when she's with you, the next she's over you and wants to get out. How can you have a relationship with this?

1. was she even ltr material for you to give a shit
2. if you never commit you can’t blame them for acting like this, i had this prob as well (cost me two virgin LTRs) women expect to be wifed eventually, otherwise they’ll just get up and go one day
3. it’s true that they’re fickle, but if you find a “good one” and they still pull this shit, all they did was pull wool over your eyes and trick you

 

[koalendo]

why does she care about your feelings? It's a FWB shouldn't she only care about the sex?

 

[Deleted member 275]

What about Her looks???

6'0 High tier Becky

 

[turkproducer]

why does she care about your feelings? It's a FWB shouldn't she only care about the sex?

clearly it’s not a no strings attached from the given context

it was a situationship

 

[Deleted member 275]

1. was she even ltr material for you to give a shit

dont know. She had a high-n count and seemed somewhat unstable. so perhaps not.

2. if you never commit you can’t blame them for acting like this, i had this prob as well (cost me two virgin LTRs) women expect to be wifed eventually, otherwise they’ll just get up and go one day

she had a n-count of 12. Double that of mine. So can't say she expected to be wifed up.

She blamed me for never sharing my emotions with her. But when I asked her why she was just as cold aswell. She told me she mirrored my emotions and it was still my fault basically. Idk.

 

[Deleted member 275]

clearly it’s not a no strings attached from the given context

it was a situationship

We were always somewhere in between fwb and ltr. We were exclusive aswell.

 

[Pendejo]

She blamed me for never sharing my emotions with her. But when I asked her why she was just as cold aswell. She told me she mirrored my emotions and it was still my fault basically.

Lmao, seems like you dodged a bullet.

 

[turkproducer]

We were always somewhere in between fwb and ltr. We were exclusive aswell.

I can tell. Doing this yo-yoing is a good way to get dumped a year into things.

dont know. She had a high-n count and seemed somewhat unstable. so perhaps not.

she had a n-count of 12. Double that of mine. So can't say she expected to be wifed up.

She blamed me for never sharing my emotions with her. But when I asked her why she was just as cold aswell. She told me she mirrored my emotions and it was still my fault basically. Idk.

Just lol. Good riddance I say, is there something wrong with you to actually feel as if you lost something

All you did was rid yourself of a whore with attachment problems

 

[Deleted member 16834]

she probably was hoping you would LTR her by breaking it off first

scarcity

she has u by the balls. Guaranteed if you said “yeah I feel the same” and ghost her rn she would come crawling back like a insentient absued joke that she is

meme gender

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Mfers be not having sex for a week and ask how to cope with inceldom

My man there are 25 year old khhvs on here lmao

 

[Chinacurry]

She didn't feel the 'spark' anymore that she once had while sleeping/fucking with me.
Can't argue with that. Spark was long gone, but it was nice once upon a time. I felt like it was still 'ok' now, but not ideal.

Case now:
Another failed relationship/fwb, where I was apparantly not good enough (?).

How to cope with inceldom now that I don't have a fwb.
JFL if you think I can arrange anything else as sub5PSL. Will take months/years and 30+ dates. I don't even want to start with this shit again.

Plan right now is to looksmax and give up on dating and relationship because I am too mentally damaged to have a decent one anyways. This one failed, because of my traumas from the past, of being sub4PSL in the past. Not being able to trust and give her my true self tbh.

This past? It won't change. So my relationships will keep failing anyways till the day I hang myself or go ER.

Only way to cope is to go ER. Everything else is useless.

Syo out.

Man this hit so different

 

[Deleted member 275]

I can tell. Doing this yo-yoing is a good way to get dumped a year into things.

Just lol. Good riddance I say, is there something wrong with you to actually feel as if you lost something

All you did was rid yourself of a whore with attachment problems

She had a lot of good qualities I would seek for in a future wife/ltr. And I am somewhat scared I won't find 'a girl like her' now.

1) easy to please, non-demanding in terms of money, time spent on her, going out, gifts, etc.
2) submissive, both sexually as well as in general.
3) avoided confrontation
4) loved to cook
5) loved to please
6) very kind/nice, wholesome, non-bitchy.
7) smart and self-sustaining, can handle being on her own very well.
8) rich family, good-upbringing.
9) 6'0 tall for chad sons.
10) understanding and non-judgemental.
11) spontaneous, in for random/new/weird stuff.
12) Doesnt seek attention, doesnt have social-media profiles at all.
13) Loves to dress up, just for me, to please me.

Lots of these qualities are very rare. I was somewhat disgusted by her high n-count (12) at first, but I slowly realized she had a lot of good qualities that are rare in women that made me look past that.

My first girlfriend, mogged her in looks, but had a lot worse personality traits overall. I felt more in love at times with this girl, than with that ex.

Truly showing that personality>looks afterall. Atleast for men.

Women are more shallow than men imo.

 

[.👽.]

take the personality pill retard when will you learn? that was your 98th FwB who broke up with you

 

[Deleted member 275]

take the personality pill retard when will you learn? that was your 98th FwB who broke up with you

she said sex with me was bad, but I am the best cuddler she ever met

Idk why this is but I just love squeezing girls together and like slowly pulling them appart when im cuddling with them, and they seem to love it too.
But smh im bad at sex, fucking over. ngl.

