genuinely how do i interact with people in school

[britadeirajunior999]

I literally cannot communicate with another person since preschool can someone help

 

[britadeirajunior999]

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[BleoodyOver]

idk

 

[britadeirajunior999]

idk

fairs

 

[britadeirajunior999]

yo bump

 

[TheSadAlbanian]

ngl it’s better that way school is filled with fake people and 99.9% of those people you won’t see after you graduate

 

[therandomorg83]

idk, it kinda feels like you need to have a group at the start or its over for your social life in school

 

[Azi.org]

Watch podcast see how people talk then get lots of pregablin and you good

 

[User28823]

the only genuine way is through common interests

 

[britadeirajunior999]

ngl it’s better that way school is filled with fake people and 99.9% of those people you won’t see after you graduate

i know that but i lowkey get bored in class

 

[Azi.org]

i know that but i lowkey get bored in class

They are fake but good for the moment so see it as a low stake might have some fun and also working on social skills id recommend trying

 

[britadeirajunior999]

They are fake but good for the moment so see it as a low stake might have some fun and also working on social skills id recommend trying

i can talk to someone im private too, cant talk with everyone listening bc im afraid i say something bad

 

[britadeirajunior999]

the only genuine way is through common interests

good tip will try

 

[britadeirajunior999]

idk, it kinda feels like you need to have a group at the start or its over for your social life in school

i have noticed that also, me and a foid are the "loners" she already tried to talk to me but shes too ugly ngl

people like me tho even im a quiet kid

 

[Azi.org]

i can talk to someone im private too, cant talk with everyone listening bc im afraid i say something bad

Yeah exactly that train on talking when everyone is listening even if you say something bad or unfunny no one cares and they forget everyone just thinks about themselves

 

[ihateni]

I literally cannot communicate with another person since preschool can someone help

socially stupid

 

[britadeirajunior999]

Yeah exactly that train on talking when everyone is listening even if you say something bad or unfunny no one cares and they forget everyone just thinks about themselves

easier said than done, will be quite hard for me to practice but ill try, thanks

 

[britadeirajunior999]

socially stupid

Higher iq individual*

 

[H72]

find common ground also most ppl in hs are just raging hypocrites so no real point

 

[Azi.org]

easier said than done, will be quite hard for me to practice but ill try, thanks

Yes it will be hard very hard i myself felt super anxious i felt like a bitch but after getting used to it and getting comfrtable and like 600mg of pregablin i got a lil better it may take like 4-8 motnhs before you get used to it faster depending

 

[britadeirajunior999]

find common ground also most ppl in hs are just raging hypocrites so no real point

thats a good point, i care too much about what people think

 

[britadeirajunior999]

Yes it will be hard very hard i myself felt super anxious i felt like a bitch but after getting used to it and getting comfrtable and like 600mg of pregablin i got a lil better it may take like 4-8 motnhs before you get used to it faster depending

do u got a source for pregab i think thats the only way

 

[Azi.org]

do u got a source for pregab i think thats the only way

No i got it prescribed since i had severe social anxiety disorder

 

[H72]

thats a good point, i care too much about what people think

not what I really meant, yes dont care about what people think to a extent but in hs that matters a lot of how your perceived so if your perceived as a weird autist then thats it but also dont have anything set in stone with anyone unless you have like 1-3 dudes who you would die for max

 

[ihateni]

Higher iq individual*

it can be true, i have the same issues im kind of socially stupid that doesn’t mean low iq, try to talk about common things and answer simple at first so you don’t do anything wrong

 

[therandomorg83]

i have noticed that also, me and a foid are the "loners" she already tried to talk to me but shes too ugly ngl

people like me tho even im a quiet kid

if i were you i wouldve talked back w them, just in a friend way though, pretty suprised its a foid who has no friends cuz ive never seen one w no friends

 

[mocco]

I literally cannot communicate with another person since preschool can someone help

step 1, become chad.
im joking

Don´t act like someone who you are not, so you attract friends who like you for who you are, instead of blending in and being friends with fake people.

 

[britadeirajunior999]

if i were you i wouldve talked back w them, just in a friend way though, pretty suprised its a foid who has no friends cuz ive never seen one w no friends

i was too weird back then tho, i gained my conscience recently, i was friends once with a guy everyone disliked, my reputation is fucked


also the foid is ND and EXTREMELY ugly and everyone hate her (brootal)

 

[therandomorg83]

i was too weird back then tho, i gained my conscience recently, i was friends once with a guy everyone disliked, my reputation is fucked


also the foid is ND and EXTREMELY ugly and everyone hate her (brootal)

i dont blame you, socializing with same gender is way easier

 

[britadeirajunior999]

step 1, become chad.

even chads can be loners tho, idont think iam that ugly

Don´t act like someone who you are not, so you attract friends who like you for who you are, instead of blending in and being friends with fake people.

