Girl invited me to prom, doesn't want to talk to me?

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This is a MTB. She invited me to prom a little back and I tried messaging her and she replied once and then didn't at all for 2 days. I see her in real life she doesn't even look at me. I don't get it? Why would she invite me? I asked her if she still wanted she said yes. What's the purpose? Maybe someone made her ask me cuz they felt bad for me. Weird, I had someone else I could have went with anyways even tho I'm LTN. What do you guys think? I don't really wanna go with her anymore, why would she treat me like this? I asked an innocent question, even Stacies would answer to me. Makes no sense.
 
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Open na noor
 
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This is a MTB. She invited me to prom a little back and I tried messaging her and she replied once and then didn't at all for 2 days. I see her in real life she doesn't even look at me. I don't get it? Why would she invite me? I asked her if she still wanted she said yes. What's the purpose? Maybe someone made her ask me cuz they felt bad for me. Weird, I had someone else I could have went with anyways even tho I'm LTN. What do you guys think? I don't really wanna go with her anymore, why would she treat me like this? I asked an innocent question, even Stacies would answer to me. Makes no sense.
Ahaha a girl did this to me literally today… it has nothing to do with prob but this girl was simping for me etc was going well then bamn leave me on delivered for 2 days then she opens it and leaves me on read.

Why do they do this?

I dunno, but I’ll tell you now to NOT GAF and just do you, when you next see her just speak 2 her like nothing happened, the trick I feel is to act as if you aren’t bothered by her passive aggressiveness
 
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I dunno, but I’ll tell you now to NOT GAF and just do you, when you next see her just speak 2 her like nothing happened, the trick I feel is to act as if you aren’t bothered by her passive aggressiveness
Yh. Unfortunately. Best course
 
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You are chad thats why.
 
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You are chad thats why.
yeah she probably just too shy to asnwer am i right. cause i am such a chad, so she is blushing too much reading my text and shaking while writing it. Hell yeah!!!
 
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brutal. I should have talked to her while she was intially "interested".
Nope cos she could have still flaked and just gone AWALL on you. Women are fickle. I used to be like you asking myself “why” and shit like “if only” but the truth is women are annoying retarded cunts. That’s it, this is why as a man you should have 12 girls on your constant rotation, and it’s the only advice that I’ll take from an redpiller that I can say is true because “if you are with one girl, she will let you down, so have many so when one lets you down you have others to fill her place”
 
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Sounds like she doesn't have anyone to go with except you
 
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Nope cos she could have still flaked and just gone AWALL on you. Women are fickle. I used to be like you asking myself “why” and shit like “if only” but the truth is women are annoying retarded cunts. That’s it, this is why as a man you should have 12 girls on your constant rotation, and it’s the only advice that I’ll take from an redpiller that I can say is true because “if you are with one girl, she will let you down, so have many so when one lets you down you have others to fill her place”
great advice. this shit still hurts my feelings tho. I just don't understand it, I've gotten messages from girls that I find ugly before and didn't like them at all but still responded to simply friendly conversation and not ignore them. What a bitch really, she seemed like a good girl at first. I think it's too late to get someone else for prom tho so I'm fucked, I really don't wanna go with her anymore. What should I do?
 
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Sounds like she doesn't have anyone to go with except you
nah shes constantly texting on her phone at school she just has to pick someone from the school its the rules JFL. but from the school yeah ig she doesnt.
 
Maybe she can't find a date in time and you're her best option. She doesn't want to look alone in front of her friends so you're basically a prop. To be considered her best option isn't a bad thing though, means you aren't Chad but you're at least decent looking.
 
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Maybe she can't find a date in time and you're her best option. She doesn't want to look alone in front of her friends so you're basically a prop. To be considered her best option isn't a bad thing though, means you aren't Chad but you're at least decent looking.
I'm 6'2 that's it I just tower over the other guys. The guys in my school are ugly tho and even as a LTN i mog a lot.
 
