Girls liked me more when I was uglier

[chrishell]

no its just that the hotter u get the more u triggers girls anxious attachment styles

 

[Part-Time Chad]

Age

 

[aircraftboi]

Learn female gaze vs male gaze

Yeah bhai but because of this forum I thought being really masculine looking was the best thing to do. Turns out its not very attracting to most females

 

[aircraftboi]

Age

Im 18 I was 15-16 when I was uglier and girls liked me more

 

[aircraftboi]

no its just that the hotter u get the more u triggers girls anxious attachment styles

Idk man some guy asked in this thread to see my face he said I looked good but too intimidating and masculine. Maybe thats why girls dont like me idek

 

[IwillRope2024]

181 cm and 44 kg is not even anorexic tier it’s if i miss a meal i might drop dead tier.

Starving marvin ass nigga

 

[aircraftboi]

181 cm and 44 kg is not even anorexic tier it’s if i miss a meal i might drop dead tier.

Starving marvin ass nigga

Yeah man I ate one bag of chips every day back then nothing more and still pulled a lot compared to now

 

[Part-Time Chad]

Im 18 I was 15-16 when I was uglier and girls liked me more

No, I meant that you probably looked more like a twink at 15 than you do now at 18. That's why girls liked you more.

 

[LTNUser]

I wasnt even a prettyboy I just looked really feminine tho. Like I had a pedo stache with the most soft features ever

Yea, females like the soft gaze on men pretty much

 

[Jaynoyn523]

So 2 years ago I was a raging alcoholic was 44 kgs of bidyweight and my face was the most feminine boyface I ever seen. Girls adored me back then I had a lot of girlfriends and texted a huge amount of foids. These day,I am sober,gymmaxxed 73 kg 11% bodyfat at 181cm's. My face ascended hugely,I dress more nicely. But girls dont seem to be even interested in me whatsoever,even tho before I would pull htbs on a weekly basis. Idk what I did wrong,everyone agrees I look much better than before,but still I get nowhere the attention I got before. Did this happen to any of you guys before?

The reason for this is because you transitioned into a more intimidating looking man, the behaviours and ways you used to communicate verbally or non verbally when you had a feminine boy face have to change, a 6'3 guy with a beard and dark features has to be more playful and more of a "jester" for lack of a better word in order to decrease the woman's anxiety around him, and so the opposite also applies, the 5'11 pretty boy has to be more serious and less of a "jester" in order for the woman to not see him as an equal or a turn off, so I think what would serve you well is working on your ability to get women more into the state of play to decrease their anxiety around you, looks matter significantly but game also matters

 

[Jaynoyn523]

is that true that girls dont approach good looking ppl? i only got approached once and thats it. I get so many iois when im outside but i dont even know if thats because im goodlooking or am i just scary or ugly asf. when i look at myself on camera or any mirror outside of the one in my house or hotel mirror i feel like im so so ugly. im in china right now and today a girl told me that i looked russian and that im so handsome. few days ago 2 girls wanted to take a picture with me and said i was attractive but i just cant get how they find me goodlooking. i dont know what to think anymore. Maybe ill find myself better looking if i get to 12% bf, im 22% rn

definitely decrease the body fat, and women almost never approach men, ever, no matter how good looking the man is, they're unimaginably high inhib when it comes to approaching a man they find attractive

 

[eclipsoo]

definitely decrease the body fat, and women almost never approach men, ever, no matter how good looking the man is, they're unimaginably high inhib when it comes to approaching a man they find attractive

you think so? on tiktok i see many good looking dudes getting approached by gitls tbh

 

[aircraftboi]

The reason for this is because you transitioned into a more intimidating looking man, the behaviours and ways you used to communicate verbally or non verbally when you had a feminine boy face have to change, a 6'3 guy with a beard and dark features has to be more playful and more of a "jester" for lack of a better word in order to decrease the woman's anxiety around him, and so the opposite also applies, the 5'11 pretty boy has to be more serious and less of a "jester" in order for the woman to not see him as an equal or a turn off, so I think what would serve you well is working on your ability to get women more into the state of play to decrease their anxiety around you, looks matter significantly but game also matters

That is actually a great advice. Thanks man,have a great day

 

[aircraftboi]

No, I meant that you probably looked more like a twink at 15 than you do now at 18. That's why girls liked you more.

Yeah I looked like a little junkie twink. I was also alcoholic so idk. Maybe girls like that lifestyle

 

[aircraftboi]

you think so? on tiktok i see many good looking dudes getting approached by gitls tbh

Lot of those videos are staged bhai. Even when woman approach really rarely they only approach chads

 

[Jaynoyn523]

you think so? on tiktok i see many good looking dudes getting approached by gitls tbh

yeah but you have to remember that it’s tiktok, that’s the same reason you only see people who are successful ok tiktok, the reason you only see success stories on tiktok, in reality people fail more than people succeed and so similar to this context women far more often don’t approach rather than choosing to approach

 

[Jaynoyn523]

That is actually a great advice. Thanks man,have a great day

you’re welcome bro, good luck with women.

 

[eclipsoo]

yeah but you have to remember that it’s tiktok, that’s the same reason you only see people who are successful ok tiktok, the reason you only see success stories on tiktok, in reality people fail more than people succeed and so similar to this context women far more often don’t approach rather than choosing to approach

can you rate me on a real life rating? i could send u my pic

 

[Jaynoyn523]

can you rate me on a real life rating? i could send u my pic

yeah sure dm me