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"No personality over text" "Worst texter she's ever met"

Tinder girl, we banged, after shes telling me that she was skeptical about meeting because I am the worst texter she's ever met. I have "no personality over text" but only met because I asked to Facetime and on Facetime I was completely different than I am when texting, and she doesnt think I am boring or have no personality IRL, just texting.

So I guess u guys are right about me being "robotic" over text, but I told her texting is such a bad medium anyway and I only text for logistics but shes like "ok, but like can u put even a little emotion into ur texts?"

lol being autistic is such a constant uphill battle with yourself



She also said her and her female friends after seeing me on Tinder

1)Thought I was fake
2) Said "Ok what's wrong wtih him, he's on Tinder looking like that, there MUST be something wrong with him"

She said girls automatically assume there is something wrong with a man who is single and really good looking. This is why guys WITH girlfriends who are attractive are perceived as more attractive cause they know their probably is a lesser chance something is wrong with them cause another girl is dating them preselection etc
 
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see incels?
personality mogs looks HARD
 
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I can guarantee you that when you get a mental breakdown over tinder bitches or looks related subject here you're far from robotic.:lul:
 
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"No personality over text" "Worst texter she's ever met"

Tinder girl, we banged, after shes telling me that she was skeptical about meeting because I am the worst texter she's ever met. I have "no personality over text" but only met because I asked to Facetime and on Facetime I was completely different than I am when texting, and she doesnt think I am boring or have no personality IRL, just texting.

So I guess u guys are right about me being "robotic" over text, but I told her texting is such a bad medium anyway and I only text for logistics but shes like "ok, but like can u put even a little emotion into ur texts?"

lol being autistic is such a constant uphill battle with yourself



She also said her and her female friends after seeing me on Tinder

1)Thought I was fake
2) Said "Ok what's wrong wtih him, he's on Tinder looking like that, there MUST be something wrong with him"

She said girls automatically assume there is something wrong with a man who is single and really good looking. This is why guys WITH girlfriends who are attractive are perceived as more attractive cause they know their probably is a lesser chance something is wrong with them cause another girl is dating them preselection etc
She fucked you your “personality” clearly didn’t matter
 
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"No personality over text" "Worst texter she's ever met"

Tinder girl, we banged, after shes telling me that she was skeptical about meeting because I am the worst texter she's ever met. I have "no personality over text" but only met because I asked to Facetime and on Facetime I was completely different than I am when texting, and she doesnt think I am boring or have no personality IRL, just texting.

So I guess u guys are right about me being "robotic" over text, but I told her texting is such a bad medium anyway and I only text for logistics but shes like "ok, but like can u put even a little emotion into ur texts?"

lol being autistic is such a constant uphill battle with yourself



She also said her and her female friends after seeing me on Tinder

1)Thought I was fake
2) Said "Ok what's wrong wtih him, he's on Tinder looking like that, there MUST be something wrong with him"

She said girls automatically assume there is something wrong with a man who is single and really good looking. This is why guys WITH girlfriends who are attractive are perceived as more attractive cause they know their probably is a lesser chance something is wrong with them cause another girl is dating them preselection etc
When it comes to texting just use emojis and have the conversation flowing. But I dont like texting aswell which is why I told you Facetiming is better it cuts out all the bs.
 
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aid "Ok what's wrong wtih him, he's on Tinder looking like that, there MUST be something wrong with him"
I don't want to sound offensive, but In fact she is somewhat right.
 
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Tinder girl, we banged, after shes telling me that she was skeptical about meeting because I am the worst texter she's ever met. I have "no personality over text" but only met because I asked to Facetime and on Facetime I was completely different than I am when texting, and she doesnt think I am boring or have no personality IRL, just texting.

Sounds to me like she's articulating her feelings. When a woman does that, let her monologue run its course.

So I guess u guys are right about me being "robotic" over text, but I told her texting is such a bad medium anyway and I only text for logistics but shes like "ok, but like can u put even a little emotion into ur texts?"

Here is where you went wrong. You rationalized your actions to the gender that puts no weight on rationalization. Meaning, you shot yourself in the foot by tacitly conceding that you think there is a disconnect between your texting personality and your actual personality. You basically affirmed her opinion by explaining yourself. You should have had a funny response to this, like "I'll let my advisory board know." and changed the subject or done anything to make her sound like a fucking retard for bringing this up, which she is. This whole interaction plainly indicates she has zero social self-awareness about how odd it is to articulate her negative thoughts of you - a person she just met - to your face, which more or less affirms that before this point she concluded (correctly) that you are the type of person who would not even defend himself if she did so. Meaning, her opinion of you before this point in the interaction was already on a downward slope. Similar to how women begin talking to other guys before they dump their current partner. See how covert they are? If you ever want to know what a woman thinks of you, just watch how she treats you. Sounds obvious, right? There are a million guys in divorce courts in the U.S.A. who would tell you, "Yeah, only in hindsight was it obvious."

