girl of my dreams rejected me yesterday i gotta make a change

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I am 16 years old 70kg bw 5'10 and a girl which ive liked for 3 years lowk rejected me.she used to like me a long time ago when i looked awful imo and i tried stuff on tiktok and done my research and within a year i changed my appearance significantly. we spoke for a little while and yesterday i got the message that she doesnt want to speak to anyone right now, i dont believe that.if i looked better would she be willing to speak to me? i need advice, gym advice softmaxes hard maxes. please help.
 

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you look like a midget in the right picture :ROFLMAO:
 
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I am 16 years old 70kg bw 5'10 and a girl which ive liked for 3 years lowk rejected me.she used to like me a long time ago when i looked awful imo and i tried stuff on tiktok and done my research and within a year i changed my appearance significantly. we spoke for a little while and yesterday i got the message that she doesnt want to speak to anyone right now, i dont believe that.if i looked better would she be willing to speak to me? i need advice, gym advice softmaxes hard maxes. please help.
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I am 16 years old 70kg bw 5'10 and a girl which ive liked for 3 years lowk rejected me.she used to like me a long time ago when i looked awful imo and i tried stuff on tiktok and done my research and within a year i changed my appearance significantly. we spoke for a little while and yesterday i got the message that she doesnt want to speak to anyone right now, i dont believe that.if i looked better would she be willing to speak to me? i need advice, gym advice softmaxes hard maxes. please help.
stop what your doing rn
dont live for the validation of other

if you wanna acend idc but dont do it for the validations of a girl
sometimes you need to learn to let go
 
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if she changed perception of u based on your appearance - this means there was never soul connection, stop trying to win a 'body'
if u wanna 'body', then go find another one
 
she is not worth it lad, i went thru the same shi. let it go no matter how much ur gonna change she still won't like u
 
stop what your doing rn
dont live for the validation of other

if you wanna acend idc but dont do it for the validations of a girl
sometimes you need to learn to let go
ur right icl but its hard, i feel like i wont find anyone ever again bc i set my standars so high by liking this one
 
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she is not worth it lad, i went thru the same shi. let it go no matter how much ur gonna change she still won't like u
i liked some other girl which i thought was the world to me, she was mid looking and her personality was not the best, at the time in my eyes she looked like the best person in the world, we stopped speaking and it took me 4 months to get over her. i feel like everything i do is to find someone that wants me
 
same situation as you brother but me i just keep trying my best to attract her or talk with her but she doesnt seem to want me, i just want to be loved this same bs happens always. i look decently good compared to my peers im confident im a straight a's student why wont i be loved 😥
 
if she does not like you at your lowest she wont like you at yyour highest and even if she does its never genuine
 
ur right icl but its hard, i feel like i wont find anyone ever again bc i set my standars so high by liking this one
stop thinking that way it maybe hard but sometime you need to accept it
i am your welcome to try but dont make it your sole goal cuz if she say no which is the most probable answer
it gonna destroy you

and may even lead to you missing out on a better girl

just accept it and let go just stop thinking about this instant ik its hard but
every time you see her think of somthing disgusting just act as if she is disgusting after some time you will get over her
 
same situation as you brother but me i just keep trying my best to attract her or talk with her but she doesnt seem to want me, i just want to be loved this same bs happens always. i look decently good compared to my peers im confident im a straight a's student why wont i be loved 😥
we in the same situation then haha, ive been thinking abt her everyday for a year and everything i do i feel like is for her, i also passed all my classes and people know me as respectful and funny, i look better than anypne she knows i dont get what else does she want from me, is it something about how i look, is my physique not good enough? we spoke for a while and i made her laugh and we talked well. she liked me before when i looked bad why doesnt she like me now?
 
if she does not like you at your lowest she wont like you at yyour highest and even if she does its never genuine
she liked me at my lowest and now she wont like me at my highest, what more do i have to do to impress a girl.
 
stop thinking that way it maybe hard but sometime you need to accept it
i am your welcome to try but dont make it your sole goal cuz if she say no which is the most probable answer
it gonna destroy you

and may even lead to you missing out on a better girl

just accept it and let go just stop thinking about this instant ik its hard but
every time you see her think of somthing disgusting just act as if she is disgusting after some time you will get over her
i probably wont see her often anymore as im not in school anymore and she still is, i doubt ill find anyone better and i want to stop thinking abt her but i litterly cant, im scared im gonna be so attached im gonna end up naming my kid by her name.
 