yeah but i dont got another option if not blending in because everyone is already in a friend group

 

[britadeirajunior999]

i dont blame you, socializing with same gender is way easier

ikr, i try to socialize with the boys sometimes but they dont talk to me if i dont go first

 

[britadeirajunior999]

it can be true, i have the same issues im kind of socially stupid that doesn’t mean low iq, try to talk about common things and answer simple at first so you don’t do anything wrong

usually quiet kids are either ND or have above average IQ

the problem is, i dont know what to answer sometimes and when they go away i think of an answer, that kinda sucks

 

[mocco]

even chads can be loners tho, idont think iam that ugly


yeah but i dont got another option if not blending in because everyone is already in a friend group

You can be in multiple friend groups, i dont stick to one friendgroup at school, im the guy who is cool with most of the other friend groups, like i eat lunch with one group at a table, then the next day i eat with another group, thats how i roll, you dont have to force yourself to stick to one group

 

[britadeirajunior999]

not what I really meant, yes dont care about what people think to a extent but in hs that matters a lot of how your perceived so if your perceived as a weird autist then thats it but also dont have anything set in stone with anyone unless you have like 1-3 dudes who you would die for max

i really think im perceived as a depressed autist, thats why people dont come talk to me

 

[H72]

i really think im perceived as a depressed autist, thats why people dont come talk to me

got to change a lot then try an d just larp being nt that usually works for me

 

[britadeirajunior999]

You can be in multiple friend groups, i dont stick to one friendgroup at school, im the guy who is cool with most of the other friend groups, like i eat lunch with one group at a table, then the next day i eat with another group, thats how i roll, you dont have to force yourself to stick to one group

never thought of that, theres like 3 groups at my school; the jokers, the foids, the NT people who listens to funk (brazil)

 

[mocco]

i really think im perceived as a depressed autist, thats why people dont come talk to me

You prob walk around looking lost and insecure, that´s how people get that image of you.

 

[therandomorg83]

ikr, i try to socialize with the boys sometimes but they dont talk to me if i dont go first

u can also try befriending the "nerds" they r pretty easy to befriend and how i stopped being completely quiet, but sumtimes they r annoying and u gotta have a common interest w them

 

[mocco]

never thought of that, theres like 3 groups at my school; the jokers, the foids, the NT people who listens

´´the jokers´´

 

[britadeirajunior999]

u can also try befriending the "nerds" they r pretty easy to befriend and how i stopped being completely quiet, but sumtimes they r annoying and u gotta have a common interest w them

i never thought of that, good tip ill definitely try this one

 

[britadeirajunior999]

´´the jokers´´

man they only laugh and make jokes everytime during class, i envy them ngl

 

[britadeirajunior999]

You prob walk around looking lost and insecure, that´s how people get that image of you.

yikes yeah probably that

at lunch i just seat alone and eat while looking at others having fun

 

[ihateni]

usually quiet kids are either ND or have above average IQ

the problem is, i dont know what to answer sometimes and when they go away i think of an answer, that kinda sucks

true i have the same problem, typically my method is to respond in stupid way if its only a random conversation, also try to look like a normie don’t answer in complicate way. this is how i got over it in high school, basically tryna look stupid, also when people know you deep they’ll know you re not stupid ecc

 

[mocco]

yikes yeah probably that

at lunch i just seat alone and eat while looking at others having fun

nothing wrong with eating alone, i do that sometimes and prefer that. You just gotta be secure of yourself

 

[britadeirajunior999]

true i have the same problem, typically my method is to respond in stupid way if its only a random conversation, also try to look like a normie don’t answer in complicate way. this is how i got over it in high school, basically tryna look stupid, also when people know you deep they’ll know you re not stupid ecc

thats what i do too sometimes, but sadly im naturally high inhib and cant start a conversation everytime

 

[britadeirajunior999]

nothing wrong with eating alone, i do that sometimes and prefer that. You just gotta be secure of yourself

guess thats the issue, i will try to look more confident

 

[mocco]

guess thats the issue, i will try to look more con

you cant just suddenly be confident, competence leads to confidence, expose yourself more in your life, do martial arts, talk to more people, the positive feedback loop you get is what leads you to being truly confident, but what already help is keeping your chin up while walking and walk in a way it looks like you are going to somewhere important

 

[batemandamian]

I literally cannot communicate with another person since preschool can someone help

How old are you?

 

[britadeirajunior999]

you cant just suddenly be confident, competence leads to confidence, expose yourself more in your life, do martial arts, talk to more people, the positive feedback loop you get is what leads you to being truly confident, but what already help is keeping your chin up while walking and walk in a way it looks like you are going to somewhere important

i do most of these things, but its lowkey tiring when i see other people socializing with no effort

 

[britadeirajunior999]

How old are you?

im 14 turning 15 this year