2) Said "Ok what's wrong wtih him, he's on Tinder looking like that, there MUST be something wrong with him"
Her friends were envious, and highly envious at that. They were trying to poison the well between the two of you, which clearly worked as her entire interaction with you, as you described it, was one of a person looking for something to be wrong. Well, as they say, when you look hard enough for something, you'll find it. And her broken brain managed to find that in the form of an alleged robotic texting style, which is about as flimsy of an excuse as it gets. I mean, seriously, why even bring this up? I'll answer: Because she isn't afraid of losing you and views you as passive.

Fuck her for disrespecting you. So help me god if you see this bitch again or do anything other than delete her number and/or leave her on Delivered. Absolute fucking cunt she is.

You can file this one under "Broken App Whore #1,354".

I'll say it again: Stand up for yourself. Stop being so nice. She is gutter trash.
 
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2) Said "Ok what's wrong wtih him, he's on Tinder looking like that, there MUST be something wrong with him"

She said girls automatically assume there is something wrong with a man who is single and really good looking. This is why guys WITH girlfriends who are attractive are perceived as more attractive cause they know their probably is a lesser chance something is wrong with them cause another girl is dating them preselection etc
There not wrong though
 
Imagine caring that much about texting. Like fucking kill yourself girls are so retarded. Social media is more of a reality to them, then ACTUAL real life.
 
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Why do you care so much about what a foid you just banged thinks?

Her > " You have no personality over text "

You > " And you're the 5th whore I banged today, go text about it, get out my house with your stank pussy "
 
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How many times are you going to remind incels that women validate you on tinder?
 
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It really can't be overstated how retarded this girl is. It would be like you just met someone and started commenting on how their fashion sense should be better. Or how the way they eat their food is strange to you. Actual autism.
She said girls automatically assume there is something wrong with a man who is single and really good looking. This is why guys WITH girlfriends who are attractive are perceived as more attractive cause they know their probably is a lesser chance something is wrong with them cause another girl is dating them preselection etc

I get a 1000x more IOIs when I am walking on the streets with a girl in NYC. The difference is night and day. Preselection is unbelievably important. How many group photos do you have on the app, if any?
 
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Exactly man. Having a girl with you basically confirms you're NT and completely compatible relations-wise to other women. It basically takes care of all the non-physical vetting for you. I guess I can't really blame them for doing this either because a lot of guys are admittedly fucking wierdos.
 
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Funniest thing is she identifies as Pansexual meaning sexually attracted to personality

yet through the date she revealed she dated two guys who she was friends with for at least a year before they dated becauuse she liked their personality and whatever but broke up within a few months because she wasnt sexually turned on by them (uhhh so u ARENT pansexual u dumb cunt u admit physical attraction is important)

Also if shes attracted to personality and I had such a shit one according to her, why did she still come over and give me a chance

women are so oblivious to their own retarded hypocrisy

@cvzvvc


Also another funny thing is as I said goodbye to her the next morning shes like "u better take me on a real date sometime too
 
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As much as it is good to have a personality so you can be an actual unique individual, what does it matter, if in the end you get pussy anyway? Amnesia do you realize your lifestyle right now completely blows the "just have a good personality" argument out of the water? I really hope IT cucks can see this and finally admit that they knew the truth the whole time, and that all they were doing was giving incels platitudes not to make incels feel better, but to make THEMSELVES feel good about each other.
 
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i don't understand this:
what do they expect from GL men? is using tinder a failo or only for ugly men? what do they mean?

"Ok what's wrong wtih him, he's on Tinder looking like that, there MUST be something wrong with him"
 
Women literally care about how you carry yourself and how you seem. It is brutally over for those of us with autism. I’ve had women ghost me just because I text a bit weird, or text one wrong word. NT-pill is really important. It is also an indicator of your social status. I noticed on a first date that when I am out with girls, I get a lot more IOIs from women, because being out with a girl is indicator that you are NT. (Of course I never get past the first date because I’m not NT and have a shit personality). Being NT and having social status and a social circle is extremely important, and even if people won’t admit it, they’ll make it extremely clear they’ll see you as a freak and a loser if you’re not.
 
