Copemaxxing
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BIOLOGY
* The simple answer is that boys with status (hierarchy, successes, skills, competence, doers, decision-makers, sovereignty, self-confidence, wealth, ...) and girls with beauty (youthfulness, attractiveness, grace, freshness, pretty, cute, sweet ...) score. It always was and always will be. Of course as largely unconscious partner selection criteria, not necessarily used on purpose.
* Conversely, beauty is not really important in boys and neither is status in girls.
* In other words, you could say that guys love a girl because she is sweet, cute and feminine; Girls want to admire a boy, look up to him, see him as masculine.
STATISTICS AND PARTNER SEARCH
* Experience has shown that it only works well for about every 100th candidate. So you have to get to know a lot of new people in order to be a hit.
* Some are satisfied with a little less accuracy of fit, then maybe every 50th fits, some are perhaps more demanding and only every 200th fits. Some may themselves be more mainstream and average and find more suitable partners, others may not be as average and therefore find slightly less suitable partners. But the dimension is so rough with 1: 100 a good indication of mutual fit. Of course, it fits much more often on one side, but that's obviously not enough.
* "Fit" then also includes personality, because the wavelength simply has to fit, the chemistry has to be right, the humor and style have to harmonize. Certain basic character values such as reliability and sincerity also have to fit for most people - but these are not values that make you fall in love, but because of which you do not fall in love if they are not there.
CONCRETE ON YOUR QUESTION
* You should really acknowledge that it's not about beauty in guys, but about their behavior, e.g. in the hierarchy of the group in terms of personal achievements and skills.
* You should just try to try new sports and hobbies that allow you to get to know the opposite sex well. Make sure you meet lots of new people so that there's a chance the right person will be there.
* Couples dance, for example, is well suited for men, where men are always sought and girls can be addressed and challenged well. Standard Latin, Discofox or Salsa would be worth a try.
* By the way, I don't think it's because of prejudice. Lots of guys have trouble getting a girlfriend, and this talk of prejudice is just a cheap excuse. So don't start to blame all failures on the origin. It's destructive for your entire life. You alone are responsible for yourself. Your behavior, your successes, your skills count.
* Even if girls around you are more into the Nordic type than the southerners, then that would not be a prejudice, but a completely normal preference. Some girls just like blondes, other dark-haired people, some guys want big breasts or petite girls - not because they have prejudices, but because they like it better and nobody can choose that. Not even you.
WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THAT?
* The simple answer is that boys with status (hierarchy, successes, skills, competence, doers, decision-makers, sovereignty, self-confidence, wealth, ...) and girls with beauty (youthfulness, attractiveness, grace, freshness, pretty, cute, sweet ...) score. It always was and always will be. Of course as largely unconscious partner selection criteria, not necessarily used on purpose.
* Conversely, beauty is not really important in boys and neither is status in girls.
* In other words, you could say that guys love a girl because she is sweet, cute and feminine; Girls want to admire a boy, look up to him, see him as masculine.
STATISTICS AND PARTNER SEARCH
* Experience has shown that it only works well for about every 100th candidate. So you have to get to know a lot of new people in order to be a hit.
* Some are satisfied with a little less accuracy of fit, then maybe every 50th fits, some are perhaps more demanding and only every 200th fits. Some may themselves be more mainstream and average and find more suitable partners, others may not be as average and therefore find slightly less suitable partners. But the dimension is so rough with 1: 100 a good indication of mutual fit. Of course, it fits much more often on one side, but that's obviously not enough.
* "Fit" then also includes personality, because the wavelength simply has to fit, the chemistry has to be right, the humor and style have to harmonize. Certain basic character values such as reliability and sincerity also have to fit for most people - but these are not values that make you fall in love, but because of which you do not fall in love if they are not there.
CONCRETE ON YOUR QUESTION
* You should really acknowledge that it's not about beauty in guys, but about their behavior, e.g. in the hierarchy of the group in terms of personal achievements and skills.
* You should just try to try new sports and hobbies that allow you to get to know the opposite sex well. Make sure you meet lots of new people so that there's a chance the right person will be there.
* Couples dance, for example, is well suited for men, where men are always sought and girls can be addressed and challenged well. Standard Latin, Discofox or Salsa would be worth a try.
* By the way, I don't think it's because of prejudice. Lots of guys have trouble getting a girlfriend, and this talk of prejudice is just a cheap excuse. So don't start to blame all failures on the origin. It's destructive for your entire life. You alone are responsible for yourself. Your behavior, your successes, your skills count.
* Even if girls around you are more into the Nordic type than the southerners, then that would not be a prejudice, but a completely normal preference. Some girls just like blondes, other dark-haired people, some guys want big breasts or petite girls - not because they have prejudices, but because they like it better and nobody can choose that. Not even you.
WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THAT?