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This is a MTB. She invited me to prom a little back and I tried messaging her and she replied once and then didn't at all for 2 days. I see her in real life she doesn't even look at me. I don't get it? Why would she invite me? I asked her if she still wanted she said yes. What's the purpose? Maybe someone made her ask me cuz they felt bad for me. Weird, I had someone else I could have went with anyways even tho I'm LTN. What do you guys think? I don't really wanna go with her anymore, why would she treat me like this? I asked an innocent question, even Stacies would answer to me. Makes no sense.
when I dont replay to someone:

Is because I find it too much work and ur not interested in romántica way.

Youre upset with the person

Youre playing with the person

Now its only 2 days one thing incident. After a few days u can have conclusive answer. I dont know even my crush I ignored for 2 days but I was just nerveous and we were on bad terms. But then I crawled like a dog tho . Never permanent.

I understand u dont want to go to the event with someone whos doing this.

I wouldnt know what to say tbh... is it too late to say that you have the impression that it seems like its not the best idea to go together and you find someone else. And ask if she can also find someone else too. Here ud gauge reaction.
 
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great advice. this shit still hurts my feelings tho. I just don't understand it, I've gotten messages from girls that I find ugly before and didn't like them at all but still responded to simply friendly conversation and not ignore them. What a bitch really, she seemed like a good girl at first. I think it's too late to get someone else for prom tho so I'm fucked, I really don't wanna go with her anymore. What should I do?
I know… I’m currently depressed over the stacylite who did this 2 me today and a few days ago she flaked on us meeting… I’m still hurt by this, girls are soulless creatures they are so heartless they will play and tug at men’s emotions. This is why I belive men of the past were based making Eve the dumb whore who are the apple and saying “Hell is mostly full of women”

I dunno what you should do but I can say this, either A: do what I said and jsut act like your not phased by it, this will make her think your prob daughter after or see through her shittest.

B, confront her and establish ground rules but don’t be too harsh be like “hey you ain’t been messaging back b what’s going on?” Or “wazzup where have u been bb ?”

C count your losses and move on and grab a new girl to replace her cos she takin the piss (this is the one I usually go for but for some girls like this stscylite I find myself unable to do so because we had such strong chemistry I liked her a lot so ima call her on the weekend even though she left me on read and ignored me yes I’m a simp idc)
 
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when I dont replay to someone:

Is because I find it too much work and ur not interested in romántica way.

Youre upset with the person

Youre playing with the person

Now its only 2 days one thing incident. After a few days u can have conclusive answer. I dont know even my crush I ignored for 2 days but I was just nerveous and we were on bad terms. But then I crawled like a dog tho . Never permanent.

I understand u dont want to go to the event with someone whos doing this.

I wouldnt know what to say tbh... is it too late to say that you have the impression that it seems like it’s not the best idea to go together and you find someone else. And ask if she can also find someone else too. Here ud gauge reaction.
i used to say this but remember, women are not men they don’t think like us brother, a girl can wake up on her period and her outlook will change. So it’s more of an sporratic dice roll
 
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when I dont replay to someone:

Is because I find it too much work and ur not interested in romántica way.

Youre upset with the person

Youre playing with the person

Now its only 2 days one thing incident. After a few days u can have conclusive answer. I dont know even my crush I ignored for 2 days but I was just nerveous and we were on bad terms. But then I crawled like a dog tho . Never permanent.

I understand u dont want to go to the event with someone whos doing this.

I wouldnt know what to say tbh... is it too late to say that you have the impression that it seems like its not the best idea to go together and you find someone else. And ask if she can also find someone else too. Here ud gauge reaction.
I just wanted to make friends with her so it's not awkward at prom but she avoids me extremely much. It's like she won't even look at me, constantly turns around when she sees me. I'd rather not go at all at this point, I never wanted to rizz her up, I just accepted her promposal.
 
I dunno what you should do but I can say this, either A: do what I said and jsut act like your not phased by it, this will make her think your prob daughter after or see through her shittest.

B, confront her and establish ground rules but don’t be too harsh be like “hey you ain’t been messaging back b what’s going on?” Or “wazzup where have u been bb ?”