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Funniest thing is she identifies as Pansexual meaning sexually attracted to personality

Hahahahahaha, the old "Pansexual" bait and switch tactic. Yeah, up there with "NO hookups" in the bio as one of the biggest lies women tell on dating apps. What a crock of shit. The level of delusion is honestly impressive. It's always amazed me how you can let them run their mouths and in the end they will wind up telling you all you need to know.

Also another funny thing is as I said goodbye to her the next morning shes like "u better take me on a real date sometime too

I think you know what to do. Just disappear into thin air. She had her chance and fucked it. What a cunt.
 
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Her friends were envious, and highly envious at that. They were trying to poison the well between the two of you, which clearly worked as her entire interaction with you, as you described it, was one of a person looking for something to be wrong. Well, as they say, when you look hard enough for something, you'll find it. And her broken brain managed to find that in the form of an alleged robotic texting style, which is about as flimsy of an excuse as it gets. I mean, seriously, why even bring this up? I'll answer: Because she isn't afraid of losing you and views you as passive.

Fuck her for disrespecting you. So help me god if you see this bitch again or do anything other than delete her number and/or leave her on Delivered. Absolute fucking cunt she is.

You can file this one under "Broken App Whore #1,354".

I'll say it again: Stand up for yourself. Stop being so nice. She is gutter trash.
The fact these girls were discussing a tinder match itself seems odd. Did she just post his pics in her group chat? Ofc they'd bring up these negative qualifiers because girl groups are inherently sexually competitive. They'll never admit it, but I've seen enough in my life to know they are complete facades and self-serving.
 
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Sounds to me like she's articulating her feelings. When a woman does that, let her monologue run its course.



Here is where you went wrong. You rationalized your actions to the gender that puts no weight on rationalization. Meaning, you shot yourself in the foot by tacitly conceding that you think there is a disconnect between your texting personality and your actual personality. You basically affirmed her opinion by explaining yourself. You should have had a funny response to this, like "I'll let my advisory board know." and changed the subject or done anything to make her sound like a fucking retard for bringing this up, which she is. This whole interaction plainly indicates she has zero social self-awareness about how odd it is to articulate her negative thoughts of you - a person she just met - to your face, which more or less affirms that before this point she concluded (correctly) that you are the type of person who would not even defend himself if she did so. Meaning, her opinion of you before this point in the interaction was already on a downward slope. Similar to how women begin talking to other guys before they dump their current partner. See how covert they are? If you ever want to know what a woman thinks of you, just watch how she treats you. Sounds obvious, right? There are a million guys in divorce courts in the U.S.A. who would tell you, "Yeah, only in hindsight was it obvious."


Her friends were envious, and highly envious at that. They were trying to poison the well between the two of you, which clearly worked as her entire interaction with you, as you described it, was one of a person looking for something to be wrong. Well, as they say, when you look hard enough for something, you'll find it. And her broken brain managed to find that in the form of an alleged robotic texting style, which is about as flimsy of an excuse as it gets. I mean, seriously, why even bring this up? I'll answer: Because she isn't afraid of losing you and views you as passive.

Fuck her for disrespecting you. So help me god if you see this bitch again or do anything other than delete her number and/or leave her on Delivered. Absolute fucking cunt she is.

You can file this one under "Broken App Whore #1,354".

I'll say it again: Stand up for yourself. Stop being so nice. She is gutter trash.
Breathe nigga goddamn 🤣.

Too much redpill :redpill:
 
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Here is where you went wrong. You rationalized your actions to the gender that puts no weight on rationalization. Meaning, you shot yourself in the foot by tacitly conceding that you think there is a disconnect between your texting personality and your actual personality. You basically affirmed her opinion by explaining yourself. You should have had a funny response to this, like "I'll let my advisory board know." and changed the subject or done anything to make her sound like a fucking retard for bringing this up, which she is. This whole interaction plainly indicates she has zero social self-awareness about how odd it is to articulate her negative thoughts of you - a person she just met - to your face, which more or less affirms that before this point she concluded (correctly) that you are the type of person who would not even defend himself if she did so. Meaning, her opinion of you before this point in the interaction was already on a downward slope. Similar to how women begin talking to other guys before they dump their current partner. See how covert they are? If you ever want to know what a woman thinks of you, just watch how she treats you. Sounds obvious, right? There are a million guys in divorce courts in the U.S.A. who would tell you, "Yeah, only in hindsight was it obvious."


