Genuine question to people here who are blackpilled but still have gfs

[Deleted member 51358]

Does it rub you the wrong way knowing your gf wouldn’t love you if you were ugly? If you’re blue pilled you don’t have to think about this since you think relationships are about “just be nice bro!” Or something retarded.

But you being blackpilled know the truth. Ngl I feel like this would sorta get to me if I had a gf.

 

[Deleted member 51358]

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[Basin]

Does it rub you the wrong way knowing your gf wouldn’t love you if you were ugly? If you’re blue pilled you don’t have to think about this since you think relationships are about “just be nice bro!” Or something retarded.

But you being blackpilled know the truth. Ngl I feel like this would sorta get to me if I had a gf.

Doesnt rub me the wrong way as its the same for me. I'm with her because i find her attractive, im just conscious of my nature whilest others arent or virtue signal. And knowing that she does love me because of my looks is great.

 

[Deleted member 51358]

Doesnt rub me the wrong way as its the same for me. I'm with her because i find her attractive, im just conscious of my nature whilest others arent or virtue signal. And knowing that she does love me because of my looks is great.

I guess it depends on what you value in relationships

Personally if I can’t have the sort of true love genuine connection and not this superficial bs I don’t think I’d want it

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

JFL at dating in 2026

You'd both leave each other is a hearthbeat

 

[lnceIs]

Wouldn't care

 

[JordanFagget271]

isnt it like basically the same, she wouldnt like u if u were ugly but she would also not like u if u were stupid, its just some of the attributes, same as u wouldnt like her if she was closeminded or something, atleast thats my bluepilled coping mechanism

 

[Basin]

I guess it depends on what you value in relationships

Personally if I can’t have the sort of true love genuine connection and not this superficial bs I don’t think I’d want it

I believe a genuine connections forms after especially after having kids. Human nature is just the way it is

 

[Bars]

Just don't overthink

 

[ProBono]

"true" anything is just pessimistic ideation, I don't secretly feel bad because of muh "love is fake" or some bullshit like that I'm driven by instinct when it comes to these things

 

[Deleted member 51358]

would also not like u if u were stupid

Women select for men with lower IQs

But even ignoring that, intelligence is a trait which influences your virtue so factoring that in isn’t superficial.

It’s not the same as liking a dude just cause he’s 6’6 you’re coping if you think it is