getting good friend(s) from the opposite sex

[DicedFeta]

Getting chicks as friends is crazy value imo. So much stigma with being "friendzoned" or w/e but idc. One of those that I've met have been setting me up with lots of her friends, sharing do's/don'ts for tinder, dating, sex etc and boosting my self-esteem a lot. This one in particular is very NT and gl, but got BF. As with any kind of friends there are good and bad ones, ofc, e.g not being honest.

What's your thoughts on these kind of relationships? Am I being cucked somehow? Delusional?

 

[Deleted member 7076]

yeah its good but dont be the guy who is only friends with foids or else people will think u gay

 

[Magister]

Propably it's just becouse she wanna fvck with you and trying to simp. TLDR; you friendzoned her.

 

[DicedFeta]

Propably it's just becouse she wanna fvck with you and trying to simp. TLDR; you friendzoned her.

Maybe but still kinda wierd to help with my dating game overall if this was the case. But yeah, still kinda intimate at times as well as giving me lots of compliments so not impossible.

 

[Pumanator]

To get female friends you just have to tell them you love them. Jfl.

 

[IdiAmin]

Good for you, but I don't want female friends, it's like you end up attracted to them unless they aren't your type or vice verca

 

[Deleted member 1680]

Good for you, but I don't want female friends, it's like you end up attracted to them unless they aren't your type or vice verca

This, unless you have loads of other girls as options to fuck or LTR ur gonna get attached to at least one of ur female friends

 

[DicedFeta]

Good for you, but I don't want female friends, it's like you end up attracted to them unless they aren't your type or vice verca

Good point and I guess time will tell

This, unless you have loads of other girls as options to fuck or LTR ur gonna get attached to at least one of ur female friends

I do, and I did fuck one of her friends that I met at a dinner, which I was invited to by her. Also quite active on Tinder and she knows this. I just find lots of value having an actual chick telling me how she and her friends think about different things, e.g she did a pretty blackpilled review of my Tinder profile which actually did yield better results. However, it is true that between guys and girls there is always a "sexual" attraction somewhere, and if she didn't find me attractive at all she would probably not even engaged in the first place or winged me to her friends, maybe this will fuck it up in the end.

 

[clockwiseRotator]

Good point and I guess time will tell

I do, and I did fuck one of her friends that I met at a dinner, which I was invited to by her. Also quite active on Tinder and she knows this. I just find lots of value having an actual chick telling me how she and her friends think about different things, e.g she did a pretty blackpilled review of my Tinder profile which actually did yield better results. However, it is true that between guys and girls there is always a "sexual" attraction somewhere, and if she didn't find me attractive at all she would probably not even engaged in the first place or winged me to her friends, maybe this will fuck it up in the end.

IMO having female friends is great if you're fucking people on the side. If not its a bit pathetic

 

[Deleted member 9511]

friendzoning women is a huge status max

other women notice that shit

once you get a gf it gets really easy to have female friends since they are automatically more attracted to you via peer validation

 

[Cain]

she did a pretty blackpilled review of my Tinder profile which actually did yield better results.

Can you elab more on this?

 

[BUY$DRUGS]

friendzoning women is a huge status max

other women notice that shit

once you get a gf it gets really easy to have female friends since they are automatically more attracted to you via peer validation

I've friend zoned hella average/ugly girls who have tried hitting on me before and no one cares there just like yeah bro thank god you never went w her

 

[DicedFeta]

Can you elab more on this?

It was primarily these points and they were mentioned as "me and my friends, or my friends":

• Bio is worthless. Height is probably worth as some find it important and those who don't know other chicks care about it so they just don't care themselves.
• "verified" account is considered negative as you seem to be trying too much(!?), guess bio is same argument.
• Showing off ripped physique is totally okey, but not gym/mirror-selfies. Mine from the pool was very good.
• Picture of you in some social context is important(!!), even with a chick in the picture is ok but not too clingy. Had one with a chick on my shoulders from a festival which was considered very good.
• Picture of you showing your interest(s), even with bad quality is good, put it last.
• Only "model"-pictures is unpleasant.
• First picture has to be really good, both in terms of your looks and photo quality. Everything above doesn't matter otherwise. Selfie is okey.

