Girls only go out with me cause they want an emotional tampon

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and their looks level doesnt matter in the slightest. I went out with an objectively ugly girl a few days ago and she just wanted to someone to vent to about exams and other stuff that bothered her. Absolutely 0 sexual interest on her side whatsoever.

And its always the same case with every girl. These bitches just use me as a free therapist or smth. One girl complains about work, another complains about getting her degree, next one is sad cuz she is a failure etc. and there always happens that a guy (Me) is there to listen to their shit.

This has been going on for years. It doesnt even matter where i meet these girls from, their intentions are always the same. Whine to the incel about random stuff then throw him away. Different girl, same story. I never met a girl that was down to fuck ever, sex literally doesnt exist as a thought when they got me in front of them.

Its tiring and frustrating, imagine wasting your time looksmaxxing and doing other things, as well as having to go trhough mental gymnastics to get these "dates" only to feel like a completely idiot while on them. What a waste of time. Meanwhile most of these girls have been ravaged by several guys at once.
 
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damn lil bro you write long ah paragraphs
 
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Be grateful that you’re an emotional tampon. That’s the only thing you can get tbh. Embrace it
 
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thats the best part 😍
 
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use or be used, objectify them first so you won’t be used like that even if they rejected you that’s still better than being emotional tampon
 
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use or be used, objectify them first so you won’t be used like that even if they rejected you that’s still better than being emotional tampon
why cant i have a normal relationship?
 
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Your posts give me depression ngl
 
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why cant i have a normal relationship?
You’re abnormal. No relationships for abnormal people, let alone having a normal one.
 
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This is me to an extent.

What are your conversations/vibes like? You’re probably lacking any sort of sexual aggression and friendzoning yourself from the start. You need to flirt from the start and set the stage
 
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Ik how much it sucks too. Unironcally you need to befriend aggressive males who slay and observe how they are, it’ll rub off on you eventually (you’re the average of your social circle)
 
wahh wahh nigga stop crying already
 
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What are your conversations/vibes like? You’re probably lacking any sort of sexual aggression and friendzoning yourself from the start. You need to flirt from the start and set the stage
tbh the girls are always a bit flirty on text but as soon as we meet it goes away. though most of the girls arent rly interested anyway "im not gonna fuck him so might as well have an emotional tampon session tehehe:
 
Unironcally you need to befriend aggressive males who slay and observe how they are
they get approached first man. i never met anyone who has to initiate everything like i do.
 
and their looks level doesnt matter in the slightest. I went out with an objectively ugly girl a few days ago and she just wanted to someone to vent to about exams and other stuff that bothered her. Absolutely 0 sexual interest on her side whatsoever.

And its always the same case with every girl. These bitches just use me as a free therapist or smth. One girl complains about work, another complains about getting her degree, next one is sad cuz she is a failure etc. and there always happens that a guy (Me) is there to listen to their shit.

This has been going on for years. It doesnt even matter where i meet these girls from, their intentions are always the same. Whine to the incel about random stuff then throw him away. Different girl, same story. I never met a girl that was down to fuck ever, sex literally doesnt exist as a thought when they got me in front of them.

Its tiring and frustrating, imagine wasting your time looksmaxxing and doing other things, as well as having to go trhough mental gymnastics to get these "dates" only to feel like a completely idiot while on them. What a waste of time. Meanwhile most of these girls have been ravaged by several guys at once.
Girls just lead us on when they’re bored or need attention , attention is equal to sex for a man
 
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tbh the girls are always a bit flirty on text but as soon as we meet it goes away. though most of the girls arent rly interested anyway "im not gonna fuck him so might as well have an emotional tampon session tehehe:
thats cause you have no rizz and you have to be flirty from the start
girls dont go on dates with guys they find unattractive
your just a autist
 
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drugs and rape in Minecraft
 
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she just wanted to vent about exams and over disapointment
thats your fault then lol
i wouldve got up and left halfway through
your a cuck for sitting there and listening
 
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thats your fault then lol
i wouldve got up and left halfway through
your a cuck for sitting there and listening
but this happens every time
 
use or be used, objectify them first so you won’t be used like that even if they rejected you that’s still better than being emotional tampon
This cuck is incapable of doing that. That's like asking a cat to fly.
 
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Havent talked to a girl outside of home or work for 3 months

Idgaf
 
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youre a beta
 
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id just have been instantly rejected that way. no difference
Ofc it makes no difference to you since you have no dignity whatsoever to begin with.
 
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Ofc it makes no difference to you since you have no dignity whatsoever to begin with.
probably would have saved me couple of euros and mental health
 
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id just have been instantly rejected that way. no difference
same

they use me as a cuck on the first-date, i escalate with touch/kissing, and then get rejected and told to go home.

u need to be chad to be treated like a human being by women.
 
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man I think I saw one picture of you in 3/4 and you looked decent
 
At this point just create an account on .is
 
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i escalate with touch/kissing, and then get rejected and told to go home.
literally what my oneitis did with me after i touched her back. "why dont you go home play with your bass buddy?", absolutely 0 tolerance
 
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literally what my oneitis did with me after i touched her back. "why dont you go home play with your bass buddy?", absolutely 0 tolerance
Exactly. They will push me away if I get physical.

It's so fucking over.
 
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girls dont go out w me
 
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probably would have saved me couple of euros and mental health
Let's just agree that it would only save you a couple of euros.
 
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This is the classic nice guy effect people talk about.

If you’re not flirty/not sexual from the start you’re gonna get boxed as a cuck orbiter. Maybe, MAYBE best case scenario she breaks the glass and lets you dick her down when she’s super desperate once which proves how much control she weilds over you.

Also, stop listening in on foids when they vent about problems. They merely use their “guy friends” for attention. Just start grey rocking and move on.
 
What’s funny is you can’t really hate on foids for doing this when you observe men that get trapped in this.

They’re too high inhib to be sexually aggressive, covertly play the long game by being a friend and leading the foid to believe that, then wonder why they’re friendzoned and wonder why women treat them as emotional tampons jfl
 
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tamponmaxxing
 
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This is the classic nice guy effect people talk about.

If you’re not flirty/not sexual from the start you’re gonna get boxed as a cuck orbiter. Maybe, MAYBE best case scenario she breaks the glass and lets you dick her down when she’s super desperate once which proves how much control she weilds over you.

Also, stop listening in on foids when they vent about problems. They merely use their “guy friends” for attention. Just start grey rocking and move on.
Cope. If she isnt attracted to you to begin with no amount of muh flirting will change that
 
If you’re not flirty/not sexual from the start you’re gonna get boxed as a cuck orbiter. Maybe, MAYBE best case scenario she breaks the glass and lets you dick her down when she’s super desperate once which proves how much control she weilds over you.
if i did that i would have gone out with 0 girls
 
What’s funny is you can’t really hate on foids for doing this when you observe men that get trapped in this.

They’re too high inhib to be sexually aggressive, covertly play the long game by being a friend and leading the foid to believe that, then wonder why they’re friendzoned and wonder why women treat them as emotional tampons jfl
i have been sexually agreessive buddy
 

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