Girl I’m going on a date with Saturday hasn’t replied for 15 hours on Snapchat and now I’m freaking out

[DoctorLooksmax]

Every hour that goes by my cortisol is raised higher and higher

 

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relax bro.

but usually you should meet withhin 2 days tbh

 

[Deleted member 7098]

She flaked on you, isn‘t that normal? Why stress it

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

relax bro.

but usually you should meet withhin 2 days tbh

relax bro.

but usually you should meet withhin 2 days tbh

It’s our second date and this was the day we were both free- she wanted to do Wednesday but I had other plans

 

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It’s our second date and this was the day we were both free- she wanted to do Wednesday but I had other plans

what did u even wrote her? if she doesn't respond u can ask on friday if the date is still set or not.

 

[Yliaster]

She wanted to do Wednesday but I had other plans

probably this lol

you're most likely done tbh

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

what did u even wrote her? if she doesn't respond u can ask on friday if the date is still set or not.

Her 13:00 yesterday
Well I knew/trusted you’d get home okay last time we met can imagine it’s a nice place to be - always forget we have ***** (a place) station right near us. But yeah students tend to stick to **** and **** areas

Me 18:00 yesterday
Yeah it’s not too far. I’ve actually gone out with work friends in ***** tonight for drinks it’s pretty cool. Have you ever heard of **** it’s pretty cool would be a good spot in summer maybe we can check it out some time


Then she hasn’t replied since- normally she replied much quicker than I do so this is out of character for her

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

probably this lol

you're most likely done tbh

What? Why is it over?

 

[Yliaster]

What? Why is it over?

just thinking from a female's pov,she probably think you lied about having plans and took it as rejection

 

[AlexBrown84]

Haha

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

just thinking from a female's pov,she probably think you lied about having plans and took it as rejection

But it was our second date not first and we already kissed and made out loads

 

[Yliaster]

But it was our second date not first and we already kissed and made out loads

Idk 15 hours is long af and girls are always with their phones 24/7

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Idk 15 hours is long af and girls are always with their phones 24/7

Well it includes the night obviously - I normally take like 6 hours to reply to her on average if it’s daytime

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

No reply still - however her snap score remains stable which provides me with some relief

 

[Merćer]

Low T trait

 

[onnysk]

She’s flaking

 

[traveler]

she taking a long nap

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

She’s flaking

She’s probably not tbh cos then she’d just air me after date 1

 

[HatefulMan™]

I don’t think you’re going to be going on a date boss

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I don’t think you’re going to be going on a date boss

If I cream pie her Saturday it’ll be the best day of my life

 

[onnysk]

Her 13:00 yesterday
Well I knew/trusted you’d get home okay last time we met can imagine it’s a nice place to be - always forget we have ***** (a place) station right near us. But yeah students tend to stick to **** and **** areas

Me 18:00 yesterday
Yeah it’s not too far. I’ve actually gone out with work friends in ***** tonight for drinks it’s pretty cool. Have you ever heard of **** it’s pretty cool would be a good spot in summer maybe we can check it out some time


Then she hasn’t replied since- normally she replied much quicker than I do so this is out of character for her

Lol
She went on tinder date there with another guy

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Lol
She went on tinder date there with another guy

Why would she have done that when we’ve already got plans - she would’ve just not made plans with me - only if she doesn’t reply by tonight I’ll really panic

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

maybe she’s giving me a taste of my own medicine for taking long t reply to her

 

[Deleted member 16944]

You're not going out with her then. In 99% of cases if she leaves you on read like that it's over. Move on

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You're not going out with her then. In 99% of cases if she leaves you on read like that it's over. Move on

It’s not on read she hasn’t opened it moron - I also take a whole to respond to her often

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Her snap score remains steady- not quite time for the noose yet

 

[onnysk]

Why would she have done that when we’ve already got plans - she would’ve just not made plans with me - only if she doesn’t reply by tonight I’ll really panic

lots of girls on dating apps make plans with several guys

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

lots of girls on dating apps make plans with several guys

Rare once you’ve already met and been talking for several weeks to just make a plan as randomly stop replying - don’t think she’d do that

 

[onnysk]

Rare once you’ve already met and been talking for several weeks to just make a plan as randomly stop replying - don’t think she’d do that

i'm just saying she's talking to several guys and has probably been on a few dates already just like anyone else with options on dating apps

 

[koalendo]

maybe she’s giving me a taste of my own medicine for taking long t reply to her

It's the second date and you're already taking too much time to reply to her messages? I wouldn't blame her if she ghosted you

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

It's the second date and you're already taking too much time to reply to her messages? I wouldn't blame her if she ghosted you

Well what’s too lo my to reply?