I'd say overall it came down to having some pictures where you look good, pictures proving you're NT and not appearing tryhard doing this(maybe part of being NT proof). Also scary reminder how much chicks seem to gossip over Tinder, dates etc. Plenty of confirmation on the fact that if your matches are actually in to you it's best to just small talk very briefly and then set up a date, if that doesn't work it was probably a dead end anyway. I did have a lot of Tinder success before this but after changing my profile I've had much more engagement(inboxes and answers), a bit more matches maybe but haven't felt as measurable.

Should maybe been it's own thread lol

 

[Deleted member 6908]

A subtle way of saying let chicks friend zone you, you never know, might come in handy.

Absolute spastic cuckery

 

[Deleted member 5927]

I have female friends but dude it gets old. You think it’s great because secretly you crave female attention even if it’s just a female friend. They aren’t actually your friend. Women’s best friends are usually guys who are decent looking but they just don’t want to fuck. Also most women have tons of male friends and the majority of them aren’t actual friends. The guy wants to fuck the girl just uses you for whatever. Whether it be “the guy who I talk to at the office break room” or “the guy I tell all my emotions to about the guys I actually will fuck” or “the guy I have deep conversations with”.

you as a male crave 1 male friend or a few who you can get deep with and do everything with. women just get everything they need out of multiple male “friends”.

the reason I said it gets old is because eventually this initial enjoyment of enjoying female attention gets old when it gets fully embedded in your head that women are retarded and make terrible decisions and literally have mental issues. when you realize this you start to focus back on yourself because your incel dream of “love” just sort of disappears when you see the harsh reality of the female dating market.

and i have female friends. But I treat them just the same as dudes. They don’t get special treatment. I just use them to raise my own social status as well so in social settings girls I don’t know can see me hanging out with girls I am friends with.

 

[Rich/Jewish_Gooner$]

I have female friends but dude it gets old. You think it’s great because secretly you crave female attention even if it’s just a female friend. They aren’t actually your friend. Women’s best friends are usually guys who are decent looking but they just don’t want to fuck. Also most women have tons of male friends and the majority of them aren’t actual friends. The guy wants to fuck the girl just uses you for whatever. Whether it be “the guy who I talk to at the office break room” or “the guy I tell all my emotions to about the guys I actually will fuck” or “the guy I have deep conversations with”.

you as a male crave 1 male friend or a few who you can get deep with and do everything with. women just get everything they need out of multiple male “friends”.

the reason I said it gets old is because eventually this initial enjoyment of enjoying female attention gets old when it gets fully embedded in your head that women are retarded and make terrible decisions and literally have mental issues. when you realize this you start to focus back on yourself because your incel dream of “love” just sort of disappears when you see the harsh reality of the female dating market.

and i have female friends. But I treat them just the same as dudes. They don’t get special treatment. I just use them to raise my own social status as well so in social settings girls I don’t know can see me hanging out with girls I am friends with.

"women are boring" would be enough

 

[Deleted member 6908]

Getting chicks as friends is crazy value imo. So much stigma with being "friendzoned" or w/e but idc. One of those that I've met have been setting me up with lots of her friends, sharing do's/don'ts for tinder, dating, sex etc and boosting my self-esteem a lot. This one in particular is very NT and gl, but got BF. As with any kind of friends there are good and bad ones, ofc, e.g not being honest.

What's your thoughts on these kind of relationships? Am I being cucked somehow? Delusional?

Also, taking advice on how to be around women, from women? Lol. This is the most cardinal sin. It's the NUMBER 1# CARDINAL SIN TO MAKE.

You need red pill philosophy. Desperately. You understand ZERO about female nature.


Be the male lion.

