get over oneitis

[blackpilledpoopy]

Need advice bros, roughly a week and a half ago I cold approached this cute girl I saw working and got her snapchat. After a few days of talking she agrees to go on a date with me and the date goes well she was laughing and we were having great conversations and we ended the date with a makeout sesh in her car. The day after she says that she wants to see me again and we arrange another date. 5 days later she flakes on the date and her replies get slower and I also noticed she unfollowed me on Insta. in order to stop the bleeding I unadded her on snap and unfollowed her insta… the only problem is I genuinely liked her personality lol what’s the best way to get over her bros i’m feeling depressed asf

 

[Deleted member 21182]

Probably found another guy bitch move to flake on her own date tho

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Realize that she found a chad and is getting her back blown out, guts rearranged, and insides painted as we speak.

 

[Deleted member 24221]

Need advice bros, roughly a week and a half ago I cold approached this cute girl I saw working and got her snapchat. After a few days of talking she agrees to go on a date with me and the date goes well she was laughing and we were having great conversations and we ended the date with a makeout sesh in her car. The day after she says that she wants to see me again and we arrange another date. 5 days later she flakes on the date and her replies get slower and I also noticed she unfollowed me on Insta. in order to stop the bleeding I unadded her on snap and unfollowed her insta… the only problem is I genuinely liked her personality lol what’s the best way to get over her bros i’m feeling depressed asf

she was never yours bro just move on remember you are only attached to how she made you feel not her best way to fix this is finding another random foid to replace those feelings with…hearing things like this happen makes me kinda of happy that i’m too high inhib and non NT to ever have a girl in the first place jfl

 

[Repentsinner]

Realize that she found a chad and is getting her back blown out, guts rearranged, and insides painted as we speak.

 

[blackpilledpoopy]

Realize that she found a chad and is getting her back blown out, guts rearranged, and insides painted as we speak.

Probably bro she kept swiping up on my story hearteyes and shit and kept flirting even when the replies got longer I think she was just keeping me on the hook as an option and my ego couldn’t accept that lol oh well plenty of girls out there ig

 

[Preoximerianas]

She was bored and decided to fling around until she met someone better. It sucks but that’s just what happens, better to internalise reality and move on. You can either be a depressed loser about it or use that anger, frustration, depression to be someone worth her sticking around.

And please don’t fall for her if she comes crawling back

 

[blackpilledpoopy]

She was bored and decided to fling around until she met someone better. It sucks but that’s just what happens, better to internalise reality and move on. You can either be a depressed loser about it or use that anger, frustration, depression to be someone worth her sticking around.

And please don’t fall for her if she comes crawling back

thanks friend i’ll try and if that doesn’t work i’ll just shoot up her work (in call of duty)

 

[sketchybusiness55]

Can you elaborate on how you cold approach? That's hella impressive. Also, how attractive are you (HTN, chadlite, etc.)?

To answer your question tho, I would recommend getting more girls to overcome oneities.

 

[blackpilledpoopy]

Can you elaborate on how you cold approach? That's hella impressive. Also, how attractive are you (HTN, chadlite, etc.)?

To answer your question tho, I would recommend getting more girls to overcome oneities.

I am a HTN with certain valuable halos like blue eyes imo cold approach is the best way to get a girl that’s on a level you wouldn’t be able to get otherwise through other avenues such as online dating. The easiest thing to do is just go up to them and ask for their snapchat then have a brief 40 second convo then I say nice to meet you and shake their hand then I do one quick icebreaker message online and immediately say “so when you gonna let me take you out” as my second message that way i don’t waste time and so the girl doesn’t lose interest (which is at its peak the closer it is to when she gives you the info) so far i am 6/10 on taking the girl out who gave me their snap about 10/25 on them giving me their snap and 4/10 on eventually sleeping with them so that means 16% of the girls i cold approach I slay which is solid considering I only approach girls who are atleast a 6+

 

[sketchybusiness55]

I am a HTN with certain valuable halos like blue eyes imo cold approach is the best way to get a girl that’s on a level you wouldn’t be able to get otherwise through other avenues such as online dating. The easiest thing to do is just go up to them and ask for their snapchat then have a brief 40 second convo then I say nice to meet you and shake their hand then I do one quick icebreaker message online and immediately say “so when you gonna let me take you out” that way i don’t waste time so far i am 6/10 on taking the girl out who gave me their snap about 10/25 and 4/10 on eventually sleeping with them so that means 16% of the girls i cold approach I slay which is solid considering I only approach girls who are atleast a 6+

wow congrats man, I'm very proud of you.

 

[blackpilledpoopy]

wow congrats man, I'm very proud of you.

the hardest part is the first few rejections but after awhile it doesn’t phase you and it actually has a positive domino effect of making you more assertive/confident/charismatic on your future cold approaches so essentially each time you cold approach you are getting better

 

[jflsnowdzz]

Need advice bros, roughly a week and a half ago I cold approached this cute girl I saw working and got her snapchat. After a few days of talking she agrees to go on a date with me and the date goes well she was laughing and we were having great conversations and we ended the date with a makeout sesh in her car. The day after she says that she wants to see me again and we arrange another date. 5 days later she flakes on the date and her replies get slower and I also noticed she unfollowed me on Insta. in order to stop the bleeding I unadded her on snap and unfollowed her insta… the only problem is I genuinely liked her personality lol what’s the best way to get over her bros i’m feeling depressed asf

Looksmax until u know for sure that she lost u, then get a badder bitch with hopefully good personality as well that fogs her to pakistan. Same thing that i did, but my oneitis lasted way longer. Ngl it was hard since mine was legit unicorn toer.

 

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time

delete everything that reminds you of her, do it in a right time