Girl Hands Me Her Number, Then Becomes Unattracted

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HTB literally gives me this at the coffee shop and I somehow managed to fuck it up in my following interactions with her :lul::lul::lul:. Reminder to work on being NT because you'll never ascend as a sub 8 without being properly socialized. Fuck man I'll never get a girlfriend :feelswhy::lul:
 
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what did u do nigga
 
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HTB literally gives me this at the coffee shop and I somehow managed to fuck it up in my following interactions with her :lul::lul::lul:. Reminder to work on being NT because you'll never ascend as a sub 8 without being properly socialized. Fuck man I'll never get a girlfriend :feelswhy::lul:
What did you do to fuck it up? I have the same problem where women are initially attracted but lose interest after I open my mouth :feelsrope:
 
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what did u do nigga
Just tried to have a conversation, I could sense she was expecting me to be more charismatic. Talked to her on 3 separate occasions until she stopped showing up :lul:
 
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Fuck it is over if this doesn't happen to you. Even if I somehow get a girl by making the first move it won't make me nearly as happy as a girl approaching first like this... I don't even wanna approach until something like this happens to me, this is major surgery-fuel.
 
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What did you do to fuck it up? I have the same problem where women are initially attracted but lose interest after I open my mouth :feelsrope:
Are you me? I guess I just wasn't NT enough idk. Girls expect GL people to be charismatic, and when you don't fit that mold they lose interest. That's me theory at least. Literally every interaction with women has been immense interest at first followed by loss of interest once I start talking, even when I mog the girl :lul::lul::lul:
 
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Fuck it is over if this doesn't happen to you. Even if I somehow get a girl by making the first move it won't make me nearly as happy as a girl approaching first like this... I don't even wanna approach until something like this happens to me, this is major surgery-fuel.
I'd say it's pretty rare if she's alone, but if she's with her friends then one of them might say something to signal she likes you. I'm sure it happens more often to better looking guys than me though.
 
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You stopped jutting your jaw, squinting and sucking your cheeks?
 
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Just tried to have a conversation, I could sense she was expecting me to be more charismatic. Talked to her on 3 separate occasions until she stopped showing up :lul:
Did you try to escalate by flirting or asking her out? I have a lot trouble with this. I act super serious for some reason and I think they get turned off by it
Are you me? I guess I just wasn't NT enough idk. Girls expect GL people to be charismatic, and when you don't fit that mold they lose interest. That's me theory at least. Literally every interaction with women has been immense interest at first followed by loss of interest once I start talking, even when I mog the girl :lul::lul::lul:
Yeah I recently had a girl try to initiate conversations with me multiple times but I responded with autistic, low energy one word replies. I think she gave up because she thought I wasn't interested :lul:
 
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Did you try to escalate by flirting or asking her out? I have a lot trouble with this. I act super serious for some reason and I think they get turned off by it
I asked her out over text to hang out, and she said that day would work probably (her response was more excited though with exclamation points so I think she was actually down at the time). I told her to lmk for sure, but after another irl interaction she never did :feelswah:. I figured if I was Gandy she would lmk so I didn't bother texting again.
And yeah it's super hard to be flirty with people, I feel like there's a block that I can't overcome that makes me come off as too serious
 
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you talk to her 3 time and hasnt bring her home?
 
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I asked her out over text to hang out, and she said that day would work probably (her response was more excited though with exclamation points so I think she was actually down at the time). I told her to lmk for sure, but after another irl interaction she never did :feelswah:. I figured if I was Gandy she would lmk so I didn't bother texting again.
And yeah it's super hard to be flirty with people, I feel like there's a block that I can't overcome that makes me come off as too serious
Women are fickle like that. Hard to say what went wrong there
 
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HTB literally gives me this at the coffee shop and I somehow managed to fuck it up in my following interactions with her :lul::lul::lul:. Reminder to work on being NT because you'll never ascend as a sub 8 without being properly socialized. Fuck man I'll never get a girlfriend :feelswhy::lul:
there's for sure a personality component

like, there's an attractive guy that busses tables... at this side job I do. rich area, tons of women. he attracts women, he'll sit there and talk about how Hitler wasn't that bad

that's not a normal fucking thing to say
 
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I understand you. I was flirting with a girl irl then I asked her for coffe from whatsap. Her response was “😊 of course we can” then she ghosted me :feelsgood:
 
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HTB literally gives me this at the coffee shop and I somehow managed to fuck it up in my following interactions with her :lul::lul::lul:. Reminder to work on being NT because you'll never ascend as a sub 8 without being properly socialized. Fuck man I'll never get a girlfriend :feelswhy::lul:
U are optimist even as a Chad u need to be a yes life and enjoy this lifestyle because she has tons of opportunities and all her world is based on the yes life activities thing
 
Was you giving her one word replies
 
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HTB literally gives me this at the coffee shop and I somehow managed to fuck it up in my following interactions with her :lul::lul::lul:. Reminder to work on being NT because you'll never ascend as a sub 8 without being properly socialized. Fuck man I'll never get a girlfriend :feelswhy::lul:
just be clear headed
 
just give her a flirty look then go back to what u were doing:bluepill:
 
i've had this happen to me two times now, even when i was just chillin with my mom foids staring at me at starbucks JFL
 
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she clearly didn't like you enough and/or she found someone better it's as simple as that
 
its really hard when u get approached and eye fucked 24 7 thats why i stopped going out
 
Just tried to have a conversation, I could sense she was expecting me to be more charismatic. Talked to her on 3 separate occasions until she stopped showing up :lul:
Nt pill is unerrated here
 
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“But socials skill don’t matter” :soy: @looksmaxxer234
 
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she clearly didn't like you enough and/or she found someone better it's as simple as that
This. It wasn’t something you said or didn’t say. With enough life experience, and enough lays with girl you will realize this fundamental truth one day.
 

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