Girls chasing validation on tinder

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Why girls on tinder like/match and dont answer or ghost ?
Im assuming im gl enough for them if we matched.
Are they just chasing dopamine rushes ?
Should I be using tinder as dopamine-fuel only like stacies ? :lul:
 
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There's a massive market imbalance for Western men chasing Western women on Tinder.

Since you live in South France maybe you could go for Spanish or Arab foids to lower the difficulty.
 
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Never used tinder. I hate women
 
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Why girls on tinder like/match and dont answer or ghost ?
Im assuming im gl enough for them if we matched.
Are they just chasing dopamine rushes ?
Should I be using tinder as dopamine-fuel only like stacies ? :lul:
That's why I have 20k+ matches and only respond to the ones that text me first. The rest are there for an ego boost/validation or Instagram/OF followers
 
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That's why I have 20k+ matches and only respond to the ones that text me first. The rest are there for an ego boost/validation or Instagram/OF followers
Brutal for tinder jestermaxxers
 
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That's why I have 20k+ matches and only respond to the ones that text me first. The rest are there for an ego boost/validation or Instagram/OF followers
Such a stupid thing to do.
 
you got mogged.
 
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That's why I have 20k+ matches and only respond to the ones that text me first. The rest are there for an ego boost/validation or Instagram/OF followers
it doesn't really work like that. the stacies text you first because you're danish prince. regular people have to do first move
 
Why girls on tinder like/match and dont answer or ghost ?
Im assuming im gl enough for them if we matched.
Are they just chasing dopamine rushes ?
Should I be using tinder as dopamine-fuel only like stacies ? :lul:
they are mentally abused like us
 
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Elaborate?
The hottest girls will probably not text you first most of the time, and just because they don’t it doesn’t mean they won’t be down to meet up lol.
 
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A lot of them are simply looking for validation, but i also think its got to do with them having an absurd amount of men to choose from
I know a girl whos average 6.5/10 at most. Literally hundreds of matches in a couple of weeks. She had to start being more picky because it was to much to choose from.
 
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The hottest girls will probably not text you first most of the time, and just because they don’t it doesn’t mean they won’t be down to meet up lol.
Yeah, but good luck acting like a desperate dog like the 5k other dudes in her dm's. All of these girls had texted me first and if you're swiping on just girl you find attractive I don't see why you care about if they're hotter than the rest there's always a girl hotter. This way you're not wasting your time texting girls that don't care
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The hottest girls will probably not text you first most of the time, and just because they don’t it doesn’t mean they won’t be down to meet up lol.
he lives in a completely different reality lol he thinks gl girls making the first move is the norm. perks of being top 0.001% of people.
 
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That's why I have 20k+ matches and only respond to the ones that text me first. The rest are there for an ego boost/validation or Instagram/OF followers
And even there, an amount will not want to meet up/stop responding, whatever. Its a way but unreliable way to meet people.
 
And even there, an amount will not want to meet up/stop responding, whatever. Its a way but unreliable way to meet people.
niko doesn't know that stuff. all those girls are dtf with him within minutes.
 
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good luck acting like a desperate dog like the 5k other dudes in her dm's.
Acting like a desperate dog? Nigga just exchange a couple of messages and set up a date :feelskek:

You think the girls that message you first don't have 5k guys on their DMs too? Moreover, you think these girls are only messaging YOU first?
 
Exactly! It's a number games no matter who you are. More matches more chances, don't get stuck up on one girl, just because you match with a person it doesn't mean they would meet up or even talk to you.
And even there, an amount will not want to meet up/stop responding, whatever. Its a way but unreliable way to meet people
 
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Acting like a desperate dog? Nigga just exchange a couple of messages and set up a date :feelskek:

You think the girls that message you first don't have 5k guys on their DMs too? Moreover, you think these girls are only messaging YOU first?
yes, there's no way to get texted first by htbs+ unless maher or niko.
 
niko doesn't know that stuff. all those girls are dtf with him within minutes.
Kek. Such thing doesn’t exist.
Also i think its also not really common to have a hot girl dtf at her place within few messages. None of us are on the looks level to get lots of stacylites dtf at their places in few messages without needing to date first. Meanwhile few years ago its wasn’t so uncommon for my maherfish. But its more i think about sex appeal, you need to show off your masculine aura and proportions and just look rly masc to elicit more primal instincts.
 
