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This post is an observation/small reflection of my thoughts.
When I was in Italy last year, and did several nights out, I made some observations.
Girls and groups of girls are out to meet guys. Sure, they are there to have fun, dance, get attention/feel good as well.
However, they are receptive and encourage guys to approach them. If a guy approaches a girl in a group and they start talking, after maybe some introduction to the group (or not) the girl will peel away from the group, or the group will peel away and let the two talk. If the girl likes the guy, it's on, and he will escalate.
If she doesn't, she will go back to her group, and the guy will approach a new girl.
Of course you have to account for a different culture. Guys are players, and good or bad with girls they approach.
Girls love it, encourage it, and accept the pick up culture with open arms. They either want a cool guy that has game, or a guy that can provide. Ideally a mix of both.
Why isn't it like this in Australia?
Yes, you find small groups of girls from time to time that are out like this, but it's very rare. Usually for me to succeed in a club scenario I have to pick out a girl that's strayed from her group or build enough attraction that she doesn't care about her friends when they try to cockblock (it's almost unheard of where I was out in Italy).
When I was in Italy last year, and did several nights out, I made some observations.
Girls and groups of girls are out to meet guys. Sure, they are there to have fun, dance, get attention/feel good as well.
However, they are receptive and encourage guys to approach them. If a guy approaches a girl in a group and they start talking, after maybe some introduction to the group (or not) the girl will peel away from the group, or the group will peel away and let the two talk. If the girl likes the guy, it's on, and he will escalate.
If she doesn't, she will go back to her group, and the guy will approach a new girl.
Of course you have to account for a different culture. Guys are players, and good or bad with girls they approach.
Girls love it, encourage it, and accept the pick up culture with open arms. They either want a cool guy that has game, or a guy that can provide. Ideally a mix of both.
Why isn't it like this in Australia?
Yes, you find small groups of girls from time to time that are out like this, but it's very rare. Usually for me to succeed in a club scenario I have to pick out a girl that's strayed from her group or build enough attraction that she doesn't care about her friends when they try to cockblock (it's almost unheard of where I was out in Italy).
