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How do you do it, 90% of the girls I’ve been with have been through friend groups or school-adjacent events, I still have a few girls I’m on and off with but idk how to get new ones, and I don’t think dating apps would be good because I’m only 5’9, I was thinking of cold approach but I lowkey have social anxiety and am only hmtn, genuinely need some advice

(I just graduated) and not gonna go to college for a year or two
 
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How do you do it, 90% of the girls I’ve been with have been through friend groups or school-adjacent events, I still have a few girls I’m on and off with but idk how to get new ones, and I don’t think dating apps would be good because I’m only 5’9, I was thinking of cold approach but I lowkey have social anxiety and am only hmtn, genuinely need some advice
You go to college, and get lucky. That’s it really. You could try cold approaching but I just don’t think it’s a good idea these days
 
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You go to college, and get lucky. That’s it really. You could try cold approaching but I just don’t think it’s a good idea these days
Yeah, I’m going to a 2-year then planning to transfer, what do you think of community colleges?
 
Yeah, I’m going to a 2-year then planning to transfer, what do you think of community colleges?
It’s a good idea, and that’s your best option if you wanna get anything as a normie guy
 
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It’s a good idea, and that’s your best option if you wanna get anything as a normie guy
I lowkey money Mog tho, I make like 55k a year which is almost top 1% for my age I’m pretty sure
 
I lowkey money Mog tho, I make like 55k a year which is almost top 1% for my age I’m pretty sure
very impressive my guy. But if you wanna find a women that actually likes you like that do not tell her you make 55k a year, tell her your some broke bum.
 
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Go on a cruise, easiest way to get buns
 
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How do you do it, 90% of the girls I’ve been with have been through friend groups or school-adjacent events, I still have a few girls I’m on and off with but idk how to get new ones, and I don’t think dating apps would be good because I’m only 5’9, I was thinking of cold approach but I lowkey have social anxiety and am only hmtn, genuinely need some advice

(I just graduated) and not gonna go to college for a year or two
probably not hmtn most people overestimate
 
How do you do it, 90% of the girls I’ve been with have been through friend groups or school-adjacent events, I still have a few girls I’m on and off with but idk how to get new ones, and I don’t think dating apps would be good because I’m only 5’9, I was thinking of cold approach but I lowkey have social anxiety and am only hmtn, genuinely need some advice

(I just graduated) and not gonna go to college for a year or two
it also depends what ur looking for: u could go to clubs or bars with a fake id, you can get laid pretty easily but its not great for long term relationships.
 
why? to put yourself at a disadvantage?

you honestly cant waste any time rn

gapyearcels 🤦
Bro no not gap year, I’m going to a 2 year because I only had like a 3.7gpa and im tryna go to a top 10 school, plus it saves money
 
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why? to put yourself at a disadvantage?

you honestly cant waste any time rn

gapyearcels 🤦
Gap year isn’t bad genius it’s bad for most people bc they’re don’t do shit all day
 
How do you do it, 90% of the girls I’ve been with have been through friend groups or school-adjacent events, I still have a few girls I’m on and off with but idk how to get new ones, and I don’t think dating apps would be good because I’m only 5’9, I was thinking of cold approach but I lowkey have social anxiety and am only hmtn, genuinely need some advice

(I just graduated) and not gonna go to college for a year or two
don't go to college
 
probably not hmtn most people overestimate
Bro I got rated Hhtn on here before, and lhtn most other times, trust me if anything I’m underestimating
IMG 6763
 
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I have seen success with many of my friends with dating apps, usually though they have to pay for whatever boost or enhanced visibility you need for success on tinder and hinge and others. How did you meet women in the past?
 
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I have seen success with many of my friends with dating apps, usually though they have to pay for whatever boost or enhanced visibility you need for success on tinder and hinge and others. How did you meet women in the past?
It’s hard for me to be social with new people so usually I just relied on my friends to get me in on 2 mans and like small hangouts with an equal amount of guys and girls, basically just straight warm approaching,

about a year ago though, me and my friends met a few girls at an ig party and idk why but they hopped in the car with us and we just started hanging out from there, but mainly warm approach
 
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go to college or get a job are the best options
 
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Got a job already, but on a side note bro, your pfp is cracking me up :lul:
Where? Most of my friends back in the day got tail from pizza joints, just a constant rotating door of girls, gotta watch out for JB though, although that didn't stop my friends
 
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It’s hard for me to be social with new people so usually I just relied on my friends to get me in on 2 mans and like small hangouts with an equal amount of guys and girls, basically just straight warm approaching,

about a year ago though, me and my friends met a few girls at an ig party and idk why but they hopped in the car with us and we just started hanging out from there, but mainly warm approach
I think meeting women through your friends and warm approaching is still the most reliable method. Drinking and drugs always aid in the process. But every year the cultural screws tighten a little more and in the future it will be unacceptable to engage with women who you know or are friends with in a romantic/sexual way. In general dating apps leave women too much room to cancel, ghost, disappear etc. so they are a very big time and money sink that doesn't usually work out.
 
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Where? Most of my friends back in the day got tail from pizza joints, just a constant rotating door of girls, gotta watch out for JB though, although that didn't stop my friends
I work at a grocery store and the closest person to my age is 5 years older than me and there are only like 2 girls I’d even consider doing
 
I work at a grocery store and the closest person to my age is 5 years older than me and there are only like 2 girls I’d even consider doing
if you want butt try a resturant or pizza joint
 
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I think meeting women through your friends and warm approaching is still the most reliable method. Drinking and drugs always aid in the process. But every year the cultural screws tighten a little more and in the future it will be unacceptable to engage with women who you know or are friends with in a romantic/sexual way. In general dating apps leave women too much room to cancel, ghost, disappear etc. so they are a very big time and money sink that doesn't usually work out.
Yeah I was thinking that but the friends I would get bitches with are all leaving to college and i only have like one friend who would even be capable of attracting a girl 😭, do you think maybe joining like some club or something like that would be a good idea?
 
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Gap year isn’t bad genius it’s bad for most people bc they’re don’t do shit all day
what are you supposed to do in a gap year

i’ve never ever seen a successful gap year
 
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Bro no not gap year, I’m going to a 2 year because I only had like a 3.7gpa and im tryna go to a top 10 school, plus it saves money
smart dude

2 year college/community college is still a college tho
 
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smart dude

2 year college/community college is still a college tho
Yeah but like I feel like a lot of the people are gonna be outside my age bracket
 
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