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[Vanta1]

been talking to this girl for over 2 months and i feel like a rebound or just someone to be used to keep her occupied. we've definitely done things together but sometimes when i look at her phone i see multiple guys on her snap and sometimes she hides her phone, but still she says she loves me so its just confusing atp. like we call everyday but when we dont call she treats me pretty much like a stranger, she says she loves talking to me how safe she feels and loves how close we are. just confusing me
any advice, am i just overthinking?

 

[Deleted member 353913]

been talking to this girl for over 2 months and i feel like a rebound or just someone to be used to keep her occupied. we've definitely done things together but sometimes when i look at her phone i see multiple guys on her snap and sometimes she hides her phone, but still she says she loves me so its just confusing atp. any advice, am i just overthinking?

Shes looking for a better one

 

[Dashie]

ur over thinking my nigga

 

[Vanta1]

Shes looking for a better one

ur over thinking my nigga

i honestly hope so

 

[Vanta1]

ur over thinking my nigga

i see what your saying but she wants to call me everyday and her attention goes towards me so i hope its nothing

 

[Dashie]

i honestly hope so

just go with the flow brother dw

 

[thekidd8]

Are you a rebound? Did she just get out of a relationship? If so you are indeed a rebound.

Also yall are talking, nothing exclusive yet so she will keep other guys as back up. Don’t let this discourage you, you have to keep other girls on backup as well.

If you want it to be exclusive you have to let it be known, if she has a problem with that leave her ass nigga

 

[Vanta1]

just go with the flow brother dw

thanks bro i appreciate it

 

[Vanta1]

Are you a rebound? Did she just get out of a relationship? If so you are indeed a rebound.

Also yall are talking, nothing exclusive yet so she will keep other guys as back up. Don’t let this discourage you, you have to keep other girls on backup as well.

well she started talking to me like two weeks before she broke up with her ex and then i saw a guy that had a streak that lined up from around the time she broke up w the ex. that same ex asked her if she was getting with the guy she had a streak with

 

[Vanta1]

bump

 

[thekidd8]

well she started talking to me like two weeks before she broke up with her ex and then i saw a guy that had a streak that lined up from around the time she broke up w the ex. that same ex asked her if she was getting with the guy she had a streak with

Homie you sound young, she started engaging with you when she was already in a relationship. That is the worst red flag possible in a woman.

if you just want to fuck then that shit don’t matter, and you shouldn’t give a fuck about her or who she’s talking to

But it sounds like you’re starting to catch feelings. This is not a woman you want a relationship with. Trust. Leave her alone.

 

[Vanta1]

Homie you sound young, she started engaging with you when she was already in a relationship. That is the worst red flag possible in a woman.

if you just want to fuck then that shit don’t matter, and you shouldn’t give a fuck about her or who she’s talking to

But it sounds like you’re starting to catch feelings. This is not a woman you want a relationship with. Trust. Leave her alone.

hardest thing to do, i need her to leave me

 

[Vanta1]

bump

 

[snake719]

been talking to this girl for over 2 months and i feel like a rebound or just someone to be used to keep her occupied. we've definitely done things together but sometimes when i look at her phone i see multiple guys on her snap and sometimes she hides her phone, but still she says she loves me so its just confusing atp. any advice, am i just overthinking?

All girls the same brotha, sadly the truth is she most likely a hoe and would cheat in a second.

 

[Vanta1]

All girls the same brotha, sadly the truth is she most likely a hoe and would cheat in a second.

sadly thats what its looking like if we end up getting serious

 

[Vanta1]

bump

 

[snake719]

sadly thats what its looking like if we end up getting serious

Always gonna be another guy unfortunately, I have experienced this too many times now it’s just getting to the point where it’s a waist of time cause there all the same.
If u tryna go in there with the mindset and try to actually get in a real relationship, going to be very disappointed most of the time.

