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hello
As many of you know
I’m a 5’3 Dravidian bvll
But I’m a giga PUA with 3953 cold approaches on average monthly.
Here’s my guide
oh. Actually
Before I start
Please note you must approach the highest tier of Becky or trixie, Stacy if you may.
And you have to be overweight, it mogs.
Preferably Norwood 2+
And finally must wear glasses.
Let’s begin
• The "bait and switch" - I've seen this used upon sending a group photo. The doomed man will say, " you look x, but she looks hotter / cuter etc." The endgame of this is to try to hook you onto the man's approval. "Oh well she's actually xyz and I'm abc" etc.
• Negging - Deliberate backhanded compliment, it will undermine your confidence.
• Constantly letting go - They want women to chase them (healthy communication is now "chasing") so they're frequently giving you the silent treatment, blocking, etc. Men encourage each other to feel NO GUILT about treating women this way.
• Go slow - This is one where men tell on themselves, they can't actually go that slow but they will for the first few dates and then get impatient.
• Live in the moment - LVM / NVM believe women can't think long-term. So they emphasize activities that are very "present" and "in the moment". You are gelling together really great on a first date, he's very with it and present, and then he's ghosting? Yep. Classic PUA.
• Promote loyalty - LVM / NVM will attempt to promote loyalty because they know it makes women feel special. So lovebombing comes into play, "marry me", "I deleted the apps for you" etc.
• Lovebombing - FDS has great posts about lovebombing and they can be found by searching in the search bar.
• Lowkey on social media - LVM/ NVM have stalker/burner accounts. They avoid an actual account because they know they'd get blasted for their shitty behavior.
• Seeking compatibility - LVM/NVM aren't seeking compatibility for marriage. They are seeking compatibility for a hookup. This means they will lie, avoid, obscure, etc. to get into your pants. So when he's asking you questions to test compatibility, is he testing short-term compatibility, or long-term?
• Go one girl at a time - They literally move from one to the next. No thinking between, no reflection, no "am I a good person? Am I hurting my community? Am I hurting the people around me?" If you ask him about his dating timeline, he'll likely be nervous because he knows he literally took a week to fixate on his next victim without caring about the damage done before. Or he'll lie.
• Changing tastes - One second they like blondes, the next brunettes. He said he liked milk in his coffee, the next time you see him he's drinking it black. They don't even know what they like and are so fucked from the porn impact on dopamine receptors they're pretty much past saving.
• Physical boundary invasion - if he can invade your physical boundaries, he will try to break other boundaries as well. He will stand too close, grab your hand, shoulder, waist, etc. He will sit on the same side of the table as you. Also a sad attempt to foster false intimacy. (added)
• 3 date speed up - Many men know about the age old, non FDS "3 date rule". Morons will try to put 3 dates in 1 to speed up the time to sex. They shoot themselves in the foot for doing this because if they get along with a woman for hours on end they should probably see her long-term but nope, LVM / NVM are destined for a circle of hell. (added)
• Trauma reminders - Men will make light of / joke about trauma you tell them in your vulnerable state, in an attempt to gain control over you. Again, the main point of PUA is manipulation & control. Not love, not affection, not respect. They want control over you because the only thing they are is an ego. (added)
• Belief in Social Transactions - LVM / NVM believe everything is transactional. "Women only like money ergo I have to be rich to get any women". The concepts of commitment, faith, loyalty as base values for HVW are totally foreign to them. (added)
• Compliance Tests - "Get me that drink of water" turns into "Pick up after me 24/7 and don't say shit". An escalating series that you would miss if it didn't start small. (added)
• False Time Restraints - "You HAVE TO DO xyz because I am going out of town today!!" It's false and meant to trigger your sense of emergency and responsibility so he can get what he wants. (added)
As many of you know
I’m a 5’3 Dravidian bvll
But I’m a giga PUA with 3953 cold approaches on average monthly.
Here’s my guide
oh. Actually
Before I start
Please note you must approach the highest tier of Becky or trixie, Stacy if you may.
And you have to be overweight, it mogs.
Preferably Norwood 2+
And finally must wear glasses.
Let’s begin
• The "bait and switch" - I've seen this used upon sending a group photo. The doomed man will say, " you look x, but she looks hotter / cuter etc." The endgame of this is to try to hook you onto the man's approval. "Oh well she's actually xyz and I'm abc" etc.
• Negging - Deliberate backhanded compliment, it will undermine your confidence.
• Constantly letting go - They want women to chase them (healthy communication is now "chasing") so they're frequently giving you the silent treatment, blocking, etc. Men encourage each other to feel NO GUILT about treating women this way.
• Go slow - This is one where men tell on themselves, they can't actually go that slow but they will for the first few dates and then get impatient.
• Live in the moment - LVM / NVM believe women can't think long-term. So they emphasize activities that are very "present" and "in the moment". You are gelling together really great on a first date, he's very with it and present, and then he's ghosting? Yep. Classic PUA.
• Promote loyalty - LVM / NVM will attempt to promote loyalty because they know it makes women feel special. So lovebombing comes into play, "marry me", "I deleted the apps for you" etc.
• Lovebombing - FDS has great posts about lovebombing and they can be found by searching in the search bar.
• Lowkey on social media - LVM/ NVM have stalker/burner accounts. They avoid an actual account because they know they'd get blasted for their shitty behavior.
• Seeking compatibility - LVM/NVM aren't seeking compatibility for marriage. They are seeking compatibility for a hookup. This means they will lie, avoid, obscure, etc. to get into your pants. So when he's asking you questions to test compatibility, is he testing short-term compatibility, or long-term?
• Go one girl at a time - They literally move from one to the next. No thinking between, no reflection, no "am I a good person? Am I hurting my community? Am I hurting the people around me?" If you ask him about his dating timeline, he'll likely be nervous because he knows he literally took a week to fixate on his next victim without caring about the damage done before. Or he'll lie.
• Changing tastes - One second they like blondes, the next brunettes. He said he liked milk in his coffee, the next time you see him he's drinking it black. They don't even know what they like and are so fucked from the porn impact on dopamine receptors they're pretty much past saving.
• Physical boundary invasion - if he can invade your physical boundaries, he will try to break other boundaries as well. He will stand too close, grab your hand, shoulder, waist, etc. He will sit on the same side of the table as you. Also a sad attempt to foster false intimacy. (added)
• 3 date speed up - Many men know about the age old, non FDS "3 date rule". Morons will try to put 3 dates in 1 to speed up the time to sex. They shoot themselves in the foot for doing this because if they get along with a woman for hours on end they should probably see her long-term but nope, LVM / NVM are destined for a circle of hell. (added)
• Trauma reminders - Men will make light of / joke about trauma you tell them in your vulnerable state, in an attempt to gain control over you. Again, the main point of PUA is manipulation & control. Not love, not affection, not respect. They want control over you because the only thing they are is an ego. (added)
• Belief in Social Transactions - LVM / NVM believe everything is transactional. "Women only like money ergo I have to be rich to get any women". The concepts of commitment, faith, loyalty as base values for HVW are totally foreign to them. (added)
• Compliance Tests - "Get me that drink of water" turns into "Pick up after me 24/7 and don't say shit". An escalating series that you would miss if it didn't start small. (added)
• False Time Restraints - "You HAVE TO DO xyz because I am going out of town today!!" It's false and meant to trigger your sense of emergency and responsibility so he can get what he wants. (added)