Her friends were envious, and highly envious at that. They were trying to poison the well between the two of you, which clearly worked as her entire interaction with you, as you described it, was one of a person looking for something to be wrong. Well, as they say, when you look hard enough for something, you'll find it. And her broken brain managed to find that in the form of an alleged robotic texting style, which is about as flimsy of an excuse as it gets. I mean, seriously, why even bring this up? I'll answer: Because she isn't afraid of losing you and views you as passive.

Fuck her for disrespecting you. So help me god if you see this bitch again or do anything other than delete her number and/or leave her on Delivered. Absolute fucking cunt she is.

You can file this one under "Broken App Whore #1,354".

I'll say it again: Stand up for yourself. Stop being so nice. She is gutter trash.
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Keep writing auto biographies
 
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foids...
 
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Funniest thing is she identifies as Pansexual meaning sexually attracted to personality

yet through the date she revealed she dated two guys who she was friends with for at least a year before they dated becauuse she liked their personality and whatever but broke up within a few months because she wasnt sexually turned on by them (uhhh so u ARENT pansexual u dumb cunt u admit physical attraction is important)

Also if shes attracted to personality and I had such a shit one according to her, why did she still come over and give me a chance

women are so oblivious to their own retarded hypocrisy

@cvzvvc


Also another funny thing is as I said goodbye to her the next morning shes like "u better take me on a real date sometime too

does she have tattoos ?
 
Funniest thing is she identifies as Pansexual meaning sexually attracted to personality

yet through the date she revealed she dated two guys who she was friends with for at least a year before they dated becauuse she liked their personality and whatever but broke up within a few months because she wasnt sexually turned on by them (uhhh so u ARENT pansexual u dumb cunt u admit physical attraction is important)

Also if shes attracted to personality and I had such a shit one according to her, why did she still come over and give me a chance

women are so oblivious to their own retarded hypocrisy

@cvzvvc


Also another funny thing is as I said goodbye to her the next morning shes like "u better take me on a real date sometime too
yeah this kind of girls that speak of themselves as not lookist at all and that only personality matters to them always turn up to be very shallow in the end

something always dies within me when I figure out, like why talk untrue shit about yourself and not accept human nature
 
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As much as it is good to have a personality so you can be an actual unique individual, what does it matter, if in the end you get pussy anyway? Amnesia do you realize your lifestyle right now completely blows the "just have a good personality" argument out of the water? I really hope IT cucks can see this and finally admit that they knew the truth the whole time, and that all they were doing was giving incels platitudes not to make incels feel better, but to make THEMSELVES feel good about each other.
well how many slays have I lost out on though because I gave weird robot vibes over texting to girls? But yeah my looks can overcome for some women.
i don't understand this:
what do they expect from GL men? is using tinder a failo or only for ugly men? what do they mean?
they mean because hes gl and doesnt have a gf and is on an app (which women subconsciously feel like only trash people are on) that there must be something wrong with him. She even said "whats wrong with u is just that u have a shitty text personality"

Women are retarded number 1 and a lot of stuff doesnt need to be overthought when it comes to women behavior, the simple grug take that they are dumb is enough, and they dont have the perspective of a typical mans dating experience too

Since women get dick thrown at them every second when they are on a dating app, even from gl men, they think a handsome mans experience is the same.
Women literally care about how you carry yourself and how you seem. It is brutally over for those of us with autism. I’ve had women ghost me just because I text a bit weird, or text one wrong word. NT-pill is really important. It is also an indicator of your social status. I noticed on a first date that when I am out with girls, I get a lot more IOIs from women, because being out with a girl is indicator that you are NT. (Of course I never get past the first date because I’m not NT and have a shit personality). Being NT and having social status and a social circle is extremely important, and even if people won’t admit it, they’ll make it extremely clear they’ll see you as a freak and a loser if you’re not.
women care because they would be embarrassed to bring u in front of their friends if u were weird/aspie and would embarrass her in front of her social group. To women status is everything
The fact these girls were discussing a tinder match itself seems odd. Did she just post his pics in her group chat? Ofc they'd bring up these negative qualifiers because girl groups are inherently sexually competitive. They'll never admit it, but I've seen enough in my life to know they are complete facades and self-serving.
its not weird dude, women discuss EVERYTHING with each other. Their newest match on tinder, the guys they are talking to, the size of the dick of the last dude they fucked, how that dick felt, how long it took the guy to cum etc. They are extremely detailed about everything with every guy they are with. If one girl u fucked. I dont even know its a sexual competitive thing as much as women just all watch crime documentaries (like they are obsesses with that shit) and like to pretend every man is a potential serial killer so they look for things wrong. Plus all women have stories about how they were sexually abused or "raped" at some point, they are all eternal victims.