Acting like a desperate dog? Nigga just exchange a couple of messages and set up a date :feelskek:

You think the girls that message you first don't have 5k guys on their DMs too? Moreover, you think these girls are only messaging YOU first?
I highly doubt they only message me, but most guys on tinder are desperate and it definitely shows in the messeges they send
 
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Also, cold approaching or even better warm approaching i’m defo sure will have more success in term of ratio of matching/meeting hot girls and fucking them.
@Niko69 but you need to be nt and low inhibit for that
 
It's a number games no matter who you are.
It's a numbers game but yet you are excluding a lot of potential lays just because you have too big of an ego to text first? Makes no sense rofl.
 
Kek. Such thing doesn’t exist.
Also i think its also not really common to have a hot girl dtf at her place within few messages. None of us are on the looks level to get lots of stacylites dtf at their places in few messages without needing to date first. Meanwhile few years ago its wasn’t so uncommon for my maherfish. But its more i think about sex appeal, you need to show off your masculine aura and proportions and just look rly masc to elicit more primal instincts.
niko is not like us. he matched with all the girls of his city and they double and triple text him. if i "act like an abused dog" i can get to fuck an htb in few hours assuming there is the logistics (near me or i can catch the train). i met them at the bar and go at their home after a short amount of time, they propose it.
 
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I highly doubt they only message me, but most guys on tinder are desperate and it definitely shows in the messeges they send
Girls are desperate too, fuck these girls. Some played with my nerves while i’m always nice to people, so until i’m 200% sure the girl is kind hearted i won’t trust her, and treat her like she treats most guys on there.
 
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It's a numbers game but yet you are excluding a lot of potential lays just because you have too big of an ego to text first? Makes no sense rofl.
honestly he has WAAAAY too many girls to choose from lol even if you had "just" 50 it would be already an overwhelming number.
 
why wouldn’t they, it’s free and easy validation
they reply to the best looking ones
 
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Girls are desperate too, fuck these girls. Some played with my nerves while i’m always nice to people, so until i’m 200% sure the girl is kind hearted i won’t trust her, and treat her like she treats most guys on there.
Girls aren't desperate
 
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honestly he has WAAAAY too many girls to choose from lol even if you had "just" 50 it would be already an overwhelming number.
Exactly, so why would he not go for the best ones then even if they don't initiate? Does he seriously believe that a guy who gets 20k matches would get rejected/ignored by these girls? He is just a pussy scared of rejection kek.
 
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It's a numbers game but yet you are excluding a lot of potential lays just because you have too big of an ego to text first? Makes no sense rofl.
My point is that I don't want to waste my time, as I value it quite highly. If I'm done working for the the night I would rather text a girl that sent me a first message than starting a conversation as they're most likely to meet up at 12-1 in the evening/night... What I'm basically saying is - prioritize the girls texting you first if you value your time
 
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Girls aren't desperate
A decent amount of girls meltdown when i stoped replying to them, or refused to meet or whatever. And started feeling insecure. Rofl an amount started wanting to know everything of me and wanting to bother me.
They are humans too and act too entitled most of the time, compared to non westerners/ outside the west cuz of simps.Irl they act way more down to earth cuz there is no cope possible especially when you look good and decently framed.
 
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My point is that I don't want to waste my time, as I value it quite highly. If I'm done working for the the night I would rather text a girl that sent me a first message than starting a conversation as they're most likely to meet up at 12-1 in the evening/night... What I'm basically saying is - prioritize the girls texting you first if you value your time
lol what if the girls texting you first are the bottom tier ones?? also sending a text takes 30 seconds once you have your prompts and know what to say to get a response back. also didn't you have like 4k chats?? if they all texted you first you're a god.
 
lol what if the girls texting you first are the bottom tier ones?? also sending a text takes 30 seconds once you have your prompts and know what to say to get a response back. also didn't you have like 4k chats?? if they all texted you first you're a god.
I have around ~6k chats, so yes im doing alright
 
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If I'm done working for the the night I would rather text a girl that sent me a first message than starting a conversation as they're most likely to meet up at 12-1 in the evening/night...
What’s the difference?
 
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I have around ~6k chats, so yes im doing alright
lol, we all know that you're "doing alright", wasn't really the point of my message. i guess you just felt like you needed to flex your success on tinder again today.
 
