Girls won't approach you

[klip11]

Most women expect some sort of effort tbh

Squirtle! Give blackgymmaxx dat belly

 

[Deleted member 52057]

Approaching itself and asking for your insta = I’m attracted to you

Well I wouldn't be 100% sure a girl is attracted to me if she does that
And that's my problem lol. It's important to know the meaning of these things

 

[Enlil]

u in school guys? lol

 

[klip11]

Nah. I’ve seen foids kissing the guys without them making a move in hs. “Muh, you have to make the physical contact bro.”

I think your name is Aunt Harriet

 

[Deleted member 52057]

u in school guys? lol

I wish

 

[Nick.Harte]

Well I wouldn't be 100% sure a girl is attracted to me if she does that
And that's my problem lol. It's important to know the meaning of these things

She wanna keep in touch and see your profile.

 

[Nick.Harte]

I think your name is Aunt Harriet

Why ?

 

[mogstars]

Most people's problem here isn't looks, but being fragile narcies.

Yes bro, they just need to watch more PUA courses!!

It’s your personality bro!!

You’ve been here since 2013 and still learned nothing…

 

[klip11]

Why ?

Because Batman

 

[Nick.Harte]

Yes bro, they just need to watch more PUA courses!!

It’s your personality bro!!

You’ve been here since 2013 and still learned nothing…

Copium overdose

 

[Nick.Harte]

Because Batman

Tf I don’t get it

 

[New Poster]

Yes bro, they just need to watch more PUA courses!!

It’s your personality bro!!

You’ve been here since 2013 and still learned nothing…

no, you're right bro. keep looksmaxxing and waiting for girls to notice you. that's really working for people here.

 

[Akhi]

Nah. I’ve seen foids kissing the guys without them making a move in hs. “Muh, you have to make the physical contact bro.”

maybe in high school and even then girls would prefer if the guy got some balls and initiated

after high school this doesnt work, get some experience with older women and youll agree

 

[nofap]

Girls approach. In direct and indirect ways. More often it will be indirect and somewhat subtle but in outdoor settings like bars and clubs some whores will legit throw themselves at you. Of course if ur chadlite+ or tall HTN+

True most of the time it will be indirect, but some hoes legit make it straight up known that they want you. Must say doesn’t happen everytime i go out with my chad and chadlite mate, every so often and once in a while they’ll get approached or women throwing themselves at them, it’s not a usual occurrence. Sometimes they also go home as broken incels crying about being subhuman

 

[futureashtray]

I agree with what lasacrko said. Even if you are 6, don't expect girls approaching you. Even boomers say guys are the ones approaching the girl and not vice-versa.

I look good enough to get in a relationship. At the school only gheto girls were the ones approaching me. Be aware of that, very important. Sluts are the ones that approach guys.

I mogged my classroom. Some girls called me cute but that's it, they didn't make the next move. Most girls are shy to confess they "love you". Which is good.

If you're very good looking girls will obviously simp for you, but they will also expect you to do the next move. But still it's not impossible some "quality" girl approaches you. But it's like waiting to get lightning struck, it's unlikely.

So you have to wait for the "signals" the girl makes and do the next step and there you go, your first girlfriend. And then Tyrone arrives to the school but that's another matter...

idk why but for some reason I just can’t ask any girl out anymore. the fear of you getting rejected is strong, but the fear of that girl telling others that she rejected you and that you’re a loser or some shit is even worse

 

[Deleted member 52057]

She wanna keep in touch and see your profile.

I guess I have to make an jewstagram account and give my personal information to zuck. Damn
Literally 1984

 

[klip11]

Tf I don’t get it

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

nah i've been approached by foids in parties on several occasions
some started just by chatting, others pulled me to dance, and some even just went like 'hey wanna make out?'
or just straight up kissed me after a couple words of chit chat (usually low inhib zoomers in their late teens)

 

[Deleted member 22888]

True most of the time it will be indirect, but some hoes legit make it straight up known that they want you. Must say doesn’t happen everytime i go out with my chad and chadlite mate, every so often and once in a while they’ll get approached or women throwing themselves at them, it’s not a usual occurrence. Sometimes they also go home as broken incels crying about being subhuman

Interesting. TBH alot of girls also due to ego or lack of confidence wont approach a chad directly. They want to be the ones that get approached. But what I'm saying is it does happen if ur good looking enough but ur right def not as often as everyone thinks unless u have some status halo or some shit like that

 

[Nick.Harte]

maybe in high school and even then girls would prefer if the guy got some balls and initiated

after high school this doesnt work, get some experience with older women and youll agree

Muh older women. Seem a lot of vids on YouTube where the foids approach the tall guys and give their numbers and message them “ come smash me”.

 

[Deleted member 52057]

idk why but for some reason I just can’t ask any girl out anymore. the fear of you getting rejected is strong, but the fear of that girl telling others that she rejected you and that you’re a loser or some shit is even worse

it's reasonable

 

[The Grinch]

They do approach, they do ask out, they do borderline simp for guys, just not for you. Stop acting like your reality applies to everyone else.