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i probably wont see her often anymore as im not in school anymore and she still is, i doubt ill find anyone better and i want to stop thinking abt her but i litterly cant, im scared im gonna be so attached im gonna end up naming my kid by her name.
control your self man
stop and think for a second how fuck up that is

as i said act like you hate her and you evantualy will

every time you see her act disguested act like your about to puke etc
just exagerate from the bottom of your heart every time you see her act like your saw something disguesting

i cant garrante u it works but it defo can help

if your unwilling to listen well good luck bro
 
ill try, got any advice on how?
theres always better options
dont cope with muh healing just look for another girl whos better in every aspect thatll make you forget the previous chick and any sort of attachment you had
 
control your self man
stop and think for a second how fuck up that is

as i said act like you hate her and you evantualy will

every time you see her act disguested act like your about to puke etc
just exagerate from the bottom of your heart every time you see her act like your saw something disguesting

i cant garrante u it works but it defo can help

if your unwilling to listen well good luck bro
thanks for the advice, i still hhavnt lost full hope, im gonna try my best to do better maybe one day ill find someone else
 
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theres always better options
dont cope with muh healing just look for another girl whos better in every aspect thatll make you forget the previous chick and any sort of attachment you had
its impossible to find a better girl. this one is the best ive ever seen in my whole life, she used to model shes smart nice and has the same intrests as me
 
I am 16 years old 70kg bw 5'10 and a girl which ive liked for 3 years lowk rejected me.she used to like me a long time ago when i looked awful imo and i tried stuff on tiktok and done my research and within a year i changed my appearance significantly. we spoke for a little while and yesterday i got the message that she doesnt want to speak to anyone right now, i dont believe that.if i looked better would she be willing to speak to me? i need advice, gym advice softmaxes hard maxes. please help.
shit's brootal mane:feelswah:
 
its impossible to find a better girl. this one is the best ive ever seen in my whole life, she used to model shes smart nice and has the same intrests as me
well damn
just cut all contact and focus on being a better version then
 
got any advice, am i ugly, is my physique bad? what could i change?
i dont really know what advice to give, since i went thru the same thing recently. I was simping for my oneitis for almost 8 months just for her to brutally reject me
 
i dont really know what advice to give, since i went thru the same thing recently. I was simping for my oneitis for almost 8 months just for her to brutally reject me
its tough bro gotta keep trying to do better ig
 
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I am 16 years old 70kg bw 5'10 and a girl which ive liked for 3 years lowk rejected me.she used to like me a long time ago when i looked awful imo and i tried stuff on tiktok and done my research and within a year i changed my appearance significantly. we spoke for a little while and yesterday i got the message that she doesnt want to speak to anyone right now, i dont believe that.if i looked better would she be willing to speak to me? i need advice, gym advice softmaxes hard maxes. please help.
Nigga u liked a girl for 3 years :lul:
She prob got cracked by multiple dudes in that timeframe :lul:
 
Nigga u liked a girl for 3 years :lul:
She prob got cracked by multiple dudes in that timeframe :lul:
we both 16 dawg :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO: she aint got cracked id knowbc i got friends which are friends w her friends
 