does she have tattoos ?

yeah and one of them symbolized her and her friend getting over heavy drug addiction, she was also briefly a stripper lmfao, yet she also shamed a few guys she knew for liking her cause she looked 15/16 and she calle dthem creepy. Dumb bitch





@chadison I wanted to get ur opinion on this thread in general. Dude I am officially a robot/little personality over text that is. INTJ problems
 
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Hahahahahaha, the old "Pansexual" bait and switch tactic. Yeah, up there with "NO hookups" in the bio as one of the biggest lies women tell on dating apps. What a crock of shit. The level of delusion is honestly impressive. It's always amazed me how you can let them run their mouths and in the end they will wind up telling you all you need to know.



I think you know what to do. Just disappear into thin air. She had her chance and fucked it. What a cunt.
I agree with everything you say again but why call women dumb cunts? They're just operating according to their biological imperative. Just like most men relentlessly chase sex but never bother to look up how to get it (looks)
 
Ok, so here's my two cents.

1: In ONS women are much more focused on looks. Such is why you have decent success on tinder. LTR is more about status, comfort, and being NT. Many women on tinder aren't even on it explicitly for sex, they just like to fuck around with guys on there (not sexually, no pun intended lol).

2: Why is 50 shades of grey so popular (watch it if you haven't, it's good information for understanding the female psyche)? Because women NEED the buildup. They're emotional by natural law, and they therefore enjoy slow tension, peaking with an unforgettable sexual experience (minus Christian's weird dominant/sub thing lol). Women want EVERYTHING in a man. Even one lacking category can make the overall grade an F. For men, none of this is true. We look for things to qualify a woman for banging (big ass, decent face, etc). And men don't need a buildup-they're DTF whenever. So in your instance, this girl wants the emotional buildup, and she wants the looks and good sex. This is why there's a texting issue going on. Women can afford to be EXTRAORDINARILY picky due to their inflated marketplace SMV.

3: So what needs to happen here as an INTJ is you need to divorce your reliance upon validation from women from your method of checking your social efficacy. Women should NOT be used as a benchmark for social success. You're really not that aspie amnesia, it's just that women like to make you think you are as a means of poking you to see if you're legit. "Shit testing" as the redpill terms it. Yes, even Chads experience it, because of the 50 shades of grey phenomena.

I've had this exact same issue countless times, except it was irl convo and not on text. If a girl does this, you need to think of her as a child (most women are at that level of cognitive functioning even when fully developed, because their emotional brain is their primary processing mechanism). You said your strength was on video call or in person, so try to avoid texting and tell her to move to those venues instead. Whenever I text women (or talk to them IRL), I NEVER take it seriously. THE MOMENT you stop and think "what should I say?" You have fucked up. There's a weird phenomenon whereby the less effort you put in, the more women are engaged with you. My best results have always came from texting a woman (or talking to her) like she's my young cousin. Also, I avoid texting whenever possible because it is inherently hard to convey emotion over messaging and you will ALWAYS have a stronger presence IRL due to the halo effect and the ability to express feelings through tone, body language, suspension and pauses, etc.

I wouldn't worry much about it. It happens a lot because of the reasons I mentioned above. It's just how women are, and the solution for people like me and you is to constantly reaffirm to ourselves that women have no bearing on your overall self-worth. It's like having a first grader tell you that you're weird, and you go home and he lives in your head rent-free for months. All you can think about is what he said, even though everyone else tells you how cool you are.

Isn't that irrational? I think so. We are both very rational and logical. So use that rationality to convince yourself of what I just said. Because it's empirically true.
 
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Also I just want to add I know exactly how you feel. You can continue reaffirming shit to yourself but you're inevitably going to have those days where you doubt yourself. As an INTJ I know exactly what it's like. But the more you continue to affirm it to yourself and avoid texting and take little steps to be more bold in real life, the lesser than nagging self-doubt that we possess as INTJs becomes.
 
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Ok, so here's my two cents.

1: In ONS women are much more focused on looks. Such is why you have decent success on tinder. LTR is more about status, comfort, and being NT. Many women on tinder aren't even on it explicitly for sex, they just like to fuck around with guys on there (not sexually, no pun intended lol).