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A decent amount of girls meltdown when i stoped replying to them, or refused to meet or whatever. And started feeling insecure. Rofl an amount started wanting to know everything of me and wanting to bother me.
They are humans too and act too entitled most of the time, compared to non westerners/ outside the west cuz of simps.Irl they act way more down to earth cuz there is no cope possible especially when you look good and decently framed.
shut up mogger
 
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Facts, I know ltb irl with thousands of match on their tinder. Chadlites and shit lmao:lul:
Bro its cope it doesnt mean jackshit. A girl either is insanely into you or she isn’t. If she isnt don’t bother @Niko69 i would be even more harsh than you. Like if legit the girl doesn’t find you ideal, 10/10, don’t waste your time. I don’t anymore. And even when a girl msg first i reply voidely to filter them out for a while.

I saw many girls i dated their tinder profile, as they were really hot to me - would be rated stacylites/stacies here - and they literally ghosted hundreds and hundreds of guys i would consider attractive and more smv maxxed than me - body, pics, tattoes - yet most of these girls text with 1-2-3 guys max in a while, it happened since i was dating them, that i was the sole. And im not a full blown chad, nor a gigachad can have absolute appeal.

You need to wake up
 
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A decent amount of girls meltdown when i stoped replying to them, or refused to meet or whatever. And started feeling insecure. Rofl an amount started wanting to know everything of me and wanting to bother me.
They mald when they're already emotionally invested. You hurt their ego.
 
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A decent amount of girls meltdown when i stoped replying to them, or refused to meet or whatever. And started feeling insecure. Rofl an amount started wanting to know everything of me and wanting to bother me.
They are humans too and act too entitled most of the time, compared to non westerners/ outside the west cuz of simps.Irl they act way more down to earth cuz there is no cope possible especially when you look good and decently framed.
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true, some of them are just as desperate as the guys in here. If you don't text them back straight away they'll start double texting and straight up get mad
 
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They mald when they're already emotionally invested. You hurt their ego.
I just did nothing. Some aren’t good enough to me, and its not looks wise. They just are too unsensitive, or not smart enough or not interesting enough. I used to jestermax. Now i expect them to do the same, or at least to try to keep a decent convo with me. Ngl i treat subconsciously differently a girl based on the vibe on their pics, and, tend to treat worse tinder girls than random irl girls. Nothing insane, but its a bias.
Dunno if you do the same even subconsciously @Niko69
 
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What’s the difference?
Idk how many times I have to say this, but the difference is a girl is either into you and desperately want to see you or they don't even care enough to start a conversation. It's easier to reply to a message like " I'd love to watch X with you, let me know when" try to waste your time on girls that don't care
 
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I just did nothing. Some aren’t good enough to me, and its not looks wise. They just are too unsensitive, or not smart enough or not interesting enough. I used to jestermax. Now i expect them to do the same, or at least to try to keep a decent convo with me. Ngl i treat subconsciously differently a girl based on the vibe on their pics, and, tend to treat worse tinder girls than random irl girls. Nothing insane, but its a bias.
Dunno if you do the same even subconsciously @Niko69
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Taking notes from the chads ITT
 
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I just did nothing. Some aren’t good enough to me, and its not looks wise. They just are too unsensitive, or not smart enough or not interesting enough. I used to jestermax. Now i expect them to do the same, or at least to try to keep a decent convo with me. Ngl i treat subconsciously differently a girl based on the vibe on their pics, and, tend to treat worse tinder girls than random irl girls. Nothing insane, but its a bias.
Dunno if you do the same even subconsciously @Niko69
To some extent
 
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Idk how many times I have to say this, but the difference is a girl is either into you and desperately want to see you or they don't even care enough to start a conversation. It's easier to reply to a message like " I'd love to watch X with you, let me know when" try to waste your time on girls that don't care
Theres also ways to talk rofl. This line would work on girls into you. But even when a girl is rly into you, if you msg first with lets fuck or something utterly sexual they tend to not reply - while a guy like crisick will make you believe its most girls who would be fine with that, its larp - Its common sense. Guys usually don’t care but me too if a girl does that its a turn off.
 
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Idk how many times I have to say this, but the difference is a girl is either into you and desperately want to see you or they don't even care enough to start a conversation.
Nigga you realize that some girls might not have even noticed that they matched with you due to how many matches they have, right? You are delusional if you think that any girl wouldn’t care about you when you are probably the best profile in your area :lul:
 
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