C count your losses and move on and grab a new girl to replace her cos she takin the piss (this is the one I usually go for but for some girls like this stscylite I find myself unable to do so because we had such strong chemistry I liked her a lot so ima call her on the weekend even though she left me on read and ignored me yes I’m a simp idc)
I will just act like I am not phased by it, this girl is acting extremely uncommon and rude.
 
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she lost a bet and had to ask you out
should of known this and said no
 
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she lost a bet and had to ask you out
should of known this and said no
It's not that. She asked me herself through text and when I didn't respond in 2 days she asked me in real life. She doesn't have friends like that and there's no people that bully me to do that.
 
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I will just act like I am not phased by it, this girl is acting extremely uncommon and rude.
Yeah, if you see her in person and you do bring it up do it in a JOKEY WAY, say “wazzup b, where have you been 😅” you don’t have to copy what I said word for word but something along those lines when you see her.

It’s nice advising younguns on my own life experiences brother
 
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Yeah, if you see her in person and you do bring it up do it in a JOKEY WAY, say “wazzup b, where have you been 😅” you don’t have to copy what I said word for word but something along those lines when you see her.

It’s nice advising younguns on my own life experiences brother
thanks. wish i could slay and have girls on rotation. i always talk to max 2 girls at a time.
 
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thanks. wish i could slay and have girls on rotation. i always talk to max 2 girls at a time.
I speak to 3 usually but this girl hurt me a lot, I put all my side hoes on the side cos I thought I found the one… she was pretty but what made me like her was her chemistry, we had such great text chemistry. Im still upset about how it ended I wanna let it go and I have spoken 2 other girls but dude… it’s not the same,
I don’t feel that “chemistry” with them I’m ruined by this foid man fuck
 
I know… I’m currently depressed over the stacylite who did this 2 me today and a few days ago she flaked on us meeting… I’m still hurt by this, girls are soulless creatures they are so heartless they will play and tug at men’s emotions. This is why I belive men of the past were based making Eve the dumb whore who are the apple and saying “Hell is mostly full of women”

I dunno what you should do but I can say this, either A: do what I said and jsut act like your not phased by it, this will make her think your prob daughter after or see through her shittest.

B, confront her and establish ground rules but don’t be too harsh be like “hey you ain’t been messaging back b what’s going on?” Or “wazzup where have u been bb ?”

C count your losses and move on and grab a new girl to replace her cos she takin the piss (this is the one I usually go for but for some girls like this stscylite I find myself unable to do so because we had such strong chemistry I liked her a lot so ima call her on the weekend even though she left me on read and ignored me yes I’m a simp idc)
Ive got mixed thoughts about "flaking". Also has stacylite "flake" the day of the date then a few hours later spam calls me to go that shw made the time I didnt pick up left on read for an hour . I say lets do tomorrow says ok then flakes again. We agreed next week but got into a fight
 
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I know… I’m currently depressed over the stacylite who did this 2 me today and a few days ago she flaked on us meeting… I’m still hurt by this, girls are soulless creatures they are so heartless they will play and tug at men’s emotions. This is why I belive men of the past were based making Eve the dumb whore who are the apple and saying “Hell is mostly full of women”

I dunno what you should do but I can say this, either A: do what I said and jsut act like your not phased by it, this will make her think your prob daughter after or see through her shittest.

B, confront her and establish ground rules but don’t be too harsh be like “hey you ain’t been messaging back b what’s going on?” Or “wazzup where have u been bb ?”

C count your losses and move on and grab a new girl to replace her cos she takin the piss (this is the one I usually go for but for some girls like this stscylite I find myself unable to do so because we had such strong chemistry I liked her a lot so ima call her on the weekend even though she left me on read and ignored me yes I’m a simp idc)
Ive got mixed thoughts about "flaking". Also has stacylite "flake" the day of the date then a few hours later spam calls me to go that shw made the time. I say lets do tomorrow says ok then flakes again. We agreed next week but got into
 
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Ive got mixed thoughts about "flaking". Also has stacylite "flake" the day of the date then a few hours later spam calls me to go that shw made the time. I say lets do tomorrow says ok then flakes again. We agreed next week but got into
Lmfao this sounds like she fkn you about… how she flakin 2 times in 2 days… she needs to get stabbed.

