Zeekie
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Niggas in this site probably yearning for a relationship, I personally haven't been in any actual long-term relationships, like 2.5 of them, the 1/2 was a weird situationship. But my point is, anyone who's been in a relationship, unless they actually loved the person, or they pulled someone way above of your league will tell you, IT'S FUCKING TORTURE.
I have studies to complete, I have business aspirations, I'm budgeting my money to the last dime, and despite wasting a lot of my time on this money I like to think I also respect my time. All of that goes out of the window once you get a relationship, the worst part is most of those relationships don't even last a relevant amount of time, chances are your first few relationships won't be with the person you'll marry because you're not mature enough to pick a proper partner and people change way too much at that age.
Have hook-ups and shit, but to anyone thinking about it, stop deliberately looking for a relationship, a good relationship eventually comes to you, if you try to forcefully look for it, then you may get into one, but it'll be one where you're deeply dissatisfied and objectively losing resources better spend on something else. Dudes who're in their 16-25s should probably not be looking for girlfriends and instead be doing, idk, IMPORTANT SHIT?
Maybe my perspective is kind of skewed bc the relationships I got in eventually got real toxic, and I only got with those persons for pleasure, and to claim the "I have a girlfriend trophy", not because I actually liked them. I still regret the valuable hours I spend doing nothing with those foids and even missing opportunities, genuinely pissed off.
I have studies to complete, I have business aspirations, I'm budgeting my money to the last dime, and despite wasting a lot of my time on this money I like to think I also respect my time. All of that goes out of the window once you get a relationship, the worst part is most of those relationships don't even last a relevant amount of time, chances are your first few relationships won't be with the person you'll marry because you're not mature enough to pick a proper partner and people change way too much at that age.
Have hook-ups and shit, but to anyone thinking about it, stop deliberately looking for a relationship, a good relationship eventually comes to you, if you try to forcefully look for it, then you may get into one, but it'll be one where you're deeply dissatisfied and objectively losing resources better spend on something else. Dudes who're in their 16-25s should probably not be looking for girlfriends and instead be doing, idk, IMPORTANT SHIT?
Maybe my perspective is kind of skewed bc the relationships I got in eventually got real toxic, and I only got with those persons for pleasure, and to claim the "I have a girlfriend trophy", not because I actually liked them. I still regret the valuable hours I spend doing nothing with those foids and even missing opportunities, genuinely pissed off.