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I am 16 years old 70kg bw 5'10 and a girl which ive liked for 3 years lowk rejected me.she used to like me a long time ago when i looked awful imo and i tried stuff on tiktok and done my research and within a year i changed my appearance significantly. we spoke for a little while and yesterday i got the message that she doesnt want to speak to anyone right now, i dont believe that.if i looked better would she be willing to speak to me? i need advice, gym advice softmaxes hard maxes. please help.
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Step 1: Let go off her

Step 2: Just live ur best life bro
 
its all an illusion buddy you will learn soon enough, she was never yours to begin with and even if you did somehow get chance to lick her pussy or put your pp inside to cum in a few minute or an hour everyday or even make her cum everyday, she never will be yours truly.
dont live for validation of these blood demons. go outside
escape out of the suffering A S A P
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its all an illusion buddy you will learn soon enough, she was never yours to begin with and even if you did somehow get chance to lick her pussy or put your pp inside to cum in a few minute or an hour everyday or even make her cum everyday, she never will be yours truly.
dont live for validation of these blood demons. go outside
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shes so good looking and nice ion even wanna crack her icl. i js wanna love her and live my life w her,i still gotta keep trying to make her mine somehow
 
I am 16 years old 70kg bw 5'10 and a girl which ive liked for 3 years lowk rejected me.she used to like me a long time ago when i looked awful imo and i tried stuff on tiktok and done my research and within a year i changed my appearance significantly. we spoke for a little while and yesterday i got the message that she doesnt want to speak to anyone right now, i dont believe that.if i looked better would she be willing to speak to me? i need advice, gym advice softmaxes hard maxes. please help.
ur retarded, you can ascend but dont do it to get a girl.
 
shes so good looking and nice ion even wanna crack her icl. i js wanna love her and live my life w her,i still gotta keep trying to make her mine somehow
ok anyways she says "she doesn't want to talk anyone" so try to lean into that and provide some mental support and poke around, how can your looksmaxxing fix this again in a few months when you said you've improved already. maybe you need some mental game ?
 
ur retarded, you can ascend but dont do it to get a girl.
its my only motivation icl, when i was younger i would speak to many girls and they would like me, after a couple of years i looked like shit bc i didnt take care of myself and i became invisible which i never felt before. from the past year ive fully focused into improving my looks and using tiktok research. i improved them a lot and now many girls want me but this is the only girl i want and i dont know what i can do to make it happen
 
ok anyways she says "she doesn't want to talk anyone" so try to lean into that and provide some mental support and poke around, how can your looksmaxxing fix this again in a few months when you said you've improved already. maybe you need some mental game ?
maybe icl, i js dont know what to do icl, im lost on what im missing.
 
maybe icl, i js dont know what to do icl, im lost on what im missing.
post her and let us judge ? unless she is some prime jav model , your looks isnt the issue here , try to use your brain cells on her.
 
its my only motivation icl, when i was younger i would speak to many girls and they would like me, after a couple of years i looked like shit bc i didnt take care of myself and i became invisible which i never felt before. from the past year ive fully focused into improving my looks and using tiktok research. i improved them a lot and now many girls want me but this is the only girl i want and i dont know what i can do to make it happen
You want her but she doesnt want you anymore and rejected you, ive went through the same stuff nigga trust me this isnt heading anywhere good, dont waste your time. You can ascend to make her regret it if you want but that shouldnt be ur entire reason, i dont get why you wouldnt wanna be able to see yourself in the mirror everyday and know you look good.
 
I am 16 years old 70kg bw 5'10 and a girl which ive liked for 3 years lowk rejected me.she used to like me a long time ago when i looked awful imo and i tried stuff on tiktok and done my research and within a year i changed my appearance significantly. we spoke for a little while and yesterday i got the message that she doesnt want to speak to anyone right now, i dont believe that.if i looked better would she be willing to speak to me? i need advice, gym advice softmaxes hard maxes. please help.
women are retarded cucks who live in delusions in their head permanently. nothing you can do anymore, just wait for the next "dream girl" and ascend in the meantime.
 
post her and let us judge ? unless she is some prime jav model , your looks isnt the issue here , try to use your brain cells on her.
i aint tryna overshare too much on here icl idm posting myself but she probably woulldnt wanna get posted, she used to model and she definitely still can, if i would be honest shee is a 8/10 in a model scale (10 being best looking model ever to exist) shes 1 in a billion. how do you recommend i use my brain cells on her?
 
