girls always think I’M NON-VIRGIN JFL

[darkpiller40]

At any point when I start talking with a girl, whenever the topic comes on.
It’s always “Oh, you must have done it with a couple of girls”.

And I just die a little inside because no.. I haven't, and they never believe me when I say I’m a VIRGIN. They think I’m lying.. It’s not even funny. To them, it's like I'm playing some reverse-psychology game or something.

Then shortly after interacting with me for a while they start to understand why.
Being high inhib AND even slightly non-nt is a death sentence. Especially if you have decent looks and if you're going for a girl that is a little above your looksmatch.


I can never escalate things further than just kissing and it pains me.
It turns them off, why do I have to be like this..

Next week may be different though, I’m meeting this girl. And hopefully things will get interesting.

 

[Klasik616]

They think you're not a virgin because they're not virgins and prob lossed it to a GL NT statusmaxxed dude from social media.

 

[vanillaicecream]

Why would you tell them you're a virgin, jfl

 

[Numb The Pain]

Sounds like you're at least HTN.

 

[unfortunatehobbies]

just larp as not virgin, easy to lie about these things because its a generally taboo subject so they won't pry too much. if they do pry, you can take it as an ioi anyway, so a win either way.

if you can't improve, fraud and larp your way to success.