 

[Akhi]

Muh older women. Seem a lot of vids on YouTube where the foids approach the tall guys and give their numbers and message them “ come smash me”.

link please

 

[Deleted member 52057]

nah i've been approached by foids in parties on several occasions
some started just by chatting, others pulled me to dance, and some even just went like 'hey wanna make out?'
or just straight up kissed me after a couple words of chit chat

that's normal it's a party
That's why people go to parties (and to get drunk too)

 

[Nick.Harte]

They do approach, they do ask out, they do borderline simp for guys, just not for you. Stop acting like your reality applies to everyone else.

This

 

[Nick.Harte]

link please

I’ll send you if I find em again. I watched these vids in early 2023 ig

 

[futureashtray]

All lies, if you were Chad you would ask out. Also if you were Chad, you would have a harem of girls to talk to everyday since elementary school so social skills with girl would be good

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

that's normal it's a party
That's why people go to parties (and to get drunk too)

yeah parties are a whole diff thing
irl foids never approached me tbh they always wait for you to do the move

in parties even mtn get regularly approached by mtb foids

 

[MoggerGaston]

cope you are just ugly

I am sorry I didn't want to be mean.

A minority of girls will approach you if you are good-looking. But most girls are too high inhib and will just stare/smile/give ioi.

but if you are as ugly as me then you will not even get stares/smiles/ioi

 

[mogstars]

no, you're right bro. keep looksmaxxing and waiting for girls to notice you. that's really working for people here.

Strawman, you have to approach when you’re desirable aka. Looks.

So the biggest problem is looks. If people here were born with looks + height they wouldn’t be on this website.

But keep coping to delude yourself that you’re not a genetic failure after spending 11 years on incel forums.

 

[New Poster]

Strawman, you have to approach when you’re desirable aka. Looks.

So the biggest problem is looks. If people here were born with looks + height they wouldn’t be on this website.

But keep coping to delude yourself that you’re not a genetic failure after spending 11 years on incel forums.

the strawman is thinking that saying you should approach means that looks don't matter

 

[nofap]

Interesting. TBH alot of girls also due to ego or lack of confidence wont approach a chad directly. They want to be the ones that get approached. But what I'm saying is it does happen if ur good looking enough but ur right def not as often as everyone thinks unless u have some status halo or some shit like that

I have a former chad mate, who’s the best looking guy I’ve ever seen irl. And he doesn’t gets approached that often, but he gets started at very frequently when going out. He told me when he approaches even he gets rejected 8 out of ten times. But the shit I’ve seen and experienced with him is insane

 

[BongMog]

Girls approach you if you are approachable

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

I have a former chad mate, who’s the best looking guy I’ve ever seen irl. And he doesn’t gets approached that often, but he gets started at very frequently when going out. He told me when he approaches even he gets rejected 8 out of ten times. But the shit I’ve seen and experienced with him is insane

Tell some stories

 

[Deleted member 67900]

I agree with what lasacrko said. Even if you are 6, don't expect girls approaching you. Even boomers say guys are the ones approaching the girl and not vice-versa.

I look good enough to get in a relationship. At the school only gheto girls were the ones approaching me. Be aware of that, very important. Sluts are the ones that approach guys.

I mogged my classroom. Some girls called me cute but that's it, they didn't make the next move. Most girls are shy to confess they "love you". Which is good.

If you're very good looking girls will obviously simp for you, but they will also expect you to do the next move. But still it's not impossible some "quality" girl approaches you. But it's like waiting to get lightning struck, it's unlikely.

So you have to wait for the "signals" the girl makes and do the next step and there you go, your first girlfriend. And then Tyrone arrives to the school but that's another matter...

In my case I don't know if I was the one that approached or if she was the one that approached, I was talking to her the whole time but she was the first one to tell me that she likes me (I actually liked her really since the beginning of the chat)

 

[Deleted member 67900]

Girls approach you if you are approachable

I think that includes being NT but if the girl herself is non-nt they approach whoever hits their vibe, which is why girls generally approach people that "match their vibe" but people say be nt because most girls are nt, even tho debatable.

 

[einzigartig]

also it's cope that good looking ogres are unappealing to women, most of randy ortons fans are literally young women

i mean he is good looking but he also has status

its the same with adam driver people find him good looking just cause he has status without it girls wouldn't even see him

 

[Deleted member 42240]

One time a girl approached me and she didn't seem like the slutty type

 

[MostGLSlayer]

A girl sat on my lap and started touching my arms and hair a lot. Then we made out. That was the strongest approach I’ve ever had.

 

[Deleted member 89153]

They do approach
Go out with some chadlites and you’ll see for yourself

In clubs and bars they do i haven't seen a chadlite getting approached in daylight

 

[edodalic29]

yeah, the idea that you're going to looksmax to the point where you get approached for easy sex by strangers is delusional. You can get women occassionally approaching and testing the waters, but you still need to do 99% of the work

BUT WHYYYYYYY
WHY AM I OUT HERE GETTING SURGERIES N SHIT FOR

 

[Never Get Up]

Approaching women is low T.

They should be coming to you to drain your semen out of your balls.

Women know when a guy has options, hence won’t avoid the chance to not talk to him.

If you aren’t being approached, then you’re ugly and or short.