Getting IOIs is so fuckin confusing

[BoredPrince]

So every time I start noticing that I'm getting IOIs, I start thinking to myself that maybe I do have a chance irl

That maybe I'm actually not so ugly and that my problem is being non NT, so I finally collect courage to approach

And when I finally approach the girl that gave me IOI, it ends in rejection

Whether that be in gym or school, or cold approaching in public


Don't know what to think anymore tbh...

 

[Vermilioncore]

Just leadin you on

 

[Blackgymmax]

You probably have a dog shit frontal and look good your side or 3 4ths

 

[BoredPrince]

You probably have a dog shit frontal and look good your side or 3 4ths

Well my side profile is good or better than front, but still, I'm moving when I get them, so it would be impossible to not notice the rest of my face

 

[vanillaicecream]

You probably have a dog shit frontal and look good your side or 3 4ths

Yeah because they couldn't possibly have had the chance to look at his frontal before he made a move on them, they only ever looked at him from his profile before. Definitely a plausible and realistic scenario. Jesus this might be the most autistic and .org tier attempt at explaining a social situation I've ever seen.

 

[vanillaicecream]

Most likely explanation is that you read too much into things and interpreted it all as indication of interest as someone who always goes into these situations where girls are involved with a pre disposition to look for these signs. Or it's just the girl's natural personality to act in ways that may give that impression.

 

[Blackgymmax]

Yeah because they couldn't possibly have had the chance to look at his frontal before he made a move on them, they only ever looked at him from his profile before. Definitely a plausible and realistic scenario. Jesus this might be the most autistic and .org tier attempt at explaining a social situation I've ever seen.

Na youre dumb plenty of girls give iois from 3 4ths and sides and reject once they get a clear frontal. Ive heard of it quite a few timesfrom women so i really question if youliterally talk to women

Well my side profile is good or better than front, but still, I'm moving when I get them, so it would be impossible to not notice the rest of my face

Yeah but once they see your frontal as you approach its gg

 

[aBetterMii]

Only ioi is PiV

 

[Deleted member 21598]

Only ioi is PiV

Taking cock is full submission, not an indication of interest you incel virgin retard

 

[Yliaster]

lol,what do you say to the girls when you approach them ?

 

[aBetterMii]

Taking cock is full submission, not an indication of interest you incel virgin retard

Her taking your cock definetly indicates her interest in you tho

 

[Deleted member 21598]

Her taking your cock definetly indicates her interest in you tho

That’s not an indication, it’s confirmation. And if she’s taking your cock she’s not just interested, she’s submitted.

Learn english you low iq shitskin

 

[vanillaicecream]

girls give iois from 3 4ths and sides and reject once they get a clear frontal.

Yeah definitely happens. It's possible for people to have such a discrepancy between their frontal and profile in terms of attractivenes, to the point where they can have random girls give them signs of interest when they look at them from the side but as soon as they face them straight on they turn into a different person and lose 4 points in the looks scale. It's also definitely possible for someone to present themselves to others in a way where they can only look at them from the side, as if they're a statue. The girls will only have looked at the guy from his profile before he made his move. Omg stfu you annoying autistic pinhead!

 

[BoredPrince]

Most likely explanation is that you read too much into things and interpreted it all as indication of interest as someone who always goes into these situations where girls are involved with a pre disposition to look for these signs. Or it's just the girl's natural personality to act in ways that may give that impression.

I wouldn't approach them If I didn't consider it an IOI and I really don't look for them, they happen randomly and I decide on the spot to approach

 

[BoredPrince]

lol,what do you say to the girls when you approach them ?

Something along the lines:

Hey what's your name, I'm (boredprince), I thought you were cute, do you wanna hang out sometimes?

Or some version of that

 

[St.TikTokcel]

So every time I start noticing that I'm getting IOIs, I start thinking to myself that maybe I do have a chance irl

That maybe I'm actually not so ugly and that my problem is being non NT, so I finally collect courage to approach

And when I finally approach the girl that gave me IOI, it ends in rejection

Whether that be in gym or school, or cold approaching in public


Don't know what to think anymore tbh...

P and V is the only IOI. So sorry

 

[Blackgymmax]

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Yeah definitely happens. It's possible for people to have such a discrepancy between their frontal and profile in terms of attractivenes, to the point where they can have random girls give them signs of interest when they look at them from the side but as soon as they face them straight on they turn into a different person and lose 4 points in the looks scale. It's also definitely possible for someone to present themselves to others in a way where they can only look at them from the side, as if they're a statue. The girls will only have looked at the guy from his profile before he made his move. Omg stfu you annoying autistic pinhead!