I normally message her like 2-3 times a day, I don’t like texting non stop it’s a drag

 

[metagross]

It's over. If something like this happens, it usually means she has lost interest.
I can't tell you why. No one really knows why women do that. Sometimes girls just suddenly lose interest for seemingly no reason. It is what it is. I would look for other girls.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

It's over. If something like this happens, it usually means she has lost interest.
I can't tell you why. No one really knows why women do that. Sometimes girls just suddenly lose interest for seemingly no reason. It is what it is. I would look for other girls.

Just because she took some time to reply?

Have you never taken a while to reply to a girls text lol?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Her Snapchat score hasn’t changed btw

 

[cvzvvc]

You'll drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out. Just accept you'll never get an answer

Rule of thumb = any deviation from normal communication/behavior = change in her interest levels for you. Whether that's a temporary increase or decrease in interest, only time will tell. Go talk to other women, you're likely one out of 5-10 guys she's engaging

 

[stamaster21]

just thinking from a female's pov,she probably think you lied about having plans and took it as rejection

she thinks he was out fucking other women.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You'll drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out. Just accept you'll never get an answer

Rule of thumb = any deviation from normal communication/behavior = change in her interest levels for you. Whether that's a temporary increase or decrease in interest, only time will tell. Go talk to other women, you're likely one out of 5-10 guys she's engaging

I doubt it - people haven’t got te time to date 5-10 guys

 

[DrTony]

It is done. Pack it up. She doesn’t like you enough (she was lukewarm to begin with) and another guy potentially caught her interest or she is just not feeling it . You will not see her on Saturday and you will not smash. Save your time.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

It is done. Pack it up. She doesn’t like you enough (she was lukewarm to begin with) and another guy potentially caught her interest or she is just not feeling it . You will not see her on Saturday and you will not smash. Save your time.

I will prove the doubters wrong !

I am 90% sure she will reply

 

[cvzvvc]

I doubt it - people haven’t got te time to date 5-10 guys

Not date lol... Talking to, including orbiters, actual dudes she's fucking, and then guys like you who are in no man's land. Sorry.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Not date lol... Talking to, including orbiters, actual dudes she's fucking, and then guys like you who are in no man's land. Sorry.

I’m not an orbiter I’ve made out with her

 

[DrTony]

Not date lol... Talking to, including orbiters, actual dudes she's fucking, and then guys like you who are in no man's land. Sorry.

True but the real real reason is she just didn’t like him enough. She knows a second date might lead to sex and she is just not feeling it. So she decided to slow fade. He did nothing wrong. Making out means nothing. Wtf how old are you? 16?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

True but the real real reason is she just didn’t like him enough. She knows a second date might lead to sex and she is just not feeling it. So she decided to slow fade. He did nothing wrong. Making out means nothing. Wtf how old are you? 16?

It’s not a slow fade tho lol she’s really keen to meet again

 

[onnysk]

Either she's been super busy (unlikely)

Or you're not her first choice

Or some Chad came back in her life


she could also be not in the mood to go out or talk to anyone, happens tbf

I think you should just stop thinking and do something else and when she replies great

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Either she's been super busy (unlikely)

Or you're not her first choice

Or some Chad came back in her life


she could also be not in the mood to go out or talk to anyone, happens tbf

I think you should just stop thinking and do something else and when she replies great

But I’m super into her and sometimes I take ages to reply just cos I cba

 

[onnysk]

But I’m super into her and sometimes I take ages to reply just cos I cba

She’s into u just doesn’t want to seem easy

 

[Deleted member 16944]

It’s not on read she hasn’t opened it moron - I also take a whole to respond to her often

you're the one who made the thread crying. Either way she's ignoring you. JFL

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

She replied JFL at you pessimisticels

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

so she replied saying

oh thats so nice I saw the pictures it looks so beautiful over there. How comes youre over that way for drinks?


I replied saying its because thats where my office is (which I already told her and she forgot which is suifuel)

I didnt wrtie i salty oh you forgot where my office is hehe I just said thats where I work

hopefully she comes back and says oh silly me I do remember now I jsut forgot


Boyos im so excited for our date- I will do no fap from now until then so hopefully the next nut i bust is inside her sweet pussy. I

 

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so she replied saying

oh thats so nice I saw the pictures it looks so beautiful over there. How comes youre over that way for drinks?


I replied saying its because thats where my office is (which I already told her and she forgot which is suifuel)

I didnt wrtie i salty oh you forgot where my office is hehe I just said thats where I work

hopefully she comes back and says oh silly me I do remember now I jsut forgot


Boyos im so excited for our date- I will do no fap from now until then so hopefully the next nut i bust is inside her sweet pussy. I

gl bro. im also trying to set a date with a 18yo blonde rn on WhatsApp. i said lets meet after her workout on Saturday. she said she will be sweating after working out... so its a no I guess. over.