Stupid foids man

 

[Vanta1]

exactly brother

 

[Vanta1]

bump

 

[Vanta1]

bump

 

[Vanta1]

she also went to a party last week and i didnt go, she calls me the next day and says "i didnt kiss anyone are you proud of me?"
later she was screensharing and went into her friends messages and i saw a previous text saying "nobody knows you kissed him" i honestly dont know what to think i was actually proud of her and then 10 mins later its all gone and i have no clue who the guy was

 

[secretAscendAnon]

ur over thinking my nigga

Setting him up for failure

 

[Vanta1]

Setting him up for failure

am i or not

 

[secretAscendAnon]

am i or not

Shes cheating allready, just confront her or even better just leave her

 

[Vanta1]

Shes cheating allready, just confront her or even better just leave her

we arent exclusive though, i feel i just gotta let it play out

 

[secretAscendAnon]

we arent exclusive though, i feel i just gotta let it play out

If ur a cuck ur gonna let it play out

 

[Vanta1]

If ur a cuck ur gonna let it play out

cunt i cant just fucking pack my bags and leave shes got the shortest temper she'll try put shit on me straight away

 

[Deleted member 259412]

You are a rebound
If you weren’t emotionally invested in her, that wouldn’t be a problem, but you are

Ghost her

 

[secretAscendAnon]

cunt i cant just fucking pack my bags and leave shes got the shortest temper she'll try put shit on me straight away

"Love makes blind" is a pretty common saying. Ur just trying to cope ur way out with shit like
"Ill just let it play out while she is being fucked by 2 other guys"
Just accept it and leave

 

[Rick_bozo]

Always clav fans have negative rep ratio

 

[Vanta1]

"Love makes blind" is a pretty common saying. Ur just trying to cope ur way out with shit like
"Ill just let it play out while she is being fucked by 2 other guys"
Just accept it and leave

gotcha

 

[Vanta1]

Always clav fans have negative rep ratio

sorry champ if you want it to stay down then fuck off

 

[Rick_bozo]

sorry champ if you want it to stay down then fuck off

maybe post better content

 

[Vanta1]

maybe post better content

oh ofc thanks for telling me

 

[Vanta1]

bump

 

[Vanta1]

bump

 

[lumified]

been talking to this girl for over 2 months and i feel like a rebound or just someone to be used to keep her occupied. we've definitely done things together but sometimes when i look at her phone i see multiple guys on her snap and sometimes she hides her phone, but still she says she loves me so its just confusing atp. like we call everyday but when we dont call she treats me pretty much like a stranger, she says she loves talking to me how safe she feels and loves how close we are. just confusing me
any advice, am i just overthinking?

crazy how I fully understand you. I thought I was overthinking and I was right ur prolly overthinking bhai

 

[Vanta1]

crazy how I fully understand you. I thought I was overthinking and I was right ur prolly overthinking bhai

very reassuring thank you

 

[Throw_Away]

ur over thinking my nigga

i honestly hope so

You're gonna learn the hard way bro

 

[Deleted member 56666]

she wants tyrone

 

[Vanta1]

You're gonna learn the hard way bro

what shall i do then

 

[fraudislaw]

ltn issues

 

[Vanta1]

ltn issues

yeah you got it

 

[Vanta1]

bump

 

[Throw_Away]

what shall i do then

Slay her and ghost. If you're afraid she's gonna blackmail you or whatever you implied up there, just get some dirt on her. She's obviously a whore who's using you for attention/as an outlet, you're not overthinking shit lol

 

[Vanta1]

Slay her and ghost. If you're afraid she's gonna blackmail you or whatever you implied up there, just get some dirt on her. She's obviously a whore who's using you for attention/as an outlet, you're not overthinking shit lol

i do have some vids, but at what cost she most likely has the same shit

 

[Vanta1]

bump

 

[Vanta1]

she wants tyrone

elaborate

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

been talking to this girl for over 2 months and i feel like a rebound or just someone to be used to keep her occupied. we've definitely done things together but sometimes when i look at her phone i see multiple guys on her snap and sometimes she hides her phone, but still she says she loves me so its just confusing atp. like we call everyday but when we dont call she treats me pretty much like a stranger, she says she loves talking to me how safe she feels and loves how close we are. just confusing me
any advice, am i just overthinking?

what do you mean by any advice?

 

[Vanta1]

what do you mean by any advice?

like what shall i do about this yk