Yes ive seen it. You can have wonky lips weird eye area and a narrow jaw too wide or too narrow face etc. Youre so stupid lol

 

[Blackgymmax]

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Yeah definitely happens. It's possible for people to have such a discrepancy between their frontal and profile in terms of attractivenes, to the point where they can have random girls give them signs of interest when they look at them from the side but as soon as they face them straight on they turn into a different person and lose 4 points in the looks scale. It's also definitely possible for someone to present themselves to others in a way where they can only look at them from the side, as if they're a statue. The girls will only have looked at the guy from his profile before he made his move. Omg stfu you annoying autistic pinhead!

Ive even seen it where the dude had a meh 3 4ths and side and the girl loved him off after seeing a frontal view lol.

 

[aBetterMii]

That’s not an indication, it’s confirmation. And if she’s taking your cock she’s not just interested, she’s submitted.

Learn english you low iq shitskin

Iois are cope, you are clearly living it, but keep coping if you must

 

[Deleted member 30918]

So every time I start noticing that I'm getting IOIs, I start thinking to myself that maybe I do have a chance irl

That maybe I'm actually not so ugly and that my problem is being non NT, so I finally collect courage to approach

And when I finally approach the girl that gave me IOI, it ends in rejection

Whether that be in gym or school, or cold approaching in public


Don't know what to think anymore tbh...

are you sure they are IOIs

 

[Deleted member 31953]

What action did she take that you thought she was sending you an IOI? Usually if she is interested she will try and put herself in your proximity so that YOU can start talking to her.

 

[vanillaicecream]

Yes ive seen it. You can have wonky lips weird eye area and a narrow jaw too wide or too narrow face etc. Youre so stupid lol

Congrats, you just described someone who looks subpar from all angles. None of this makes for any significant discrepancy between frontal and profile, especially when the profile is the purported better looking angle. This difference between frontal and profile is real but mostly applies when the frontal is better than the profile not the other way around. If you look bad from the front the most you can get is a forward grown face from the side which isn't enough to have anyone giving you ioi in public. Again, the main thing here is that it just isn't plausible for a woman to only have looked at a man from his side before he approaches and gets rejected because she thinks his frontal is shit. She would have gotten a look at his frontal before, it's impossible not to. I think you're having trouble even understanding the point I'm trying to make, given your stupidity and autism.

 

[BoredPrince]

are you sure they are IOIs

What action did she take that you thought she was sending you an IOI? Usually if she is interested she will try and put herself in your proximity so that YOU can start talking to her.

Well .org doesn't think it's an IOI unless she fucks you in her bf bed

but the ones I got are usually smiling, turning head around to look at me multiple times, whispering something to her friend then they both look at me...

 

[Deleted member 21735]

if its confunsiong it aint an IOI buddy

 

[Deleted member 19610]

 

[BoredPrince]

if its confunsiong it aint an IOI buddy

An IOI itself isn't confusing, what's confusing is that once I approach I get rejected despite the IOI from her

 

[omarthegoat195]

So every time I start noticing that I'm getting IOIs, I start thinking to myself that maybe I do have a chance irl

That maybe I'm actually not so ugly and that my problem is being non NT, so I finally collect courage to approach

And when I finally approach the girl that gave me IOI, it ends in rejection

Whether that be in gym or school, or cold approaching in public


Don't know what to think anymore tbh...

aye man u might just be overthinking it too much just because a girl looks at u for 2 seconds, smiles at u or says hi to u doesn’t mean they’re interested ik this from personal experience

 

[Deleted member 21735]

An IOI itself isn't confusing, what's confusing is that once I approach I get rejected despite the IOI from her

then its not an IOI!

 

[BoredPrince]

aye man u might just be overthinking it too much just because a girl looks at u for 2 seconds, smiles at u or says hi to u doesn’t mean they’re interested ik this from personal experience

Why would they smile or say hi to a random stranger?

Plus I'm in Europe, people here aren't as extroverted as in the US

 

[BoredPrince]

then its not an IOI!

What would be an IOI in your opinion?

 

[Deleted member 21735]

What would be an IOI in your opinion?

PIV

 

[omarthegoat195]

Why would they smile or say hi to a random stranger?

Plus I'm in Europe, people here aren't as extroverted as in the US

idk ig it’s different in the us but maybe they’re just tryna be nice the only ioi is like her asking for ur socials or something

 

[BoredPrince]

idk ig it’s different in the us but maybe they’re just tryna be nice the only ioi is like her asking for ur socials or something

Her asking for socials is women approaching you, not an IOI

And for that you must be chadlite Minimum, a HTN probably wouldn't get approached but that doesn't mean women don't find him attractive

 

[Deleted member 31953]

Well .org doesn't think it's an IOI unless she fucks you in her bf bed

but the ones I got are usually smiling, turning head around to look at me multiple times, whispering something to her friend then they both look at me...