 

[Bewusst]

Never had a female friend ever. I got the offer once in elementary school but was too autistic to accept it

 

[DicedFeta]

I have female friends but dude it gets old. You think it’s great because secretly you crave female attention even if it’s just a female friend. They aren’t actually your friend. Women’s best friends are usually guys who are decent looking but they just don’t want to fuck. Also most women have tons of male friends and the majority of them aren’t actual friends. The guy wants to fuck the girl just uses you for whatever. Whether it be “the guy who I talk to at the office break room” or “the guy I tell all my emotions to about the guys I actually will fuck” or “the guy I have deep conversations with”.

you as a male crave 1 male friend or a few who you can get deep with and do everything with. women just get everything they need out of multiple male “friends”.

the reason I said it gets old is because eventually this initial enjoyment of enjoying female attention gets old when it gets fully embedded in your head that women are retarded and make terrible decisions and literally have mental issues. when you realize this you start to focus back on yourself because your incel dream of “love” just sort of disappears when you see the harsh reality of the female dating market.

and i have female friends. But I treat them just the same as dudes. They don’t get special treatment. I just use them to raise my own social status as well so in social settings girls I don’t know can see me hanging out with girls I am friends with.

Well, if I only craved female attention I would have stuck to Tinder or w/e. Thing with chicks from Tinder is that you hook up with them once or a couple of times then that's that, which is the perfect setup for what it is. However, having chicks as friends allow you in to new social circles where you already have one of their friends seal of approval which makes hooking up with the ones in the circle easy mode. I do agree that they shouldn't be treated much different from dudes.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Well, if I only craved female attention I would have stuck to Tinder or w/e. Thing with chicks from Tinder is that you hook up with them once or a couple of times then that's that, which is the perfect setup for what it is. However, having chicks as friends allow you in to new social circles where you already have one of their friends seal of approval which makes hooking up with the ones in the circle easy mode. I do agree that they shouldn't be treated much different from dudes.

interesting. see I haven’t been able to capitalize yet on hooking up with their friends. honestly man if you say it works I’ll have to try it. but yeah you’d have to be a good friend for them to ever fucking let you get close to their female friends. They would have to actually think you are good enough to even introduce you to them, and you’d have to be gl enough to where they want to introduce you to their friends because they think you look good enough.

 

[Beetlejuice]

To get female friends you just have to tell them you love them. Jfl.

 

[Deleted member 11388]

Getting chicks as friends is crazy value imo. So much stigma with being "friendzoned" or w/e but idc. One of those that I've met have been setting me up with lots of her friends, sharing do's/don'ts for tinder, dating, sex etc and boosting my self-esteem a lot. This one in particular is very NT and gl, but got BF. As with any kind of friends there are good and bad ones, ofc, e.g not being honest.

What's your thoughts on these kind of relationships? Am I being cucked somehow? Delusional?

Having female friends that are ugly/you are not attracted to them is fine, if you find her attractive and wanna bang her but you don't do it because she is your "friend" you are being a pathetic beta cuck and she probably is using you because she has more power over you cuz you attracted to her.


Also a lot of guys treat their female friends better than their male friends because they are females, treat them the same as you would your buddies, if she is a shitty person don't hangout with her, if she doesn't bring value/make you more happy because she is your life as a friend don't have her in your life, same goes for male friends as well.
I don't understand guys who hangout with girls they would bang immediatly if there was a opportunity without trying to bang her.

I'd say if she consistently gets you laid with her hot friends she brings a lot of value to your life so its worth it.

 

[Deleted member 11388]

Also, taking advice on how to be around women, from women? Lol. This is the most cardinal sin. It's the NUMBER 1# CARDINAL SIN TO MAKE.

You need red pill philosophy. Desperately. You understand ZERO about female nature.


Be the male lion.

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True, you don't ask the fish how to catch the fish, you ask the fisherman

 

[Deleted member 6908]

True, you don't ask the fish how to catch the fish, you ask the fisherman

That's the saying.

