Getting feelings for a avoidant person is like hell on earth

[nuisance]

Any time you get close they pull away.

Then you leave them and they come back and it happens over and over and over

 

[Deleted member 80562]

Brutal for the chick that liked me then

 

[nuisance]

Brutal for the chick that liked me then

whats the headspace behind this did you just not like her

Or did you pull away for some reason

 

[Deleted member 80562]

whats the headspace behind this did you just not like her

Or did you pull away for some reason

I don’t even know tbh, I kinda liked her

 

[nuisance]

I don’t even know tbh, I kinda liked her

The girl I have been talking to for months is super insecure, she doesn’t believe that someone could like her

She literally said she likes me but then when I push she pulls away

 

[Klasik616]

Any time you get close they pull away.

Then you leave them and they come back and it happens over and over and over

In my case they get close and I ran away. 5h later I think "I should have said x..." When the opporunity appears "nah it doesn't matter". 5h later I regret it.

 

[Klasik616]

The girl I have been talking to for months is super insecure, she doesn’t believe that someone could like her

She literally said she likes me but then when I push she pulls away

Why do u think she dislikes herself

 

[missingmaxilla]

you should always avoid avoidant women or women who claim to have adhd, bpd etc.

not worth it in the slightest. these types of people are ruled purely by emotion with not a single thought of logic, but they pretend that they do.

 

[nuisance]

In my case they get close and I ran away. 5h later I think "I should have said x..." When the opporunity appears "nah it doesn't matter". 5h later I regret it.

Guys can have an avoidant personality to

Why do u think she dislikes herself

She has problems I don’t know where from and I can’t help because she won’t let me because she’s avoidant. She has very low self esteem, she says that I am in a way better place in life than her. She’s hot idk why she’s so delusional.

 

[nuisance]

you should always avoid avoidant women or women who claim to have adhd, bpd etc.

not worth it in the slightest. these types of people are ruled purely by emotion with not a single thought of logic, but they pretend that they do.

Yea you’re right honestly, lack of communication is exhausting. She always tells me she hates this about herself and I deserve better but won’t ever put the effort in to get past it.

 

[Jonaslmz]

Any time you get close they pull away.

Then you leave them and they come back and it happens over and over and over

I am currently dating someone, and they are doing this shi genuinly worse than hell.