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BWC_virgin
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I always thought that if a girl had an excuse not to hang out with you it was 95% chance she just didn’t want to. I have found out that at least online this is FALSE.
Pretty much every time I have met a girl on Snapchat and asked to hangout it’s allways difficult and they say things like
“My dad is here tho he will see you”
“I have to do _____”
“Idk where we could hangout tho”
“I don’t think it would work”
Ets…
And generally they don’t put any effort into it
I thought this meant they didn’t like me because obviously any woman would walk 100 miles In the desert for chad But I realize that’s not how it is and it’s also a interesting bit of female phycology I don’t want to explain rn
Even tho the girls didn’t put any effort into meeting up and I had to figure it all out like ask a million questions to see what might work “can I come to your house” “could I come in the window” “what day and time might work” ets… once I got there they were very enthusiastic about it and obviously wanted to see me (they let me come to there bedroom without ever meeting them before)
Even after we have met up more than once they still wait for you to try to hangout with them rather than planning it themselves. Even if they REALLY DO want to see you.
TLDR:woman will put 0 effort into planning a hangout even if they really want to see you for some reason and give dumb excuses that they half expect you to convince them against. Most people might see this as rejection but even after this behavior it was clear they really did want to see me.
Pretty much every time I have met a girl on Snapchat and asked to hangout it’s allways difficult and they say things like
“My dad is here tho he will see you”
“I have to do _____”
“Idk where we could hangout tho”
“I don’t think it would work”
Ets…
And generally they don’t put any effort into it
I thought this meant they didn’t like me because obviously any woman would walk 100 miles In the desert for chad But I realize that’s not how it is and it’s also a interesting bit of female phycology I don’t want to explain rn
Even tho the girls didn’t put any effort into meeting up and I had to figure it all out like ask a million questions to see what might work “can I come to your house” “could I come in the window” “what day and time might work” ets… once I got there they were very enthusiastic about it and obviously wanted to see me (they let me come to there bedroom without ever meeting them before)
Even after we have met up more than once they still wait for you to try to hangout with them rather than planning it themselves. Even if they REALLY DO want to see you.
TLDR:woman will put 0 effort into planning a hangout even if they really want to see you for some reason and give dumb excuses that they half expect you to convince them against. Most people might see this as rejection but even after this behavior it was clear they really did want to see me.