 

[DicedFeta]

interesting. see I haven’t been able to capitalize yet on hooking up with their friends. honestly man if you say it works I’ll have to try it. but yeah you’d have to be a good friend for them to ever fucking let you get close to their female friends. They would have to actually think you are good enough to even introduce you to them, and you’d have to be gl enough to where they want to introduce you to their friends because they think you look good enough.

Could imagine not all girls being the same regarding these kind of things. She probably have to think of you being a "good guy", because if she sets you up with a friend and you're an abusive asshole, she was the one who set it up. For me it was kinda random, we were talking and just out of nowhere she said that she considered most of her social circle to be hot(I agree) and that she probably had plenty of friends who would like to meet me. After this I've been invited to some events and randomly introduced at times. I mean if you look like trash it wouldn't matter, any of it, but if her friends consider you hot and you already been approved as a "good guy" you are literally in already lol. Also, in my country there are hardly any public events so you need an invite to everything.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Could imagine not all girls being the same regarding these kind of things. She probably have to think of you being a "good guy", because if she sets you up with a friend and you're an abusive asshole, she was the one who set it up. For me it was kinda random, we were talking and just out of nowhere she said that she considered most of her social circle to be hot(I agree) and that she probably had plenty of friends who would like to meet me. After this I've been invited to some events and randomly introduced at times. I mean if you look like trash it wouldn't matter, any of it, but if her friends consider you hot and you already been approved as a "good guy" you are literally in already lol. Also, in my country there are hardly any public events so you need an invite to everything.

yeah bro social circle is everything it’s awesome getting ur social circle up from one person to the next.

 

[DicedFeta]

That's the saying.

If you could stick the head in the water and hear what the fishes were saying while they thought you didn't, would you?

 

[Deleted member 9787]

you’re doing fine

 

[DicedFeta]

yeah bro social circle is everything it’s awesome getting ur social circle up from one person to the next.

Ye and looks affects the potential in expanding your social circle a lot which is why am here. Playing the social game is like getting a company working for you while playing outside of it eg Tinder is like wageslaving.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

If you could stick the head in the water and hear what the fishes were saying while they thought you didn't, would you?

The fishes just like women don't understand where their captors are gonna come at them from and how.

The fishes just like women don't have brains and are complete mindless imbeciles.

The fishes just like women are spineless.


SO NO.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

If you wanna use their company for understanding them better, cool.

But trust and follow their actions. Not what they say. WHAT THE FUCK THEY DO.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

complete mindless imbeciles.

No need to project that much

 

[DicedFeta]

If you wanna use their company for understanding them better, cool.

But trust and follow their actions. Not what they say. WHAT THE FUCK THEY DO.

Ye, would find everything very different if I first approached someone with sexual intentions and then settled for friend. Having a girl being relaxed sharing what she and her friends think about X & Y isn't the same as asking randomly for advice on X & Y. Lots of what is said even confirm many red/black-pill theories.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

Ye, would find everything very different if I first approached someone with sexual intentions and then settled for friend. Having a girl being relaxed sharing what she and her friends think about X & Y isn't the same as asking randomly for advice on X & Y. Lots of what is said even confirm many red/black-pill theories.

Right but you mentioned about her giving advice on what to put on tinder and all this other shit.

 

[DicedFeta]

Right but you mentioned about her giving advice on what to put on tinder and all this other shit.

Aye, everything should be taken with a grain of salt and even about all that she were upfront about the fact if you don't look good on first picture, nothing else matters. I still find value in the other stuff as well because they probably boost your profile. I mean showing you're NT by having some picture in social setting probably is good. Looks>everything but everyone on this forum knows that.

 

[Cain]

Picture of you showing your interest(s), even with bad quality is good, put it last.

You mean hobbies, right?

 

[DicedFeta]

You mean hobbies, right?

Yea, just you doing something. Got a picture of me free-diving which have been a regular first topic that girls who inbox bring up.