Getting compliments as a person with complexes about his looks.

[flowiza]

After all of my efforts:starving myself,triggering anorexia,BED and bulmia,ruining my health with steroids,walking around with scars,cut lips,cut eyes i finally reached well above average(currently lhtn front).I never was bad looking but being born in a family who won the genetic lotery(2 of my close family members are models) and being a child model myself but then getting my nose fucked up by a doctor,having testicular problems and loosing half a year of important facial development because of the fucked up nose and mouth breathing,gaining weight during quarantine i lost that privalage.I recently got to the point where i fit in with the genetically blessed ass family of mine and started getting alot of compliments at school and from old friends(you turned into fine shit,your face has sharpened up alot,you look 1000x bettter please continuee like this,stares from girls and so on) i have trouble actually accepting them as a confidence boost and i actually question if i really changed that much to deserve this treatment.Does anyone relate to me i rlly need a talk

 

[flowiza]

bump this i need someone to relate badly

 

[roidar]

After all of my efforts:starving myself,triggering anorexia,BED and bulmia,ruining my health with steroids,walking around with scars,cut lips,cut eyes i finally reached well above average(currently lhtn front).I never was bad looking but being born in a family who won the genetic lotery(2 of my close family members are models) and being a child model myself but then getting my nose fucked up by a doctor,having testicular problems and loosing half a year of important facial development because of the fucked up nose and mouth breathing,gaining weight during quarantine i lost that privalage.I recently got to the point where i fit in with the genetically blessed ass family of mine and started getting alot of compliments at school and from old friends(you turned into fine shit,your face has sharpened up alot,you look 1000x bettter please continuee like this,stares from girls and so on) i have trouble actually accepting them as a confidence boost and i actually question if i really changed that much to deserve this treatment.Does anyone relate to me i rlly need a talk

what did u look like before and now? if u dont wanna send u can dm or something

 

[ozzywashere]

Yes I do. When i was in high school i was 5'5 and 95ibs at 17 and had an extremely youthful face. Went to an endochronologist and my test levels had only just started increasing meaning i was prepubescent most of my teen years. I was mocked constantly. Once my test went up i started growing. At 18 I got into lookism and that niche but didnt see it in a hateful way but moreso i want to do this for myself. Ive forgiven the people who have wronged me as hatred is not a healthy emotion to hold onto. Im now 21, 6'1 and run a decent tiktok page with my face on it. I still get extremely worried about looking ugly as the treatment of my high school years haunts me but ive been getting better. Hope you are doing ok.

 

[flowiza]

Before

 

[roidar]

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damb bro u look way better

 

[flowiza]

Yes I do. When i was in high school i was 5'5 and 95ibs at 17 and had an extremely youthful face. Went to an endochronologist and my test levels had only just started increasing meaning i was prepubescent most of my teen years. I was mocked constantly. Once my test went up i started growing. At 18 I got into lookism and that niche but didnt see it in a hateful way but moreso i want to do this for myself. Ive forgiven the people who have wronged me as hatred is not a healthy emotion to hold onto. Im now 21, 6'1 and run a decent tiktok page with my face on it. I still get extremely worried about looking ugly as the treatment of my high school years haunts me but ive been getting better. Hope you are doing ok

i got into this niche at 13 but yh nice bro

 

[flowiza]

damb bro u look way better

no bro both those are now wait i will send a before wdym i look better lmao

 

[roidar]

You should be proud of your progress and the risks/effort you took that got you there

 

[flowiza]

damb bro u look way better

or wait can u see the before pic cus i cant on pc

 

[roidar]

no bro both those are now wait i will send a before wdym i look better lmao

u sent the before aswell already

 

[roidar]

or wait can u see the before pic cus i cant on pc

im on pc and i can see it

 

[flowiza]

im on pc and i can see it

Like the one with the white tiles behind me right

 

[roidar]

Like the one with the white tiles behind me right

yes

 

[ozzywashere]

Yes I do. When i was in high school i was 5'5 and 95ibs at 17 and had an extremely youthful face. Went to an endochronologist and my test levels had only just started increasing meaning i was prepubescent most of my teen years. I was mocked constantly. Once my test went up i started growing. At 18 I got into lookism and that niche but didnt see it in a hateful way but moreso i want to do this for myself. Ive forgiven the people who have wronged me as hatred is not a healthy emotion to hold onto. Im now 21, 6'1 and run a decent tiktok page with my face on it. I still get extremely worried about looking ugly as the treatment of my high school years haunts me but ive been getting better. Hope you are doing ok.

ive also grown very sad to what this community has come to. It used to be about recognizing how society demonizes ugly people even though they did nothing wrong and helping others who struggle with that. Now it has become a hate fest to pile onto the ugliest person to make themselves feel less insecure (ironically doing what "normies" do) and being incredibly racist on top of that. Its really sad what couldve been good awareness became an easy target for any mainstream platform to hate on.