But yeah it’s horrible, it’s sad how desperation can have Niggas trippin’ but as I said I am only wildin out cos I had deep chemistry with this girl man but yeah you should cut her off cos she taking the piss @ this point. But if she is really really sorry then I suppose you can have some mercy on her
 
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Lmfao this sounds like she fkn you about… how she flakin 2 times in 2 days… she needs to get stabbed.

But yeah it’s horrible, it’s sad how desperation can have Niggas trippin’ but as I said I am only wildin out cos I had deep chemistry with this girl man but yeah you should cut her off cos she taking the piss @ this point. But if she is really really sorry then I suppose you can have some mercy on her
Its a very long story. If ur muslim I can pm it.
 
Lmfao this sounds like she fkn you about… how she flakin 2 times in 2 days… she needs to get stabbed.

But yeah it’s horrible, it’s sad how desperation can have Niggas trippin’ but as I said I am only wildin out cos I had deep chemistry with this girl man but yeah you should cut her off cos she taking the piss @ this point. But if she is really really sorry then I suppose you can have some mercy on her
but idk why she would be calling me to go multiple times. That same day. She wasn't honest with her reasons tbh.
 
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Lmfao this sounds like she fkn you about… how she flakin 2 times in 2 days… she needs to get stabbed.

But yeah it’s horrible, it’s sad how desperation can have Niggas trippin’ but as I said I am only wildin out cos I had deep chemistry with this girl man but yeah you should cut her off cos she taking the piss @ this point. But if she is really really sorry then I suppose you can have some mercy on her
I just saw the log.

She first cancelled un the morning. Then at 2 called me 3 times I didn't pick up. I called at 3 she said she couldnt talk then at 4 asked me to go with her and a friend to the inner city. I left on read. I said I was in the street and meet tomorrow.

Then yh next day she said she had to go with her family.

Shes muslim so idk how crazy they are maybe it wasn't larp. Anyway really long story
 
but idk why she would be calling me to go multiple times. That same day. She wasn't honest with her reasons tbh.
I cannot even begin to excuse or understand women’s reasons for shit, my one said some absolute cap like “I just don’t feel like now is the best time to come over I’m just not feeling it rn… hope you understand 😘” JFL @ that gender fucking confusing asf how they are so HOT and COLD. They are wishy washy like the weather

If you ain’t feeling her much I suggest ghost, if you have chemistry with her and like her then I guess give her one more chance
 
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I cannot even begin to excuse or understand women’s reasons for shit, my one said some absolute cap like “I just don’t feel like now is the best time to come over I’m just not feeling it rn… hope you understand 😘” JFL @ that gender fucking confusing asf how they are so HOT and COLD. They are wishy washy like the weather

If you ain’t feeling her much I suggest ghost, if you have chemistry with her and like her then I guess give her one more chance
Everything is over bro its in the past. We did things back at each other back and force and now we are sworn enemies
 
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Everything is over bro its in the past. We did things back at each other back and force and now we are sworn enemies
Wtf… what happened since your last message to me for it to end up like this holy shit.

Yeah it’s not a religois issue as white girls do this a lot infact that’s ALL THEY DO. So it’s not cos she’s Muslim infect Muslim girls meet up more often as j have dated Muslim girls
 
I cannot even begin to excuse or understand women’s reasons for shit, my one said some absolute cap like “I just don’t feel like now is the best time to come over I’m just not feeling it rn… hope you understand 😘” JFL @ that gender fucking confusing asf how they are so HOT and COLD. They are wishy washy like the weather

If you ain’t feeling her much I suggest ghost, if you have chemistry with her and like her then I guess give her one more chance
on her behalf I will that u never know the reasons it can be good or bad

Ive rejected espontáneous meet ups because getting myself and my hair ready was too much work and rather than going not looking good I rather just not go. But I doubt many people do this. Its body dysmorphic tier
 
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