I had:
5 one night stands
1 hooker
1 girlfriend (5 months)
1 this girl that was somewhat fwb, somewhat girlfriend. lasted 1 year

I honestly have almost 0 experience. especially for my age (26). 8 n count? Pathetic

But I am getting personality pilled hard. My current looks are good enough to get quality women. My personality is just too damaged and broken still, from the ugly sub4PSL past I had.

Personality is incredibly hard to fix. Idk if it's even possible.gg wp

 

[.👽.]

she said sex with me was bad, but I am the best cuddler she ever met

Idk why this is but I just love squeezing girls together and like slowly pulling them appart when im cuddling with them, and they seem to love it too.
But smh im bad at sex, fucking over. ngl.

I had:
5 one night stands
1 girlfriend
1 this girl that was somewhat fwb, somewhat girlfriend.

I honestly have almost 0 experience. especially for my age (26). 7 n count? Pathetic

But I am getting personality pilled hard. My current looks are good enough to get quality women. My personality is just too damaged and broken still, from the ugly sub4PSL past I had.

Personality is incredibly hard to fix. Idk if it's even possible.gg wp

dickpill. whats your size? (see @TRUE_CEL get big dick or keep coping)
also personality isn't cope after looks threshold which u pass obviously.
also yea same i was an ugly incel long time before ascending (losing V card and getting to normie--htn levels) but i still kinda have the inkwel loser Personality from my development years. it does get better tho

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

dickpill. whats your size? (see @TRUE_CEL get big dick or keep coping)
also personality isn't cope after looks threshold which u pass obviously.
also yea same i was an ugly incel long time before ascending (losing V card and getting to normie--htn levels) but i still kinda have the inkwel loser Personality from my development years. it does get better tho

1. Dick pill is cope, size doesn't matter. If you're average then you're good, you don't need a big dick. As long as you're in the average range, whether above or even slightly below it's not a problem and in fact it's ideal. Unless you don't want to use your entire dick and have too much foreplay, then a big dick is what you want. But it's not practical.

2. Personality matters like you say only after you pass the looks threshold which we can say that OP did because otherwise he wouldn't have had a fwb in the first place.

 

[MaxillaMaxing]

Next time go on a relationship and dont expect much . Be neutral with her not mean and not too nice

 

[Deleted member 7580]

take the personality pill retard when will you learn? that was your 98th FwB who broke up with you

Was about to tag you that this trucel just broke up with 200th Stacy

 

[Magical Apple]

She didn't feel the 'spark' anymore that she once had while sleeping/fucking with me.
Can't argue with that. Spark was long gone, but it was nice once upon a time. I felt like it was still 'ok' now, but not ideal.

Case now:
Another failed relationship/fwb, where I was apparantly not good enough (?).

How to cope with inceldom now that I don't have a fwb.
JFL if you think I can arrange anything else as sub5PSL. Will take months/years and 30+ dates. I don't even want to start with this shit again.

Plan right now is to looksmax and give up on dating and relationship because I am too mentally damaged to have a decent one anyways. This one failed, because of my traumas from the past, of being sub4PSL in the past. Not being able to trust and give her my true self tbh.

This past? It won't change. So my relationships will keep failing anyways till the day I hang myself or go ER.

Only way to cope is to go ER. Everything else is useless.

Syo out.

 

[oatmeal]

Was about to tag you that this trucel just broke up with 200th Stacy

I honestly have almost 0 experience. especially for my age (26). 8 n count? Pathetic

how could this be? what a bluepill!

i still kinda have the inkwel loser Personality from my development years. it does get better tho

ngl i never had mine fixed at all, will always be on obscure parts on the internet doing incel shit. it is what it is.

 

[TITUS]

ngl i never had mine fixed at all, will always be on obscure parts on the internet doing incel shit. it is what it is.

This, even with wife and kids.

 

[Deleted member 275]

This, even with wife and kids.

its fucking over honestly.

I think it's a fact that you can't recover from a failed incel childhood. Ascending is cope because you can't make-up for your past


the rope is calling

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

she said sex with me was bad, but I am the best cuddler she ever met

Idk why this is but I just love squeezing girls together and like slowly pulling them appart when im cuddling with them, and they seem to love it too.
But smh im bad at sex, fucking over. ngl.

I had:
5 one night stands
1 hooker
1 girlfriend (5 months)
1 this girl that was somewhat fwb, somewhat girlfriend. lasted 1 year

I honestly have almost 0 experience. especially for my age (26). 8 n count? Pathetic

But I am getting personality pilled hard. My current looks are good enough to get quality women. My personality is just too damaged and broken still, from the ugly sub4PSL past I had.

Personality is incredibly hard to fix. Idk if it's even possible.gg wp

I have only fucked like 2 girls but each one loved the cawk must be brutal to be told “you IZ SHIT” then again it’s not even my dick but more due to my good cardio and the fact I never cum so unlimited sex

I have kissed like 13 girls or 10 stn like that if I include childhood but I can’t seem to ever get a ONS even with girls who are basically wanking me off in the club