2: Why is 50 shades of grey so popular (watch it if you haven't, it's good information for understanding the female psyche)? Because women NEED the buildup. They're emotional by natural law, and they therefore enjoy slow tension, peaking with an unforgettable sexual experience (minus Christian's weird dominant/sub thing lol). Women want EVERYTHING in a man. Even one lacking category can make the overall grade an F. For men, none of this is true. We look for things to qualify a woman for banging (big ass, decent face, etc). And men don't need a buildup-they're DTF whenever. So in your instance, this girl wants the emotional buildup, and she wants the looks and good sex. This is why there's a texting issue going on. Women can afford to be EXTRAORDINARILY picky due to their inflated marketplace SMV.

3: So what needs to happen here as an INTJ is you need to divorce your reliance upon validation from women from your method of checking your social efficacy. Women should NOT be used as a benchmark for social success. You're really not that aspie amnesia, it's just that women like to make you think you are as a means of poking you to see if you're legit. "Shit testing" as the redpill terms it. Yes, even Chads experience it, because of the 50 shades of grey phenomena.

I've had this exact same issue countless times, except it was irl convo and not on text. If a girl does this, you need to think of her as a child (most women are at that level of cognitive functioning even when fully developed, because their emotional brain is their primary processing mechanism). You said your strength was on video call or in person, so try to avoid texting and tell her to move to those venues instead. Whenever I text women (or talk to them IRL), I NEVER take it seriously. THE MOMENT you stop and think "what should I say?" You have fucked up. There's a weird phenomenon whereby the less effort you put in, the more women are engaged with you. My best results have always came from texting a woman (or talking to her) like she's my young cousin. Also, I avoid texting whenever possible because it is inherently hard to convey emotion over messaging and you will ALWAYS have a stronger presence IRL due to the halo effect and the ability to express feelings through tone, body language, suspension and pauses, etc.

I wouldn't worry much about it. It happens a lot because of the reasons I mentioned above. It's just how women are, and the solution for people like me and you is to constantly reaffirm to ourselves that women have no bearing on your overall self-worth. It's like having a first grader tell you that you're weird, and you go home and he lives in your head rent-free for months. All you can think about is what he said, even though everyone else tells you how cool you are.

Isn't that irrational? I think so. We are both very rational and logical. So use that rationality to convince yourself of what I just said. Because it's empirically true.
Fuck so high IQ where were when I needed you I fucked up my chance with ONETISI recently due to not finding someone as smart as this to give advice to me
 
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Fuck so high IQ where were when I needed you I fucked up my chance with ONETISI recently due to not finding someone as smart as this to give advice to me
It's possible even if I told you what to do it wouldn't have worked out. There are always many, many factors that go into to play. I'm glad you found this useful, though.
 
I am also robotic when texting
 
It's possible even if I told you what to do it wouldn't have worked out. There are always many, many factors that go into to play. I'm glad you found this useful, though.
Yeah but one of worst things about this site is that it makes you believe looks are everything i fell for that and told ONETISI since she showed attraction that I have no friends and never had a gf and then I got Brutally slapped in the face
 
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Yeah but one of worst things about this site is that it makes you believe looks are everything i fell for that and told ONETISI since she showed attraction that I have no friends and never had a gf and then I got Brutally slapped in the face
Oops.

Well you live and you learn
 
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"No personality over text" "Worst texter she's ever met"

Tinder girl, we banged, after shes telling me that she was skeptical about meeting because I am the worst texter she's ever met. I have "no personality over text" but only met because I asked to Facetime and on Facetime I was completely different than I am when texting, and she doesnt think I am boring or have no personality IRL, just texting.

So I guess u guys are right about me being "robotic" over text, but I told her texting is such a bad medium anyway and I only text for logistics but shes like "ok, but like can u put even a little emotion into ur texts?"

lol being autistic is such a constant uphill battle with yourself



She also said her and her female friends after seeing me on Tinder

1)Thought I was fake
2) Said "Ok what's wrong wtih him, he's on Tinder looking like that, there MUST be something wrong with him"

She said girls automatically assume there is something wrong with a man who is single and really good looking. This is why guys WITH girlfriends who are attractive are perceived as more attractive cause they know their probably is a lesser chance something is wrong with them cause another girl is dating them preselection etc
i get that shit the same as well, girls tell me "you are hot but you cant talk to females at all" all the time on tidner.
i text like a auspie idiot as well. sucks


I am like, hi hi, how are you and then ask for meetup i cant text for shit. how to fuck you make personality over tecting its fucking retarded.
 
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