 

[cartman_1]

After all of my efforts:starving myself,triggering anorexia,BED and bulmia,ruining my health with steroids,walking around with scars,cut lips,cut eyes i finally reached well above average(currently lhtn front).I never was bad looking but being born in a family who won the genetic lotery(2 of my close family members are models) and being a child model myself but then getting my nose fucked up by a doctor,having testicular problems and loosing half a year of important facial development because of the fucked up nose and mouth breathing,gaining weight during quarantine i lost that privalage.I recently got to the point where i fit in with the genetically blessed ass family of mine and started getting alot of compliments at school and from old friends(you turned into fine shit,your face has sharpened up alot,you look 1000x bettter please continuee like this,stares from girls and so on) i have trouble actually accepting them as a confidence boost and i actually question if i really changed that much to deserve this treatment.Does anyone relate to me i rlly need a talk

This happens to me, but I'm not very physically attractive, I'm insecure because I look bad and I don't really trust in anyone, even in me, and when people says a compliment it's hard to accept it and not think that they're mocking of me, even them talking to me or seeing me for a time I think is because I look bad had an imperfection and in that moment I go to the bathroom to see if that's true and fix that, idk why, I suppose it takes a time or maybe just a psychologist

 

[flowiza]

ive also grown very sad to what this community has come to. It used to be about recognizing how society demonizes ugly people even though they did nothing wrong and helping others who struggle with that. Now it has become a hate fest to pile onto the ugliest person to make themselves feel less insecure (ironically doing what "normies" do) and being incredibly racist on top of that. Its really sad what couldve been good awareness became an easy target for any mainstream platform to hate on.

i am an ugly person hater but to tthose who were uglier than my base.I dont go up to theem hating but i stay away from ugly peeople personally

 

[roidar]

ive also grown very sad to what this community has come to. It used to be about recognizing how society demonizes ugly people even though they did nothing wrong and helping others who struggle with that. Now it has become a hate fest to pile onto the ugliest person to make themselves feel less insecure (ironically doing what "normies" do) and being incredibly racist on top of that. Its really sad what couldve been good awareness became an easy target for any mainstream platform to hate on.

yeah ur correct its purely to just make themselves feel better to see someone who has it worse, the only time I make fun of a ugly niggas looks on here is when theyre being just being hateful or aggresive for no reason

 

[flowiza]

This happens to me, but I'm not very physically attractive, I'm insecure because I look bad and I don't really trust in anyone, even in me, and when people says a compliment it's hard to accept it and not think that they're mocking of me, even them talking to me or seeing me for a time I think is because I look bad had an imperfection and in that moment I go to the bathroom to see if that's true and fix that, idk why, I suppose it takes a time or maybe just a psychologist

idfk bro it probably came from the fact that my family is the most attractive out of my town and i always felt that i didnt fit into it even tho my friends say im top 3 most attractive in townn i feel like they are glazing me and i cant the thought of that out of my mind

 

[ozzywashere]

i am an ugly person hater but to tthose who were uglier than my base.I dont go up to theem hating but i stay away from ugly peeople personally

then you're just following along with the people you hate for their ignorance (bluepillers,normies,etc)

 

[cartman_1]

idfk bro it probably came from the fact that my family is the most attractive out of my town and i always felt that i didnt fit into it even tho my friends say im top 3 most attractive in townn i feel like they are glazing me and i cant the thought of that out of my mind

You have a photo by chance? But don't worry, just try to enjoy life and go to a psychologist, it's better than suffer

 

[flowiza]

then you're just following along with the people you hate for their ignorance (bluepillers,normies,etc)

idm ugly people some people just have an annoying face and i dont like them so i stay away

 

[flowiza]

You have a photo by chance? But don't worry, just try to enjoy life and go to a psychologist, it's better than suffer

im never gonna show a photo of my family but for example they all have smaller noses and mine is bulbous cus im a copy of my mom(but her nose suits her face and she is very attractive) while my nnose is the thing im most complexed about

 

[ozzywashere]

idm ugly people some people just have an annoying face and i dont like them so i stay away

I think if you are aware of the psychological phenomenon thats going on (halo/horn effect / lookism) then you should try and stray away from the subconcious connection your brain is forming. Yes, everyone does have prejudice and discriminate because thats how ancenstors avoided threats in the past through pattern recognition but this specific inherited trait isnt usually necessary

 

[cartman_1]

im never gonna show a photo of my family but for example they all have smaller noses and mine is bulbous cus im a copy of my mom(but her nose suits her face and she is very attractive) while my nnose is the thing im most complexed about

Of you, but don't worry, you need a psychologist, he can help you and hear you when you want, it's better that, it's really hard to fix that without one

 

[iblamemyhabits]

extremely relatable

 

[scuderia]

After all of my efforts:starving myself,triggering anorexia,BED and bulmia,ruining my health with steroids,walking around with scars,cut lips,cut eyes i finally reached well above average(currently lhtn front).I never was bad looking but being born in a family who won the genetic lotery(2 of my close family members are models) and being a child model myself but then getting my nose fucked up by a doctor,having testicular problems and loosing half a year of important facial development because of the fucked up nose and mouth breathing,gaining weight during quarantine i lost that privalage.I recently got to the point where i fit in with the genetically blessed ass family of mine and started getting alot of compliments at school and from old friends(you turned into fine shit,your face has sharpened up alot,you look 1000x bettter please continuee like this,stares from girls and so on) i have trouble actually accepting them as a confidence boost and i actually question if i really changed that much to deserve this treatment.Does anyone relate to me i rlly need a talk

I can’t relate I’m short and mtn

But I like your avi