I’d say those definitely could be IOI’s. I’m not gonna say much more than that though. No one on .org can accurately judge your situation because were not with you when these things are happening. You kind of just have to go with your gut feeling most of the time.

 

[Yliaster]

basement dwellers in the thread legit making it about OP's looks as usual lol "muh side profile"
when its literally just his approach thats fckn dogshit and awkward af

 

[BoredPrince]

basement dwellers in the thread legit making it about OP's looks as usual lol "muh side profile"
when its literally just his approach thats fckn dogshit and awkward af

Something along the lines:

Hey what's your name, I'm (boredprince), I thought you were cute, do you wanna hang out sometimes?

Or some version of that

This is usually my approach, little straight forward sure but I wouldn't call it awkward af

 

[Yliaster]

This is usually my approach, little straight forward sure but I wouldn't call it awkward af

I asked you earlier what it is exactly that you say to these women when you approach but you didn't answer

give me an example.

 

[Deleted member 30918]

Well .org doesn't think it's an IOI unless she fucks you in her bf bed

but the ones I got are usually smiling, turning head around to look at me multiple times, whispering something to her friend then they both look at me...

maybe these women want you to approach them for a confidence boost. truly over for sub chads......

 

[Deleted member 31953]

This is usually my approach, little straight forward sure but I wouldn't call it awkward af

Your approach is to forced and formal. You need to try and ease into the conversation. Comment upon something happening around the two of you or make a joke to lighten the tension.

 

[BoredPrince]

I asked you earlier what it is exactly that you say to these women when you approach but you didn't answer

give me an example.

Something along the lines:

Hey what's your name, I'm (boredprince), I thought you were cute, do you wanna hang out sometimes?

Or some version of that

Can you read?

 

[Deleted member 30552]

Saw girls on tiktok saying “when I see a guy I’m not attracted to ill go up to him and say ‘hey what’s up! How’s your day ” but when I see someone attractive I look like they don’t even exist

If you’re getting approached it means you’re subhuman and they’re not nervous to talk to u

 

[BoredPrince]

Your approach is to forced and formal. You need to try and ease into the conversation. Comment upon something happening around the two of you or make a joke to lighten the tension.

So basically start with some small talk and then ask to hang out

I mean I could but I don't see how that plays a big role whether she rejects me or not

 

[BoredPrince]

Saw girls on tiktok saying “when I see a guy I’m not attracted to ill go up to him and say ‘hey what’s up! How’s your day ” but when I see someone attractive I look like they don’t even exist

If you’re getting approached it means you’re subhuman and they’re not nervous to talk to u

Well I'm not getting approached, just getting IOIs

 

[Deleted member 19294]

basement dwellers in the thread legit making it about OP's looks as usual lol "muh side profile"
when its literally just his approach thats fckn dogshit and awkward af

I think this is the issue if OP is good looking but non-NT. I've had very blatant IOIs where the girl eventually rejects because my approach was very awkward

He could also be misinterpreting IOIs. The best IOI is if the girl eye fucks you for 3+ seconds, everything else is cope besides her approaching and talking to you.

 

[Deleted member 31953]

So basically start with some small talk and then ask to hang out

I mean I could but I don't see how that plays a big role whether she rejects me or not

You just need a way to break the ice. Trust me, if a girl is attracted to you they will be very receptive to your conversation.

 

[BoredPrince]

I think this is the issue if OP is good looking but non-NT. I've had very blatant IOIs where the girl eventually rejects because my approach was very awkward

He could also be misinterpreting IOIs. The best IOI is if the girl eye fucks you for 3+ seconds, everything else is cope besides her approaching and talking to you.

You just need a way to break the ice. Trust me, if a girl is attracted to you they will be very receptive to your conversation.

I guess I could try a few approaches to test this out

 

[New Poster]

Something along the lines:

Hey what's your name, I'm (boredprince), I thought you were cute, do you wanna hang out sometimes?

Or some version of that

That's a pretty weak approach. It doesn't give you much of a shot. You would need gigachad level looks to make this work. At least flirt a bit before you ask for a date.

 

[TITUS]

Maybe you look ok but sound like a fagget.

 

[Blackgymmax]

That's a pretty weak approach. It doesn't give you much of a shot. You would need gigachad level looks to make this work. At least flirt a bit before you ask for a date.

No you dont need gigachad level looks. If she thinks ur cute it works. OP just didnt look cute

 

[Blackgymmax]

I guess I could try a few approaches to test this out

Na bro you just dont look good. Your approach is good and i know it works because ive used it successfully and seen other gl guys work it. This weird indirectbshit is what ugly guys do to jestermax since they dont get girls