You want her but she doesnt want you anymore and rejected you, ive went through the same stuff nigga trust me this isnt heading anywhere good, dont waste your time. You can ascend to make her regret it if you want but that shouldnt be ur entire reason, i dont get why you wouldnt wanna be able to see yourself in the mirror everyday and know you look good.
i think i do look good icl but it can always be better, thats why im asking for advice. i feel like im missing something
 
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women are retarded cucks who live in delusions in their head permanently. nothing you can do anymore, just wait for the next "dream girl" and ascend in the meantime.
thanks bro, any tips on howi can ascend? i know the basics which ive done for the past year (8-10h sleep perfect diet ( i only eat beef eggs fruits and potatoes) i debloated a lot improved my style hair, i got decent acial genetics but i did chin tucks and neck curls for a few months, reduced my uee a lot, i dont know what else i could do
 
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thanks bro, any tips on howi can ascend? i know the basics which ive done for the past year (8-10h sleep perfect diet ( i only eat beef eggs fruits and potatoes) i debloated a lot improved my style hair, i got decent acial genetics but i did chin tucks and neck curls for a few months, reduced my uee a lot, i dont know what else i could do
keep reading, talking and studying until you hit 500 posts, i literally joined only a couple days before you and hit it. just go to the "best of the best section" read stuff in there and use the search function to help you in flaws, get ratings from multiple people and ask for advice etc. it wont be that hard.
 
keep reading, talking and studying until you hit 500 posts, i literally joined only a couple days before you and hit it. just go to the "best of the best section" read stuff in there and use the search function to help you in flaws, get ratings from multiple people and ask for advice etc. it wont be that hard.
okay thank you ill give it a try
 
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i aint tryna overshare too much on here icl idm posting myself but she probably woulldnt wanna get posted, she used to model and she definitely still can, if i would be honest shee is a 8/10 in a model scale (10 being best looking model ever to exist) shes 1 in a billion. how do you recommend i use my brain cells on her?
ok brother if shes a 8/10 white girl, 1 in a billion then its over for you as a genetic seed transfer partner, she has no interest in you and . your looks aren't going to change her opinion anymore but dont worry you'll feel the same about another girl again in few years so just try to move on and focus on yourself and not petty revenge shit (women ,even the lowest ones live in their own delusion world, she wont notice your extra looks.)

>how do you recommend i use my brain cells on her?
she used to model, so likely "whore" shallow type in personality, so your brains wont probably be charming for her personality type. dont waste anymore effort on her. best brain move is to try to lower yourself and be emotional support for her as a friend and see if she opens up to you or not. If not, then read this again and move on.
 
ok brother if shes a 8/10 white girl, 1 in a billion then its over for you as a genetic seed transfer partner, she has no interest in you and . your looks aren't going to change her opinion anymore but dont worry you'll feel the same about another girl again in few years so just try to move on and focus on yourself and not petty revenge shit (women ,even the lowest ones live in their own delusion world, she wont notice your extra looks.)

>how do you recommend i use my brain cells on her?
she used to model, so likely "whore" shallow type in personality, so your brains wont probably be charming for her personality type. dont waste anymore effort on her. best brain move is to try to lower yourself and be emotional support for her as a friend and see if she opens up to you or not. If not, then read this again and move on.
ur right, ill try be her friend and if i cant ill just try and get over it. thanks for the help
 
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its tough bro gotta keep trying to do better ig
It's really hard for me cos like this is my last year of high school and she was the only girl i was attracted to😢:feelswah:
Had a really big crush on her for like 8 months
 

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